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Update on Dad

tashy — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 20:28:14 GMT

I put dad under hospice care on the 11th, sorry to say he passed last night,I guess he waited til I visited him yesterday morning. I wasn't planning on going,but something kept telling me to go see him and I am glad I did. I read the need to hear it's OK to go and I told him it was ok, we are going to be alright. I never cried when I was there, but this time,the tears wouldn't stop. it's been a long journey,but he is at peace now,and I hope drinking his favorite dink ABSOLUTE (vodka ). thank you all who gave advice and support

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Mj12 — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 20:39:16 GMT

@tashy I am so very sorry. I'm glad you got to visit him yesterday morning. Take care of yourself.

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RedTop — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 21:12:15 GMT

My deepest sympathy in the loss of your dad. You will always remember, and be grateful for making the trip to see him on his last day. This last precious memory, along with others will keep peace in your heart, and a smile on your face, in the days ahead.

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3cupcakes — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 21:50:50 GMT

Sending sincere sympathies to you and your family. So nice you were able to be with your dad.

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Winkk — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 22:23:43 GMT

I'm so sorry about your Dad. It is hard when a parent leaves us at any age. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Kachina624 — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 22:51:26 GMT

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I traveled the same road a few years ago. Dad in hospice care here at my house and one night he just slipped away. I think of him and miss him every day. He was a great dad and I bet yours was too.

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TeezNu — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 23:10:03 GMT

@tashy

I'm so sorry; may peace be with you.

A hospital nurse caring for my mother the last few days of her life, told me that she very frequently saw patients pass shortly after their loved ones had left their bedsides. (My mother had passed about 15 minutes after I left.). Interestingly, a year later my dad passed about 30 minutes after I left.

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gidgetgh — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 23:10:50 GMT

My deepest sympathies to you Tashy. Losing a parent is very hard.

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Cookie2025 — Thu, 24 Mar 2016 23:56:14 GMT

Many times a person passes after Family and Loved Ones have left - to spare them the 'death watch' that occurrs in some Families. Your loved ones are now - all around you.

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Daisy Sunflower — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 00:18:40 GMT

So sorry. My condolences to you and your family.

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Bird mama — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 00:21:07 GMT

@tashy

I am very sorry for your loss and am glad that you had the chance to see him before he transitioned.

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Goldengate8361 — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 00:34:48 GMT

I'm so sorry for your loss! Hugs!

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lobstergal — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 01:28:55 GMT

I'm sorry for your loss tashy. God bless

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Deb1010yetagain — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 02:04:48 GMT

@tashy condolences on the loss of your dear father. It's good you were there with him and took such good care of him. You are an angel.

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mzlg — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 04:00:12 GMT

@tashy, I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you. It was so right that you listened to your heart and went to see your Dad for the last time and now he is at peace.

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Bestdressed — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 05:24:46 GMT

@tashy ... I am sorry about the passing of your dad. Sending you positive thoughts and prayers.

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Dawnie — Fri, 25 Mar 2016 17:38:22 GMT

So Sorry Tashy in the loss of your Dad. Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this most stressful time. Bless You Tashy.