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Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

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Just watched the local news and saw cake smashing in the faces of the bride and groom at their wedding reception.

 

Some brides were not happy.

 

When I got married told my husband no cake in my face!!!

 

Would it bother you?  Or, just all in good fun.

 

Just curious, no wrong/right answer.  

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

I don't see the point.  There are lots of ways to have fun and that's not one of them.

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

I think it's disrespectful to the other person.  I don't see the fun in it at all.

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

I always thought it was not cool and I didn't want to do it at my own wedding.  Why spend a lot of money on a beautiful dress, hair & makeup only to get it ruined and look terrible?  Who wants to look bad on their wedding day?

 

I have seen videos of some who didn't want to do it and yet their spouse still smashed the cake in their faces.  It seems very disrespectful to me and not a good way to begin a marriage.

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

Never !!!!

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

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I have seen some aggressive cake smashing. It is so juvenile.

 

I was a teen bride.  I got married at age 19 and my husband was 20.  There was no cake smashing going on.  

 

If you are mature enough to get married, you should act like an adult.

 

If I was a bride who spent a small fortune for my dress, hair and make-up and my groom smashed cake on my face, that marriage certificate would never be filed with the county.

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Grounds for divorce!

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...


@Carmie wrote:

I have seen some aggressive cake smashing. It is so juvenile.

 

I was a teen bride.  I got married at age 19 and my husband was 20.  There was no cake smashing going on.  

 

If you are mature enough to get married, you should act like an adult.

 

If I was a bride who spent a small fortune for my dress, hair and make-up and my groom smashed cake on my face, that marriage certificate would never be filed with the county.


@Carmie , Same !

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Re: Cake Smashing At Wedding Reception...

If they want to do it to each other, fine, even though it makes no sense to me. But if one or both say no we're not doing that and then one does it,  that's so disrespectful.