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Early last Fall I wrote that an acquaintance took issue with me and went ballistic on me.  The cat was dying and there were financial debts in their life.

This Christmas Eve, they write and feel like talking.  I'm not too keen on chatting at present with them.  I want to enjoy my Holiday in my own way and I had put that incident behind me.  

Just thought I'd share.  

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Christmas Eve has not happened yet 

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive what could go right.
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an acquaintance is different then an actual friend ,  unless you do consider this women a friend.    Obviously she had a lot going on in her life at the time ,  not that it is ever right to go off on someone .   She probably could have apologized before now .   It does Seem she would like to at this time .  

  If you feel like hearing her out then give her a chance to do so  forgiveness is good for the heart I've found.   .  If you don't want to bother or don't feel inclined wth her not being someone you find important in your life  then don't .   


merry Christmas 

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well it is the eve of Christmas eve though 🤔

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If you want to talk I would say you will talk after new years, if you don't want to talk you can either say that or not respond.

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@Puzzle Piece 

 

Maybe in the spirit of Christmas, she wants to make things right.

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If you have put it behind you then leave it there. 

 

Not at this time is an answer.

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@Puzzle Piece   guess I don't understand the "share"

 

 

mrshckynut 

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@Puzzle Piece 

I don't think there's a wrong answer here. You just do what you're comfortable with.

I agree with the other posters, if you want to talk tell her ya'll can do so after the holidays.

But you have no obligations to talk at all, life is too short to do things out of obligation or guilt.

 

 

 

 

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@mrshckynut  This is a follow up on a share I posted last Fall.  

 

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