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I like to refer to it as my "Rice Krispie Age."

 

Everytime I move, my joints go snap, crackle and pop!

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@catwhisperer wrote:

@hckynut is to commended. He and his wife have been through hell with health issues, but he still has a positive attitude.

 

Yes, getting old stinks when it comes to health issues, but I choose not to sit around all day long boohooing about it on these boards like many do. How depressing.

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catwhisperer, since your attitude is mostly to be commended, maybe you could work on being less judgemental.

 

 


 

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I have no issue with getting old considering the alternative.

 


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"Dear" is patronizing.....ma'am is respectful...guess it depends on where you were raised....
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It is hard to be around others who are dismissive...but I seem to notice it happening more the older I get. I went intp a store to get another iPad case...the 20-something guy who met me at the door and followed me around treated me like I didn't have any idea why I was there....he spoke very slowly and loudly like I was hard of hearing...and questioned me as to whether I needed an iPad case or an iPhone case and did I know the difference?! I left without buying anything.  I am sure he would have never treated a younger person that way. I just ordered the case online. 

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@lovesrecess, well not being there, of course, I don't know how I'd see that.  I figure they are told how to be helpful.  It's better than some I have seen.  Maybe he just was trying to be thoughtful and nice.  Could be, he's come in contact with a few of the people that you described him behaving towards.  

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@lovesrecess wrote:

It is hard to be around others who are dismissive...but I seem to notice it happening more the older I get. I went intp a store to get another iPad case...the 20-something guy who met me at the door and followed me around treated me like I didn't have any idea why I was there....he spoke very slowly and loudly like I was hard of hearing...and questioned me as to whether I needed an iPad case or an iPhone case and did I know the difference?! I left without buying anything.  I am sure he would have never treated a younger person that way. I just ordered the case online. 


@lovesrecess.  I went in to get a new cord. I know they are usually very helpful. When I was met at the door, he pointed me to the back where the cords were which was fine. I figured he would only get someone to help me if it was a bigger purchase than a cord. Also, all the Apple stores are always super busy here.

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@hckynut, I have no doubt my aunt would have liked to have met you, too. She loved animals, and I know you and your wife are cat people.

You sound so much like my dad, being a friendly guy, starting conversations with folks....I know you must meet a lot of interesting people like that.

Hope you and Cindy are doing well.

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@lovesrecess wrote:
"Dear" is patronizing.....ma'am is respectful...guess it depends on where you were raised....

What I hate here in Florida is when we have to speak to salesman - ie: selling home products like flooring etc -and they keep calling us "kids". We haven't been kids for many decades now. "Well, what can we help you kids with today?" gag!

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Dear is fine, ma'am is fine but do NOT call me "Miss" My First Name.  You will get a short and to tohe point lecture about it is disrespctrul except to very old women and three-year-old little girls.  

 

You don't call grown men Mr. Bob.  Well, unless it's Mr. Bill. . . Woman Wink

 

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