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Re: DH drives me nuts sometimes


@Q-Anu wrote:

Thank you, @marlielou. ❤️ You're kind to say so. 

 

I hope and pray the situation is improving for @mintedrose and her husband. 

 


 

 

Youre welcome @Q-Anu. Smiley Happy

 

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Re: DH drives me nuts sometimes

@mintedrose   Nobody changes overnight.  He had to have been this way before you married.

 

Expecting a spouse to change after marriage is foolish, and your expectations are all for him to change.

 

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Re: DH drives me nuts sometimes

 

Well said @Cakers3 "Expecting a spouse to change after marriage is foolish, and your expectations are all for him to change."

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Re: DH drives me nuts sometimes

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@mintedrose ...Are you both retired?...It isn't unusual for any quirks or issues that have always been in the marriage and were never resolved to then become even more pronounced once couples are retired and spending more time with each other!

 

Many end up saying to themselves....What the heck?...LOL