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No Surprise Here, But Saddened

Twins Mom — Sun, 24 May 2020 23:52:24 GMT

As individuals expand their circle of connections and are asked to social distance, we leave much up to to honesty and responsibility. Reports of individuals crowding pool parties, bars, and hairdressers exposed and symptomatic going to work and the gym do not surprise, even though we are still early in our efforts to get all up and running. The integrity of individuals is key in shrinking the circle of Covid cases.

Here in these foruma we have discussed parents bringing obviously sick kids to school, dosing them with Tylenol so they won't display a fever. This is a bigger picture, same issue.

We request people wear masks to benefit others. Opportunities exist to help others but many won't consider.

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bonappetit — Sun, 24 May 2020 23:55:28 GMT

We live in a selfish culture.

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QVCkitty1 — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:07:02 GMT

We hear a lot about freedom, but little about the responsibility that goes with it.

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lovesrecess — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:07:23 GMT

We all must protect ourselves from each other....and that may mean staying home when so many idiots refuse to stay out of people's personal space, wear a mask when required, or even stay home when they are sick. We are continuing to stay at home unless required to go out; a grocery pickup or pharmacy, and dr appointment that can't be done via telemedicine. We are both seniors, but so many younger people have contracted this horrible virus and become deathly ill, no one can be sure they will not get it...but so many are both selfish and clueless.

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BaileyQ — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:27:25 GMT

I just saw on the news that thousands of people showed up for a race in Alamance County. They were packed into the bleechers like sardines and not wearing masks. One lady who was there with her child and husband said she was there because she was tired of staying at home and she was not afraid of the virus at all. I just wonder how many of those people are going to come down with this virus and pass it on to others. There cannot be progress made when so many are determined to set us back to square 1.

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Bhvbum — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:29:15 GMT

Freedom?

I never had a "right" to do something that could injure the health of my neighbors, so I wear a mask.

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wishmoon — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:32:29 GMT

I just can't believe how so many can put such a low value on their lives and others.

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Twins Mom — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:36:56 GMT

@BaileyQ

That would be a newsworthy revelation/investigation. How many of these party people come down ill.....

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Dusty1 — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:50:31 GMT

Ok. So there is no real proof that any of the measures that are being taken can prevent the spread of anything. A cold. The flu. Or Covid 19.

And, honestly, putting a mask over your face after you have touched everything (All of the things, including your face while you are putting the mask on.) isn't going to stop you from spreading germs.

If you know that you have any illness, it is wise to stay home.

But, we can not stop living our lives because of fear.

If you believe that a mask protects you & or other people. Wear one.

Wash your hands every chance that you get.

If you see someone out & they are not wearing a mask do not approach them. Stay away from them. You take care of you in the way that you choose to.

You know what helps no one. Calling others idiots.. calling people names, because you believe something, because you think that you are right, it serves no purpose.

You can explain why you feel that way that you feel & you may change someone's mind. You may not. Call them an idiot...what have you done?

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Sadiesadie — Mon, 25 May 2020 00:58:39 GMT

@BaileyQ : What about her child being exposed to that with no say so. That is so sad

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QP Doll — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:00:15 GMT

You can educate ignorance but dumb is forever.

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Twins Mom — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:06:54 GMT

@Dusty1

Yikes. I don't know to whom you are referring after reading posts so I just want to say - I didn't call anyone an idiot nor would I approach. We are treading in unknown waters and lots of conjecture. We can only do our best at deciding best for most. My opinion is that individuals who knowingly flurt with danger and don't expose others are entitled to live their lives. When they knowingly endanger others, I believe the label of selfish and irresponsible is warranted. But I would not aporoach.

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Foxxee — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:32:47 GMT

I run into quite a few of them on social media calling it "freedom of choice." They have been out and about throughout this.

They claim the virus is so mild, milder than the flu...it's all been a "hoax."

They don't believe the numbers of deaths.

No social distancing, masks, or vaccine for them.

Yes, to save the economy, those least at risk should return to work, but this attitude from the start is disturbing.

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homedecor1 — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:13:25 GMT

Just a observation about people!!!

A young child was behind me today at Dollar Tree. He was holding his bag of popcorn & had a card.

Now, I know he meant no harm to me or others BUT some ignorant know it all "mask police" woman said to him : "you're in her space (not behind orange line but not directly near me) don't you know about social distancing or don't you care"!!

Needless to say, I was po'd how dare this older lady speak 1) on my behalf and 2) chastise a 9 year old (he looked about this age).

I told her to mind her own business & he's a child. If she was so worried about getting sick stay home😡....normally, I'd just do the eye roll but c'mon a kid!! By the way, he had a bandana on!!!

Grrrrrr sick of people "policing" others😡

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Leggett28 — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:24:07 GMT

All I have to say is we’ll see when this opening of everything is over.

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Anonymous032819 — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:25:58 GMT

Humans are a social creature.

The species has always thrived as a group.

Think about it, as homosapiens evolved, did each person live in their own individual cave?

No, we lived as a group.

It is hard wired in to our primal brain to seek out others and to come together.

The initial reason to socially distance was to flatten the curve, so that hospitals wouldn't be overwhelmed.

That has been done!

We can't stay away from our own kind forever.

It's not healthy psychologically.

There has to come a time where something has to change, especially if after three months the best that they can come with is to wear a mask, wash your hands, and don't touch each other.

And yes, I DO wear a mask, and I do try to socially distance.

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Tessa Mendoza — Mon, 25 May 2020 01:38:29 GMT

I'm not even saddened by the selfishness anymore. Just disgusted. We really are on our own and have to do our best to take care of ourselves.

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Susan-QVC — Mon, 25 May 2020 02:10:07 GMT

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mspatmac — Mon, 25 May 2020 02:29:27 GMT

I can't control what other people believe about the virus nor can I control what others do, I am not policing others. I can only control what I choose to do and that is use common sense. Since I am in the "at risk" category I choose to stay mostly at home, use food pick up and if I venture out wear a mask and social distance. I am getting my hair done in 2 weeks in a salon where the staff all have their own rooms with a door. Taking my dog for grooming, they will come to my car and take dog, call me when he is finished, bring him out and I pay on line. Some stores (best buy) have shopping in store by appointment with an employee assigned to each shopper. Hand sanitizer available to all. These are activities I am planning to do in the next 2 weeks. Need an eye appointment but not ready for that yet. I feel comfortable with my decisions.

People have to work One DD is a teacher so is at home but her DH has to go to office, DD & other SIL in medical field and have to go out. Circumstances are different and all we can do is the best we can. Stay safe.

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stevieb — Mon, 25 May 2020 02:32:01 GMT

@Anonymous032819 wrote:
Humans are a social creature.

The species has always thrived as a group.

Think about it, as homosapiens evolved, did each person live in their own individual cave?

No, we lived as a group.

It is hard wired in to our primal brain to seek out others and to come together.

The initial reason to socially distance was to flatten the curve, so that hospitals wouldn't be overwhelmed.

That has been done!

We can't stay away from our own kind forever.

It's not healthy psychologically.

There has to come a time where something has to change, especially if after three months the best that they can come with is to wear a mask, wash your hands, and don't touch each other.

And yes, I DO wear a mask, and I do try to socially distance.

Isn't that the truth... No one can stay in, wash their hands endlessly, and social distance forever... These stop-gap measures are not the long-term solution... And, as for doing these things until we 'stop' the virus, two thoughts... First, define 'stop'... and secondly, these things are not going to eradicate it... Those oft touted scientists need to come up with a Plan B...