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[Love my grandkids]

Witchy Woman: You are a mindreader! I was thinking exactly what you posted, many thanks! I adore that rangy look, personally.

And to base any relationship based on looks is so shallow I just shake my head.

[ECBG]

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@Annabellethecat66 wrote:

Look!  Anyone who's seen my posts over on Y&R knows I like a good looking man who's ripped (my late husband was both).  Some people overlook sloppy, homely, very overweight...good for them.

I think it says something about a person if they are especially sloppy.  I don't know one thing about this guy and could care less.

All that matters is that she loves him.  People sometimes take bad pictures.  I always look like butt in pictures, maybe I do in real life(?).  

Unless you/me/us/anyone could stand face to face with this woman and ask her .....who knows why she loves him?  Really, does it matter?  She's marrying him.  Either they'll have uglified kids or beautiful kids....sometimes it's like throwing dice in the air....

I'm happy someone is happy....

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@Annabellethecat66You happen to be beautiful in pictures and have a lovely, warm smile.

[ECBG]

Maybe he has one of those amazing personalities!

 

[151949]

Clearly he makes her happy - she is smiling in the pictures. Who cares about looks?

[Annabellethecat66]

Well, as the saying goes, "There's somebody for everybody".  

Come on!  When was the last time someone said, "I just love him!  He's so homely, I just love him!

You see the person who is attracted to the unattractive person feels that he/she is attractive, therefore they STILL are attracted to that person because they feel (even though other's might not) think the person is attractive.

Does that make sense because it does to me?  In other words, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder".  

[proudlyfromNJ]

I googled more pics of him. I think he needs a shave and a haircut. Otherwise I think he is good looking. The way he has been talked about, I expected a troll.

[Sooner]

It amazes me  how some people think that because someone is wealthy they don't have emotions and feelings like the rest of humanity.  Being rich makes them unfeeling or motivated solely by money. 

[Tinkrbl44]

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@Mistreatedbycs wrote:

Wedding soon but she's 33 and he's 41

I saw the pics and maybe it's just me but they don't look like a "couple".

To me, it's a perfect example of opposites attract.  She's beautiful and he's not so handsome.

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@Mistreatedbycs

He's British.    Some people just don't photograph well.   Things didn't work out so well with good looking Nico.   Maybe she wants to be the pretty one?   LOL   Enough said.

[151949]

Many people on this board put WAY TOO MUCH emphasis on good looks. As long as a person is clean and decently dressed everything else is rather shallow. In what way does a guy being good looking make his partner happier than if he is stone cold ugly. I'd much rather be with a ugly guy who treats me well and has my same values than be with a handsome guy who is abusive and doesn't have values.

[Sooner]

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@151949 wrote:

Many people on this board put WAY TOO MUCH emphasis on good looks. As long as a person is clean and decently dressed everything else is rather shallow. In what way does a guy being good looking make his partner happier than if he is stone cold ugly. I'd much rather be with a ugly guy who treats me well and has my same values than be with a handsome guy who is abusive and doesn't have values.

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OK, I"m shallow.  To you.   But then I'd never marry someone abusive either, or who doesn't have values.