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Respected Contributor
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Registered: ‎03-19-2010

@millieshops   GREAT RESPONSE.   So true.

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Registered: ‎03-09-2010

I don't even send cards. I certainly wouldn't criticize someone that sent one to me

 

If it was a snub why bother to send anything at all. I thik you are making something from nothing

 

It's Christmas let it go..peace on earth good will to men..remember?

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Registered: ‎07-07-2010

Re: insult or oversight ??

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Life is too short to worry about your name not being on a card.  Before my BIL passed, we would get cards with DH's name either misspelled or completely wrong, and generally unsigned.  We got a laugh out of it.

 

If the OP thinks this is an insult, then wait until next year and see if both names are on the card.  If not, do the same to them and there will probably be some type of response.

 

I personally feel that people who do that intentionally are not worth my time and would take them off of the list.  Only time will tell, and we have no idea of the family dynamics.  It is hard enough to keep up with our own dynamics.

The next time that I hear salt and ice together, it better be in a margarita!
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Registered: ‎03-11-2010

If they have not done it for the previous 39 years of your marriage,  I am sure it was an oversight.  I would just laugh about it.  They probably were in a hurry.  If they did labels and mail merged out of Microsoft Outlook, this could also be the reason. 

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Registered: ‎07-20-2017

@marzi 1  Was your name included on the card itself? If only your husband's name appeared on the inside of the card,  then I would consider it an insult.