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04-23-2017 10:41 AM
YOU see it as entitlement, most people here don't. It's much ado about nothing. You had control of the situation, you just didn't take it.
Children aren't just short adults. Not surprisingly, they act rambunctious often and they always have. This is nothing new.
04-23-2017 10:45 AM
@ECBG, this identical scenario happened to me the other day when I was standing in line at the checkout counter.
I couldn't believe it.
04-23-2017 12:20 PM
@ECBG wrote:
@Trinity11 wrote:Respectfully, I see this as a rambunctious little girl who probably never saw you.
@Trinity11The way it happened, she ran and cut in front of me as I turned to go to the door. She most definately saw me.
Then you needed to assert yourself and tell her that she was cutting ahead in the line. This was your opportunity to teach her a life lesson. She probably has no adult that has taught her proper manners. @ECBG, didn't you once post you were a teacher? This was an opportunity missed...
04-23-2017 12:23 PM
@Noel7 wrote:
YOU see it as entitlement, most people here don't. It's much ado about nothing. You had control of the situation, you just didn't take it.
Children aren't just short adults. Not surprisingly, they act rambunctious often and they always have. This is nothing new.
@Noel7,Thanks. If you'll reread my post, my intent was to point out that "grandmother" didn't correct the child on her rude behavior.
04-23-2017 12:27 PM
@Trinity11 wrote:
@ECBG wrote:
@Trinity11 wrote:Respectfully, I see this as a rambunctious little girl who probably never saw you.
@Trinity11The way it happened, she ran and cut in front of me as I turned to go to the door. She most definately saw me.
Then you needed to assert yourself and tell her that she was cutting ahead in the line. This was your opportunity to teach her a life lesson. She probably has no adult that has taught her proper manners. @ECBG, didn't you once post you were a teacher? This was an opportunity missed...
@Trinity11,Thank you. I did teach for 36 years and didn't feel it was my place to correct a child that wasn't mine or had her grandmother right there. Also, I don't think it was the kind thing to do in the extremely crowded waiting room.
04-23-2017 12:31 PM
@ECBG wrote:
@Trinity11 wrote:
@ECBG wrote:
@Trinity11 wrote:Respectfully, I see this as a rambunctious little girl who probably never saw you.
@Trinity11The way it happened, she ran and cut in front of me as I turned to go to the door. She most definately saw me.
Then you needed to assert yourself and tell her that she was cutting ahead in the line. This was your opportunity to teach her a life lesson. She probably has no adult that has taught her proper manners. @ECBG, didn't you once post you were a teacher? This was an opportunity missed...
@Trinity11,Thank you. I did teach for 36 years and didn't feel it was my place to correct a child that wasn't mine or had her grandmother right there. Also, I don't think it was the kind thing to do in the extremely crowded waiting room.
I guess I just see it differently. I love kids but if one cut ahead of me in a line with their grandmother I would speak up and assert myself. Clearly, if you allowed yourself to be scrutinized here, this bothered you. I don't see it as your being kind or it's unkind to speak up.
04-23-2017 12:40 PM - edited 04-23-2017 02:20 PM
04-23-2017 12:51 PM
@Jewel22 wrote:I think the grandmother told the girl to run and get in line fast. That's how cynical I've become.
OMG @Janey2 I immediately thought this to myself when I read the OP's post. I had this happen recently to me at the grocery store but in this case it was a young mother with no manners who told her boy to get in front of me on the line!!!!
04-23-2017 01:06 PM
@dooBdoo, Great discussion. Thanks for your input. Definately, "Grandmother" missed her opening and as the adult responsible for that child she should have instructed the child to get in line with her.
In relation to the child's age, I believe that positive values should be taught as well as modeled from the earliest opportunity. The longer negative behavior goes on the more difficult it is to correct. It would seem that entitlement goes hand in hand with treating others the same way we wish to be treated.
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