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Best Way To Learn Letters That Is Fun?

IHeartFashion — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 14:20:36 GMT

About two weeks ago during parent teach conferences, our son's teacher told us he's academically behind. He's toward the bottom of the class, and honestly, I didn't work as much with him (or at all) like I did with my first son, but he's also not interested in the same academic learning tools (we used flash cards, Leap Frog videos, etc with my first... my second son will have none of that).

What is a good, engaging, FUN way to teach kids to recognize letters and numbers?

Re: Best Way To Learn Letters That Is Fun?

Colinka — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 14:44:52 GMT

Sometimes it's fun to have a large tray or plate of pudding, spread thin. The child can form the letters in the pudding, then lick his/her fingers. Some kids just learn differently--your child may be a tactile learner. Form letters with cookie dough, syrup, etc.

You can also use non-edible items like shaving cream, but warn the child not to eat!

Spread it on a dirty tabletop, make letters with your fingers, then wipe things clean.

Finger paints are also good.

Look for letter shapes that items make, and make a game out of recognizing them.

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Perkup — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 15:08:10 GMT

@IHeartFashion wrote:
About two weeks ago during parent teach conferences, our son's teacher told us he's academically behind. He's toward the bottom of the class, and honestly, I didn't work as much with him (or at all) like I did with my first son, but he's also not interested in the same academic learning tools (we used flash cards, Leap Frog videos, etc with my first... my second son will have none of that).

What is a good, engaging, FUN way to teach kids to recognize letters and numbers?

This probably isn't what you want to hear, but it's from personal experience. My son was - age wise only - ready for first grade (years ago). He was truly blessed to have a great teacher, who really understood children. Truth be known, he simply wasn't really academically or socially for school. She advised us to let him continue thru the year, but to hold hm back to repeat first grade again. We did, and this time he was ready and he flourished. He was always a good student, near the top of his class, after that. Had we left him in the normal progression, I think he would have continued to be lost in the shuffle. As it was, this teacher's advice gave him a real kick start. You might want to consider this for your son's future. It worked for us. Perhaps it could work for you.

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Mominohio — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 15:19:33 GMT

Your post doesn't state what age or grade he is in. I'm assuming he is in kindergarten or below. And you don't say whether or not he recognizes some letters and numbers or pretty much not any.

So I'm going to assume he is no older than 5 and in Kindergarten or younger.

When my son was this age (Kindergarten), there were several children in his class that were still having trouble at just this time of year recognizing all the letters in lower case and upper. I helped the teacher test them.

First, don't panic. One of these children graduated this year as validictorian of his class.

I spent a lot of time assisting in the classrooms of my child's school during his early years, and there are many things to help with this. But the most important thing is you have to be involved, and often. And it should seem like fun, not work.

Others have stated great ways to 'draw' his letters in various mediums. If he is an outside kind of kid, you can do this in the snow, the mud, the sand and the dirt. Many boys find this outdoor and dirty way of doing things much more fun.

If you are a family on the go a lot, there are letters and numbers everywhere. On buildings (think store names...TARGET), on road signs, on billboards, the sources are endless. Perhaps make a game out of finding certain letters. He can get some kind of reward if he finds,say, 3 of the letter T, and 4 of the letter L, while driving or shopping. The rewards should be little, like maybe a fun thing like a stop at the park to swing for a few minutes. If he is competitive, make it a competition between the two of you. Of course you hold back, but for every two he finds, you 'find' one, and see if that competiton motivates him, make it a game.

I still love those magnetic letters for the fridge. Throughout the day, ask him to bring you a certain letter. Again make some kind of game of it. Make it physical, where he has to go to the fridge, find it and bring it to you. So many boys aren't about sitting and listening at this age, and the learn by doing and by moving.

If he has favorite things like a particular sport or is into something like Star Wars, use that as motivation and getting his interest. When in the store, pick up a product that has to do with his interest and have him show you all the "W"'s on the package. Then proceed to other letters that may not be so interesting to him.

There are so many programs, software, and tools if the teachers think he is really having difficulty, but your own admission of lack of working with him would lead me to start with some one on one, but just approach it differently than what worked with you other child. It's not surprising they learn differently, and I feel for you that what worked before isn't this time. That is frustrating, and even a little frightening.

Most important thing for the next few months, for me, would be to really spend time with him, make it fun and make it active, and if you see no improvement, time to seek more professional input from teachers and others.

Re: Best Way To Learn Letters That Is Fun?

