Milani has GILDED SHADOW STICKs. Intense cream shimmer eyeshadow sticks inspired by the beautiful nature found in our national parks. These effortless, multi-tasking, on-the-go sticks glide on smoothly and can be used as an all-over shadow or a liner
At long last, I finally found the one I've been searching for. I guess it's an oldie, but goody. Bobbi Brown Heather Steel ~ a lilac-gray color that is perfect! Not too harsh, which was what I wanted.
Actually, I just use it as an eye liner. I just smudge it out w/ a soft, clean flat brush, and voila!