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I am attending an engagement party for my cousin tomorrow at 1:00 p.m. I am struggling with gift ideas, as I am told that an engagement party is basically a meet and greet for both families, and not gift giving.

I'm not comfortable showing up without a gift. I plan on picking up a card, along with that, does anyone have any recommendations on a small gift idea. Also, if anyone can offer advice on etiquette regarding engagement parties, I greatly appreciate it!!

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My DS and his now wife were given an engagement party last Summer, they recieved several Congratulation cards and some guests bought small gifts, and some brought nothing.

I do remember them getting a decorative wine stopper and a couple of restaraunt gift cards. Nothing was expected so anything was appreciated as was just good wishes.

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candle, picture frame, vase. (some small gift ideas)

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I bought some pretty wine glasses and put them in a woven basket with a bottle of white wine to do a toast.

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On 11/7/2014 Hi Cindy said:

I bought some pretty wine glasses and put them in a woven basket with a bottle of white wine to do a toast.

Really?

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On 11/7/2014 Hi Cindy said:

I bought some pretty wine glasses and put them in a woven basket with a bottle of white wine to do a toast.

I think they are fun!

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On 11/7/2014 Skylands said:
On 11/7/2014 Hi Cindy said:

I bought some pretty wine glasses and put them in a woven basket with a bottle of white wine to do a toast.

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Really? {#emotions_dlg.thumbdown}

LOL. Well, they are pretty.

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I wouldn't think a gift is expected. After all, you'll be taking gifts to the wedding shower and of course to the reception. But I too might feel awkward empty-handed. Maybe a bottle of wine or spirits.