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Re: HOW SHOULD I HAVE HANDLED THIS?

thanks @qualitygal

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Re: HOW SHOULD I HAVE HANDLED THIS?

That is ridiculous! It changes the whole dynamics when that happens. My mom has a church group of women that have lunch together once a month at a different restaurant and every time this one woman's husband comes along, not thesew woman are between 65-85 years old, and none of them bring their husbands, but this one woman does every time, and he enjoys coming along. My mom said that they do everything together. I asked her how doe the other women feel about it and she said at first they were all like why is coming? But now they have gotten used to him being there. The wife is about 65 and he is maybe 68 or 69. They never had children and my mom said it is just how they are....... I couldn't stand it, and my husband would never want to do that either. You can have separate friends and social engagements while still being married!!!!!!!