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AWFUL CASE ON JUDGE JUDY TODAY

Love my grandkids — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 03:01:18 GMT

No spoilers here, I don't think. The two girls who were defendants were so obviously almost evil and such liars, and what they did to the plaintiff, was so bad I actually had a stomach ache at the end. Their mother was useless. Her older daughter is 23 and I"m sorry but perhaps if the mom didn't need an interpreter and was more conversant in English, maybe she would have known more what her girls were doing with their lives.

Before the flames start, my DIL's folks are from Mexico, had 7 kids, and the parents are very well spoken in English.

I couldn't believe how those awful girls both called their mother a liar. Obviously according to the mom the only discipline they've ever gotten was "I talked to them." That 23 year old IMO is truly evil. I hope the plaintiff's family does as they said and will press assault charges on both. Both D's belong in jail. I'm sorry this is long but I was so disgusted.

No court show has ever gotten such a reaction from me.

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Kachina624 — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 03:06:44 GMT

It went on too long and I got tired of all of the translating so I changed the channel.

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spiderw — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 03:31:06 GMT

As I have mentioned in posts I worked with troubled youngsters and their families at an urban school system for 41 years. Part of my job was taking neglectful parents to court when their children didn't attend school. I learned many many times over, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree and once I met the parent I knew why the youngster was dysfunctional and had deep issues. Of course there were exceptions but few.

I should have kept a journal of my cases but I remember enough to not watch any court shows! It is frustrating to see youngsters being so disrespectful and nasty and I witnessed it many times with parents and youngsters.

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Love my grandkids — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 03:48:19 GMT

@spiderw Thank you so much for your input. What made me so sick was how obviously evil these 15 and 23 year olds were. Their "mother" was useless.

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rms1954 — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 04:08:59 GMT

People really do get into their TV shows.

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qbetzforreal — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 04:24:59 GMT

So.....what was the evil thing they are alledged to have done. What was the complaint? How did Judge Judy rule? @Love my grandkids

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tucka — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 04:35:42 GMT

@Love my grandkids wrote:
No spoilers here, I don't think. The two girls who were defendants were so obviously almost evil and such liars, and what they did to the plaintiff, was so bad I actually had a stomach ache at the end. Their mother was useless. Her older daughter is 23 and I"m sorry but perhaps if the mom didn't need an interpreter and was more conversant in English, maybe she would have known more what her girls were doing with their lives.

Before the flames start, my DIL's folks are from Mexico, had 7 kids, and the parents are very well spoken in English.

I couldn't believe how those awful girls both called their mother a liar. Obviously according to the mom the only discipline they've ever gotten was "I talked to them." That 23 year old IMO is truly evil. I hope the plaintiff's family does as they said and will press assault charges on both. Both D's belong in jail. I'm sorry this is long but I was so disgusted.

No court show has ever gotten such a reaction from me.

and even after the judge ruled the younger one was smiling ,they will wind up in jail,the older one has children, the pattern will go on,yes it was a chilling show .today.

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ID2 — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 09:29:05 GMT

OP got a stomachache watching Judge Judy? Really? I thought this particular show was fascinating. But I certainly wouldn't get sick over watching it.

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candys mine — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 11:41:50 GMT

@Love my grandkidsFirstly, there's enough in life to worry about without "borrowing the trouble" of others. Secondly. you can feel sad for this families apparent situation BUT remember too that in order for you to have viewed them THE SHOW PAID for the plaintiff And any Needed Witnessess. ( them and their family and friends) to travel to LA. AND the SHOW Pays the amount awarded directly to them. And they get paid to be there so you can watch the goings on that made you ill. At the least the family got a trip out of this while you got all stressed out. Look at it this way, do you think those girls would give a flying fig How they made YOU feel? Please don't let 'em affect you like that.

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Financialgrl — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 12:47:13 GMT

@spiderw wrote:
As I have mentioned in posts I worked with troubled youngsters and their families at an urban school system for 41 years. Part of my job was taking neglectful parents to court when their children didn't attend school. I learned many many times over, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree and once I met the parent I knew why the youngster was dysfunctional and had deep issues. Of course there were exceptions but few.

