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I'm so so sorry. May the memories of the special folks you have lost bring you a bit of comfort. Praying for you to have peace.

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I am very sorry you have to go through such a difficult time. Losing three people who meant so much to you in a short time is a tremendous loss. In time, I know you will find comfort in remembering the joyful times and happiness you were part of their life and they were part of yours.  God bless.

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@Desert Lily

 

I just have no words to convey my deepest sympathy. 😢

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What @BirdieGal said.

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Please accept my condolences on the loss of your loved ones.    I am glad you had the chance to say "goodbye" to your dear friend.  We don't always have that chance and I know how important it is to be able to say goodbuy.

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@Big Sister

 

I never got to say goodbye to my Mother, she passed two years ago. I saw my dad right afterwards. We had a nice visit. I went home.

 

He passed a week and a half later. 💔

 

I could not get there in time...(I live 12 hours away) I was the last person he spoke with. I was on the phone with him as he passed. 

 

Haunts me.

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@Desert Lily, I’m so sorry. Sending you (((Hugs))), losing 3 important people so close together Can be very hard. Wishing you peace and love. 

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@Desert Lily

 

So sad for your loss.  

 

Don't be afraid to ask for help, you have a big burden of loss and grief to deal with.

 

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My deepest sympathy for your loss.  I know the pain, you will shed tears, you will feel lost, but the memories will comfort you in time.  I know this because I lost three of my closest and dearest friends to breast cancer.  One friendship was 15 years, one was 35 years and one was 65 years.  Two passed in 2011 and one in 1993 and I still miss them terribly but I have wonderful and fond memories to sustain the loss.  Bless you, stay strong.

The moving finger writes; And having writ, Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line Nor all your Tears Wash out a Word of it. Omar Khayam
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@Desert Lily- sending my deepest sympathies to you on the loss of your best friend.  Reading your post brought tears to my eyes.

 

I have two best friends.  The 3 of us have been best friends since 1970.  I'd be lost without them, so I'm so sorry for your loss.  It's a deep one.

 

And then the loss of your mom and your significant other.  I'm just really sorry.

 


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