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04-08-2017 04:30 PM
She was so upset.Her son is graduating from medical school.He sent her an email that he only was able to get 2 tickets to his graduation.He is giving one to his girlfriend & his parents have to decide which one of them gets to go!
She was so upset.She said that her & her DH decided that they either both go or nobody goes.She & her husband have been wonderful parents.He grew up very close to them.They paid for his very expensive college education.He got a partial scholarship to med school & took out a loan for the rest.My friend got him a car & gives him $1000 a month for his portion of his rent/ living expenses.
She asked me what I thought. I told her I would have said the same thing.After all she & her DH were with him from the start on his journey through school beginning with kindergarten! His girlfriend has been in his life for 3 years.She's a teacher.She makes good money.She hasn't offered him a dime.Whenever he needed help or advice he always went to his parents.
Was I wrong to agree with my friend? I feel that they should both be there to celebrate his accomplishment.He would never have gotten that far if not for their emotional & financial support!!
04-08-2017 04:34 PM
FWIW, I agree with you and her. He needs to see the bigger picture and his parents are BOTH entitled to tickets to his graduation. Time to think with his big head.
04-08-2017 04:35 PM - edited 04-08-2017 04:40 PM
His parents need to go . If I was his parents, I would be so upset. That is his girlfriend, not his wife. If he marries her down the road, there will be resentment.
04-08-2017 04:37 PM
I agree - her son should have asked both his parents.
04-08-2017 04:39 PM
Definitely the parents should attend.
04-08-2017 04:39 PM
The Dad should be the one to "discuss" this 'one ticket' situation with the Son, via Skype or phone ... the tickets should go to the parents ... the girl friend can go out to dinner with the family to celebrate.
04-08-2017 04:42 PM
IMHO, he's a spoiled brat! Tell her to send a written reply refusing to attend along with a billing invoice for all college expenses, including living expenses up to the date of graduation. Also include written notice showing interest rate on amounts outstanding if not paid in full within thirty days of his graduation.
What state is he in? I'd never go to such a self-absorbed doctor!
04-08-2017 04:43 PM
Here is what her e-mail to her son should say:
We have been wonderful parents. We thought that we were a close family. We paid for your very expensive college education. We got you a car & give you $1000 a month for your portion of your rent/ living expenses. Either we both will be there to celebrate or neither will be there.
This is my opinion: Since his girlfriend is a teacher, she certainly should understand that his parents should definitely be at their son's graduation. To take their place at this exciting time shows that she is selfish and that never gets better. If she is too immature to understand this, then he needs to end the relationship. He will come to regret the decision if he goes with the gf instead of his parents.
04-08-2017 04:44 PM
Very interesting. Lets say the parents were divorced and both re-married who gets to go? This is like @ the hospital when our grandbaby was born only 2 @ a time. Well blood grandma wanted to see "my grandbaby first", well she went in alone!
I say this is weird that he only gets 2 tickets, but I know they have a limit. Parents are forever and girlfriends come & go! I vote parents!
04-08-2017 04:45 PM - edited 04-08-2017 04:48 PM
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