Among Friends

[cotton4me]

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@KBEANS wrote:

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@Starpolisher wrote:

I need some advice on how to say No to someone.

A former co-worker is running for Board of Ed in my town. We are not close friends, more like friendly acquaintances.  She texted me and asked if she could display a campaign sign in my yard. I want to say no without causing any problems between us. What,  how should I put it? I keep my politics to myself!🤔

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How did you end up handling this? I'm curious to know. So many OP's leave us wondering. 🤔  

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@KBEANS She answered in message #12.

"Thanks everyone! I did just that! I said, " I keep my politics to myself and prefer not to display any political signs in my yard."

And I wished her well with the upcoming election. 

I heard back from her and she said, "Thank you. I understand."

So that's that! Thanks again everyone!"

[KBEANS]

@cotton4me 

Thanks! How the hay did I miss it? I read the whole thread! so I thought. 😂 

[NYC Susan]

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@dmod nj wrote:

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@Sooner wrote:

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@ECBG wrote:

I was in a store once and heard the best answer I have would never, even thought of to people whom bring things up that you feel backed into a corner with.

Just say "I am sorry, but I am not comfortable with this conversation.".

You could say "I'm sorry, I am not comfortable advertising (or having signs in my yard).".

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@ECBG Excellent but why not eliminate the "I'm sorry. . . ?"  I'm saying this because I am old and cranky.  

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Really good responses from everyone!  

I've used this one many times...I'll excuse you for asking, if you excuse me for not answering.   

It's from an old Ann Landers column. 

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I think that response is appropriate if the person is asking a question that's rude or none of their business.  But this is simply a request, and doesn't deserve a response that's snarky.

"I'm sorry.  I'd rather not." said firmly and with a smile is all that's required.  I would also wish her luck.  Saying no can be done nicely.