Husband texting other women

BoGo7 · ‎12-01-2016

Does this bother any body besides me?

My DH was texting an "old-coworker" until I stopped it. Messages became very flirtatious ... and I thought he crossed-the-line," Not ever checking his phone, one day I grabbed his cell to check the WeatherApp, and saw his last post on the bottom of the screen. Naturally, I got the "we're just kidding around / just old friends BS."

What would you do? He's 63~!

CrazyDaisy · ‎03-20-2010

You either trust him or you don't

Someday, when scientists discover the center of the Universe....some people will be disappointed it is not them.

sunshine45 · ‎03-09-2010

well, you either trust him or you dont.

if you dont, then you have to find a way to find out if something is really going on.

if something is going on and he things you know then he will start communicating with her in other ways OR deleting his text messages.

you can also check cell phone records to see just how much "communication" is going on......if you are on the same account.

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Peaches McPhee · ‎04-19-2010

Honestly, I think it matters 100% what they were texting. "Personable" doesn't really say much.

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Citrine1 · ‎03-09-2010

@Peaches McPhee wrote:
Honestly, I think it matters 100% what they were texting. "Personable" doesn't really say much.

I agree. The opening post isn't specific enough.

Katcat1 · ‎07-21-2011

@BoGo7 I probably would not like it. How would DH feel if you started texting an old flame? I believe it can cause problems in your marriage. He needs to text you and keep the flames burning so they say. Once trust is broken so is the marriage.

kindness is strength

shaggygirl · ‎11-24-2011

@Peaches McPhee wrote:
Honestly, I think it matters 100% what they were texting. "Personable" doesn't really say much.

@Peaches McPhee Agree. Personable just kind of means friendly and easy to get along with. Maybe she meant "personal" which is a whole different ball of yarn.