Among Friends

[goldensrbest]

If you ask GOD, he will show you.

[hckynut]

@Debbie555,

I am very sorry to hear of the recent loss of your husband and send our condolences to you and your family.

hckynut(john)

[chrystaltree]

•  You are grieving and you have not come to terms with the fact that your husband is gone.  Knowing is not the same as accepting.  So, your mind produces all those signs that keep him with you until you are ready to accept that he is gone.  I think it's emotionally healthy and in time, the "coincidences" will fade away.    

[RedTop]

I firmly believe our loved ones send us messages for comfort, and support.   

The very first Christmas after my Dad died was tough.   Within 5 minutes after walking in my parents house to celebrate the holiday with Mom and my siblings, my daughters cell phone rang.   She answered, and said "there's no one by the name _________ here". The caller was a man, and the name he said, was my Dads name. I absolutely believe that call was a message from my Dad to let us know he was with us that day.   No phone number showed on my daughters cell; it was like there had been no incoming call on that device.

Two years ago my Mom had a very serious health issue for which she refused to seek medical treatment.  Neither of my brothers, nor I could convince her to go to the doctor.  Mom made the comment she was going to die from something, and if the problem she was having was going to be it, she was okay with it.   That night, my grandparents came to me in a dream; Papaw said my name so clear I was sure he was standing beside my bed, and I actually reached out to touch him.   He and Mamaw were standing side by side, and Papaw told me "to get my mom to the doctor; it was not time".   I called Mom the next morning and told her to get ready to go to the doctors office; she was actually getting herself ready, as she also had a visit from her parents telling her to go to the doctor!   

[January121]

I am sorry for your loss ..... you are not crazy ..... I truly believe that  the deceased send us signs to let us know that they are OK & still around us ..... it has happened to me many times!!! .... if you believe it will happen.

[geegerbee]

I lost my husband several years ago. The thing that helped me the most was going to a medium. She told me things only my husband could have told her about. It was very comforting. If you don't know any, find a store that sells crystals etc. and they will recomend someone. When my son's girlfriend recently lost her father, my son paid for her to talk to the medium over the phone. It was very comforting to her.  

[Big Sister]

@Debbie555   Debbie I do know what you are feeling.  My DH died in 2003.  I am sorry for your grief, and I do promise it does get easier.  It's just so darn difficult to accept that he is gone.

I never had any signs from my DH and I believe you are so fortunate that you have had some.  You are blessed.

[Debbie555]

I know I do want to believe do badly. So many coincidences, my husband has only been gone a little over two weeks. As I mentioned before there are more. While watching the news Inge morning, the channel changed yo duck dynasty one of husband favorite shows. Granted he was taping them so I'm sure that's why it changed to that show. My first thought was to find the remote and change the channel when his name appeared in BOLD letters on screen. PHIL. The ax act caption was how does it PHIL in the woods. Yes I know one of the characters have that name but it was just strange.
I would like to see a medium but dknt hsve the first clue and I live in NY!

[Debbie555]

Please excuse all typos as I'm
Typing on my phone without glasses and I can't see how to edit!

[reiki604]

You are in a period of grief and mourning now. I don't know if what you're experiencing are signs or seeing what you want or need to see. The only thing I feel strongly about is NOT to go to a medium at this time until you are stronger and have dealt with your DH's passing. Your vulnerability at this time makes you ripe picking for the unscrupulous and the con man. I'm not sure whether mediums are real but those who Re not will see you coming a mile away. Give yourself a chance to heal in this world. Your loved one is at peace and am pretty sure he'd want you to be as well. There is nothing you can learn from beyond that will give you the peace you crave. It can only delay it as you want more and more. That's whAt the charlatans count and prey on.

Whenever I get the feeling my parents or brother is trying to send me a message, I simply thank them and take it as a lesson and move on. Real or imagined,it helps lessen the pain of loss.