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Re: Can I just Rant a Little?

Oh good grief, this should be a safe place to rant. Everyone gets irritated with their SO from time to time, and if you say that you don’t , sorry I don’t believe you. If she can’t blow off a little steam here, it’s pretty sad.

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Re: Can I just Rant a Little?

Only one tv and one bathroom? There are only two of us and we have 5 tv's and 3 baths. Peaceful life.

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@froggy wrote:

Only one tv and one bathroom? There are only two of us and we have 5 tv's and 3 baths. Peaceful life.


@froggy  They have 3 tv’s.

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@dex wrote:

@Ketra @Whatever works as long as it makes you happy.I have found a way to make my own schedule that has him worked in....lol.I think I am so used to having h8m around after 45 years that I would be lonely.


@dex  Hey, we all need to rant and get things off our chest. It’s healthy! If you found a good man to spend your life with you are lucky. It’s sounds like you have him trained pretty well. 😁  I’m lucky to have a good cat to share my life with. She adores me, makes me laugh, and is a good listener. What more could I want! 

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It may be time for him to get a comprehensive checkup by his doctor.  The fact that he is ignoring the boat for such an extended period of time is significant.  I5 could also b3 costly.

 

something is going on...please get him checked now.

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@proudlyfromNJ wrote:

@froggy wrote:

Only one tv and one bathroom? There are only two of us and we have 5 tv's and 3 baths. Peaceful life.


@froggy  They have 3 tv’s.


And 4 toilets, so it's not like he couldn't have gone and used a different toilet while I was showering, which I waited to take because he was sleeping late and I didn't want to disturb him.

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@jlkz wrote:

It may be time for him to get a comprehensive checkup by his doctor.  The fact that he is ignoring the boat for such an extended period of time is significant.  I5 could also b3 costly.

 

something is going on...please get him checked now.


@jlkz  Actually, it has more to do with distance and traffic due to road construction along the way.  And right now it's just so darned hot.  Even here we're bumping up to almost 100, so way down on the coast I'm sure it's hotter and there's no AC to speak of. 

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Its been 20 years and I still have not adjusted to my husband being

home ....when he worked  .. and the kids left for school .. I had all 

my housework done by 9 ....except for special projects ....now 

he doesn't  even get out of be until 10 ...

 

This May he fell and broke his hip so he was in the house all day ...

couldn't go anywhere .... and couldn't do anything ....I know it was 

nothing any woman hasn't done but this was my first experience

with a sick husband ....he couldn't even put the tooth paste on the 

brush as he couldn't stand without a walker ....he had polio as a 

child so the leg was compromised to begin with ... well we got

through it ....BUT I TOO NEED A VA-CA !!!!!

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@Big Joanie wrote:

Its been 20 years and I still have not adjusted to my husband being

home ....when he worked  .. and the kids left for school .. I had all 

my housework done by 9 ....except for special projects ....now 

he doesn't  even get out of be until 10 ...

 

This May he fell and broke his hip so he was in the house all day ...

couldn't go anywhere .... and couldn't do anything ....I know it was 

nothing any woman hasn't done but this was my first experience

with a sick husband ....he couldn't even put the tooth paste on the 

brush as he couldn't stand without a walker ....he had polio as a 

child so the leg was compromised to begin with ... well we got

through it ....BUT I TOO NEED A VA-CA !!!!!


@Big Joanie My husband had polio too as a child, but seems to have no ill effects from it.  He had to be in an iron lung.  I'm so sorry, sounds like this is 100x worse than my situation.  

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Could you think of a task to give him that's kind of far away?