topic Re: Message to Handigal in Among Friends

Message to Handigal

Miss Pepsi — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 17:32:18 GMT

Handigal,

I apologize for jumping on you. You had no way of knowing about the death or cause of death of my husband, I took it personal and it was never meant to be.

I am so sorry.

Kindness these days and all days is so important and I have learned that a lot in the past 4 weeks and then I broke my own rule. I will try to do better.

Keep those you love close.

Re: Message to Handigal

vsm — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 17:40:13 GMT

@Miss Pepsi I didn't see the exchange you're referring to, but your apology was one of the nicest and most heartfelt I can remember. It takes someone who knows pain herself to truly understand -- and to regret -- the pain she might have caused another. I'm sorry to hear what you're dealing with. May God give you peace of heart.

Re: Message to Handigal

Miss Pepsi — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 18:11:00 GMT

Thank you. My husband was one of the kindest men on this planet and my reaction to what she said and she never directed it at me at all, it was just a simple topic she posted, and my response was totally uncalled for.

My daughter says every day we should do one thing that would make Dad proud. Well my jumping on her was one thing today that would have ticked him off. So now my goal is to do one thing every day to make him proud. Still working on something for today.

Life is short treat people with kindess and keep those you love close.

Re: Message to Handigal

Linmo — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 18:33:06 GMT

@Miss Pepsi I'm so sorry for your losses. We lost my father in law on Sept. 10th to complications from COVID. So many people have lost loved ones this year.

Handigal's username is @handygal2 . Hopefully, she will see your post. Take care!

Re: Message to Handigal

handygal2 — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 19:47:53 GMT

@Miss Pepsi wrote:
Handigal,

I apologize for jumping on you. You had no way of knowing about the death or cause of death of my husband, I took it personal and it was never meant to be.

I am so sorry.

Kindness these days and all days is so important and I have learned that a lot in the past 4 weeks and then I broke my own rule. I will try to do better.

Keep those you love close.

@Miss Pepsi : I just saw your post, and it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for your very gracious and heartffelt reply. I understand why you could have reacted that way. I am so sorry for your loss, and the pain you are going through. You are a kind and caring person.

Re: Message to Handigal

handygal2 — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 21:18:53 GMT

@Linmo wrote:
@Miss Pepsi I'm so sorry for your losses. We lost my father in law on Sept. 10th to complications from COVID. So many people have lost loved ones this year.
Handigal's username is @handygal2 . Hopefully, she will see your post. Take care!

@Linmo : Thank you for tagging me. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Re: Message to Handigal

Miss Pepsi — Tue, 13 Oct 2020 11:37:44 GMT

@Linmo wrote:
@Miss Pepsi I'm so sorry for your losses. We lost my father in law on Sept. 10th to complications from COVID. So many people have lost loved ones this year.
Handigal's username is @handygal2 . Hopefully, she will see your post. Take care!

Thank you, she found this post. My brain is mush, thank you for clarifying. My husband also died on September 10. Rough days.

Hugs to all.

Re: Message to Handigal

suzyQ3 — Tue, 13 Oct 2020 16:21:33 GMT

@Miss Pepsi wrote:
@Linmo wrote:
@Miss Pepsi I'm so sorry for your losses. We lost my father in law on Sept. 10th to complications from COVID. So many people have lost loved ones this year.
Handigal's username is @handygal2 . Hopefully, she will see your post. Take care!
Thank you, she found this post. My brain is mush, thank you for clarifying. My husband also died on September 10. Rough days.

Hugs to all.

@Linmo-- just to make sure that she sees your post, @Miss Pepsi