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10-26-2019 08:21 PM
Recently a lady I know (she's not a close friend ) said to me "Are you tired? You look really tired." I mean, you might as well say, "you look like ******". Women don't realize how rude this is.
10-26-2019 08:23 PM
@KKJ I hate when people say that. It makes you feel ugly and worn out.
Better to say nothing or offer to buy them a coffee or lunch to bring a smile to their face.
10-26-2019 08:26 PM
Yeah, and I WASN'T tired. And when she asked me that I said no I wasn't tired, and she said "Well, you look tired." Geez!
10-26-2019 08:29 PM
someone i hadn't seen in awhile said that to me yesterday......i deal with chronic pain,,,didn't need to hear that....
10-26-2019 08:37 PM
The people who ask care about me...I don't think it's rude.
10-26-2019 08:40 PM
I am guilty of having told someone I knew they "looked tired" when I thought they did. I never thought it was offensive, as it was not intended that way, but after reading the posts here, I doubt that I ever will again. I really had no idea it could be interpreted that way, and feel bad when I think it might have been. I will be much more sensitive in the future and as my mother used to say, "keep your words to yourself".😁
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10-26-2019 08:41 PM
Yes that's right up there with telling you to smile. Grrr. 😡
10-26-2019 08:46 PM
I don't think it's rude. In fact, a comment like that may just "save a life."
Just saying............
"Never argue with a fool. Onlookers may not be able to tell the difference."
10-26-2019 08:52 PM
reading this I'd say
"oh wow, I was just thinking that about you"
but in the real world I probably wouldn't think of it until I walked away
10-26-2019 08:55 PM
@KKJ wrote:Recently a lady I know (she's not a close friend ) said to me "Are you tired? You look really tired." I mean, you might as well say, "you look like ******". Women don't realize how rude this is.
@KKJ When people tell me that, I'm pretty sure they mean it, and I'm pretty sure they're right! I have no illusions. I'm tired a lot.
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