Consistent Negative Comments ~ Do They Bother You? - Page 2

dex · ‎03-09-2010

I forgot to add that I don’t get upset by negative comments made to me..just don’t want to allow anyone to spoil my day.I do sometimes learn a thing or two about myself from the negative viewpoints but I am not insulted and my day is not ruined.

Regal Bee · ‎07-20-2017

@QVCkitty1 wrote:
Some people just have a different opinion than you. I think it is presumptuous to assume that they are especially negative or " jealous ". If you let other people's opinions upset or depress you , well that's on you. It's like the people who think QV.C food is too expensive, so what ? If they were preventing you from ordering, I could understand.

@QVCkitty1 You can disagree with me, at any time, I have no problem with that.

I DO have a problem with the way it is expressed!

dex · ‎03-09-2010

@homedecor1

@homedecor1 wrote:
Yes and here it seems there are a "few" that no matter what topic they just can't help themselves replying instead of just passing!

Or those who take a thread from a positive (or a poster asking a question) and decide to "twist it" into a whole other direction....☹️

then others who reply "feed off" those comments instead of original post...sometimes I just SMH🤔

I tend to wander off topic at times as you do when you are with a group chatting.I forget that there are different rules of engagement here....oops sorry.

GenXmuse · ‎05-15-2016

There are a few people here, ahem, that are consistently negative to the point you know who is posting without having to look. I don’t know that it’s so much jealousy as it is misery.

KitTkat · ‎11-07-2017

I'm a sensitive person, and I admit, I've had negative posts that have bothered me. I tell myself to not let it get to me, but it is easier said than done. My very first post had a negative response, and I almost didn't bother to make any more comments because of it, but I'm glad I did. I enjoy this group and I will keep trying to not let the bullies of this world (not just here. But literally everywhere) wipe the smile from my face.

chickenbutt · ‎03-09-2010

WHO CARES?

Ha! Gotcha. I try not to let that stuff get to the point of bothering me. Annoying? Sure thing! But I can move on pretty quickly. If I don't care about somebody they cannot hurt me.

QVCkitty1 · ‎05-23-2015

@Regal Bee wrote:
@QVCkitty1 wrote:
Some people just have a different opinion than you. I think it is presumptuous to assume that they are especially negative or " jealous ". If you let other people's opinions upset or depress you , well that's on you. It's like the people who think QV.C food is too expensive, so what ? If they were preventing you from ordering, I could understand.

@QVCkitty1 You can disagree with me, at any time, I have no problem with that.

I DO have a problem with the way it is expressed!

And that is your right, but it is also subjective. I just get irritated when the amateur psychologists come out and analyze people they don't know.

" You are entitled to your opinion. But you are not entitled to your own facts."
Daniel Patrick Moynihan

PamfromCT · ‎05-22-2014

I try to avoid people who are always negative. Unhappy times are part of life, and I am grateful for those in my life who support me, and I in turn support them. But people who are always negative I think are just unhappy people. Maybe they are fueled by jealousy or maybe they just think they are "owed" a life with no difficulties. One of my "sister friends," who went to heaven a few years ago, had some rocky roads in life. Orphaned at age 5, etc., etc. Her mantra was "You can get bitter or you can get better." And better she was.