What do you think?

Luvsmyfam · ‎11-26-2019

what does everyone think of this? I asked my ex husband if he would come over and put plastic on my picture window.he actually agreed for Sunday afternoon.so,do you think I should feed him lunch for his generosity?he is also invited christmas day to my house along with our daughter and grandchildren.

Junebug54 · ‎03-09-2010

It appears that you have a good relationship with him. I would say do whatever makes you feel comfortable.

sunshine45 · ‎03-09-2010

he is doing a favor for you.

i would definitely offer him some lunch.....or at the very least a cup of coffee, tea, or a cocktail.

glad to see someone else have a good relationship with their ex.

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PickyPicky3 · ‎10-22-2018

If he's remarried or living with someone I'd say pay him. If he's living alone, send him home with some good homecooked food which I'm sure he misses.

Love my grandkids · ‎11-24-2013

@Luvsmyfam Sure, why not? Even if he is remarried or "involved", it's a nice way to say thanks. A nice sandwich maybe, some coffee or a soft drink and a bit of dessert? Sounds reasonable!

Luvsmyfam · ‎11-26-2019

Yes,our daughter and 1 grandson lives with my ex.i think I will make a small crockpot of sloppy joes along with chips.no,he is not married.personally glad for that

Bhvbum · ‎07-18-2010

@Luvsmyfam wrote:
Yes,our daughter and 1 grandson lives with my ex.i think I will make a small crockpot of sloppy joes along with chips.no,he is not married.personally glad for that

He's also an adult, he can politely say no thank you. But the gesture would be kind.

mamaslittlepotato · ‎03-09-2010

That sounds like a nice lunch to show your appreciation

Love my grandkids · ‎11-24-2013

@Luvsmyfam Yum, I love sloppy joes! sounds very nice.

rms1954 · ‎06-06-2019

@Luvsmyfam wrote:
what does everyone think of this? I asked my ex husband if he would come over and put plastic on my picture window.he actually agreed for Sunday afternoon.so,do you think I should feed him lunch for his generosity?he is also invited christmas day to my house along with our daughter and grandchildren.

Doesn't matter what "everyone" thinks. If you feel compelled to thank him with lunch, up to you. No need to get approval.