I should have kept a journal of my cases but I remember enough to not watch any court shows! It is frustrating to see youngsters being so disrespectful and nasty and I witnessed it many times with parents and youngsters.

I worked in Student Services as a temp office worker for about 6 months back in 2002 and 17 years later I still vividly remember some of the truly horrifying cases. The HS I did this work was in the worst part of town, poverty and the cases often reflected that. First paragraph was Background - and more times than not they'd begin mother was addicted to drugs and rarely around and the bio father was nowhere to be found or in jail.

I loved when Judy kept yelling "I don't believe a word you are saying" to the 23 y/o. The girl seemed to accept that until the end and she finally said - "I don't understand why you don't believe me". She kept trying to say what happened even after admitting she had never been there.

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Hooty — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 13:23:26 GMT

I love Judge Judy, she is definitely a "no nonsense" Judge! She could see right through those two liars, especially telling the 23 year old (Bertha) that she should be in jail! Also telling the mother, she didn't do a good job of raising her children! Loved the video chat where Rubi was laughing and bragging about what she did to the younger girl, the plantiff! Female thugs were what they both were!

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Krimpette — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 13:39:58 GMT

That is one program I never watch. Definitely not a fan of Judge Judy. Way to rude for my taste. IMHO. The only judge show I watch is Hot Bench.

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4kitties — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 13:49:26 GMT

This case was disturbing. Those two girls were so very disrespectful to their mother. Some serious parenting fails with those two!

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chrystaltree — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 14:06:57 GMT

@rms1954 wrote:
People really do get into their TV shows.

There are a lot of naive people out there. Yes, some chronic tv watchers really do think those silly judge shows are real. All sides are getting paid by the production company and it's all entertainment.

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JeanLouiseFinch — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 14:09:00 GMT

Maybe there were some parenting fails, no family is perfect, but I can't help but attribute some of these choices and behaviors to the current social climate where some people believe they are entitled to whatever they want at someone else's cost, the lack of respect for others, lack of ambition, etc. These are different times we're living in, far different from how many of us grew up.

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corita — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:30:26 GMT

@Krimpette wrote:
That is one program I never watch. Definitely not a fan of Judge Judy. Way to rude for my taste. IMHO. The only judge show I watch is Hot Bench.
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I don't watch her shows either. Whether staged or real, I would be in contempt of court in a fast minute. Would never allow someone to speak to me the way she does to the people on in her 'court room'!!! When I was working, I was in court often...never heard a judge speak so rudely!!

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spiderw — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:34:00 GMT

Whether or not this show was staged or whatever, the reality exists. While there may be drama to attract audiences on Judge Judy, these young girls and boys have been and are in our society,

I still say these kids are a product of their upbringing and home life. I am not excusing them for their deeds but it is easy to understand the whys when you meet the parent or parents. Often it is generational and the child continues where the parent left off.

I started working in 1969 and it was bad then. Problems also existed before but they were often hidden or not spoken about. But gradually they did become worse as people changed in their morals, value systems and respect for themselves and others. In a nutshell, I truly learned a lot and I wish I had written it all down. It is understandable but difficult to treat and change.

Sorry to ramble on and get off subject but I guess this post reminded me of my days at court.

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JaneMarple — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:40:41 GMT

I saw the case not once but twice and it was an eye-opener for sure. What did having an interpreter have to do with the defendant's mother? and their misdeeds? The plaintiff's mother couldn't speak English well either and her oldest interpreted for her.

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esmerelda — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:42:59 GMT

@Love my grandkids No flames from me.

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SeaMaiden — Thu, 05 Sep 2019 15:58:30 GMT

@qbetzforreal wrote:
So.....what was the evil thing they are alledged to have done. What was the complaint? How did Judge Judy rule? @Love my grandkids

@Love my grandkids