Cuddles: my husband and I have been going to cape may for 25 years on a row...sometimes we go twice a year. You will love it! It is a family friendly atmosphere and lots of grown ups...not your typical Jersey shore environment with lots of teenagers and younger, rowdy crowds. The beach is beautiful. Once you arrive, you get the feel that you stepped back in time. The Victorian homes are beautiful....you can take tours of some of the homes or a trolley tour. Be sure to tour the Emlen Physick estate. Cape May point has the lighthouse, and sunset beach has a flag raising and lowering ceremony each day. You can rent bikes, play miniature golf, watch a movie on the beach on certain nights or stroll on washing street and visit the numerous quaint shops. The nearby cape may zoo is large and fun. Atlantic city is 45 minutes away, and, of course, there is the ferry to Delaware. Wildwood is ten minutes away if you want a large, busier boardwalk. Cape may does have a boardwalk with a few food stands, arcade, Morrow's nut house for treats...sometimes there are craft vendors during the boardwalk craft and art shows. Every week something is going on there. If you want to see a play, cape may stage is fabulous...only 100 seats in an old church, but top notch performances. Sometimes there are outdoor concerts and there is a new convention center on the boardwalk which has oldies concerts, etc. Or, you can just stroll up and down the streets and look at the beautiful homes and gorgeous flower gardens. It's nice at night with the old fashioned street lamps lit. I think that May, June, September and October are the best times to go. December is a great time also...the whole town is magical with its lights, Christmas tours and activities. My hubby and I love staying at the Bedford Inn on Stockton....the owner, Archie, is so nice and laid back, and the buffet style breakfasts are delicious. The house has a downstairs porch, as well as one on the second floor, and we love to sit in one of the rocking chairs and just chill. The Bedford is only a half block from the beach, so you get a nice breeze when sitting on the porch. If you have any other questions, let me know, and u can email me. Keep us posted on your upcoming trip...I am sure you will love it there! We are going sometime in September this year.