IHeartFashion — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 15:27:34 GMT

He's 4, in pre-k (the oldest in the class) and doesn't know ANY letters or numbers... she was worried because he also only knew a few colors and shapes. I feel like a failed mama with him

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IHeartFashion — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 16:02:10 GMT

By the way, these are GREAT tips! He's home all day with me on Fridays, it's a great opportunity for me to take him out and do a lot of this with him, together, and have fun with it...thank you!

Re: Best Way To Learn Letters That Is Fun?

Mominohio — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 16:21:05 GMT

@IHeartFashion wrote:
He's 4, in pre-k (the oldest in the class) and doesn't know ANY letters or numbers... she was worried because he also only knew a few colors and shapes. I feel like a failed mama with him

Absolutely no failure here. Life is busy. I only had one child, so my world revolved around him, especially after I quit working.

When a second (and more) children arrive, and work, and all that life throws at us, it gets more difficult. And when a child seems not interested (like you mentioned about all the aids you used for your older child), or tolerates the same assistance we gave the other(s), it gets even harder.

He is still young, and this is the best time to be gaining awareness of this. There is so much time now to get him caught up.

I am a firm believer that our male children are 'tagged' and 'diagnosed' way too easily in this day and age. I'm not a trained educator or physician, but a mom with gut instincts. And I think that along with your time and effort, some input from those teachers who have an amazing bag of tricks up their sleeve, and him maturing, he will be at or above level in short order.

We are sending our kids to 'school' younger and younger. It has great advantages, but some disadvantages as well, one of the biggest being that they are evaluated early, and when they don't meet the 'standards', we become concerned, and often they become labeled.

Have fun working with him. It is some of the best memories I have, watching my child learn.

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LTT1 — Fri, 04 Dec 2015 14:14:56 GMT

@IHeartFashion

Tactile: fridge letters

pudding; shallow tray of sand/ those jello baggies for tracing with fingers;

ours learned by us (I hate autocorrect) reading the same beloved books every night to her and following along the words with our fingers...

I think interactive (meaning the parent is interactive with the child) is as important a component as the child being active... So this means having the parent's attention, by whatever means you can.

ie: using icing/mashed potatoes/ice cream/play dough -- every substance provides an opportunity for learning and yes it creates a mess! Learning is a messy process!

In the tub soap crayons would be good... Hope these suggestions help.

My philosophy is that boys should be fully ready (mature) for the grade they enter for the easiest path to success in school

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luvasale — Thu, 03 Dec 2015 23:21:18 GMT

When my son was in pre-k 4, his teacher encouraged us to hold him back as he was socially and academically behind. I think being a summer baby really don't made a difference. We didn't hold him back, and with me and a great kindergarten teacher, my son became the most socially mature child in the class and scored better than 75% of all the kindergarteners in his school on the standardize test they took. Children learn and mature at different rates. I am sure that once he starts getting the letters, colors, etc., he will want to learn more and will pick it up quicker.

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RedTop — Fri, 04 Dec 2015 03:31:50 GMT

Both of my daughters had struggles in their early years, due to mild learning disabilities. One repeated first grade and the other repeated kindergarten, which helped strengthen their weaknesses. During the school year, the teacher sent home extra activity worksheets for weekends, holidays and snow days. For daily reinforcement over the summer, I purchased other teacher approved workbooks, we had several different flash card sets, and the small hand held games available back then, actually helped my girls focus. The daughter who had problems staying on task, has always loved to read, and is now a Special Education teacher with 2 Masters and numerous certifications. The daughter who learned best by visual aids, and hands on experience now drives a tractor trailer for a living.

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IHeartFashion — Fri, 04 Dec 2015 22:10:44 GMT

Wow, they did good They aren't suggesting I hold him back (he's already the oldest and socially he would be really large if we did it another time since he'd be almost two years older than everyone then) but they are telling me I really need to kick it into gear at home too. I am going to use a lot of these ideas, some are so great!

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Sister Golden Hair — Sun, 27 Dec 2015 04:32:38 GMT

@IHeartFashion I would look into some games or card games that have numbers and letters.

Make it fun and still he can learn.

With our grandson and granddaughter when we walked up the stairs or down, we would count each step.

It wasn't long before they were counting.

I taught our two sons when they were little to count like this:

I Love You one.

Then they would say "I Love You two".

I Love You three.

They are 30 and 34 today but they will still count with me

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Bubby Mommy — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 02:46:03 GMT

I used to play a "License PLate Game" with my kids. When we were in the car, we'd take the letters from the license plates of passing cars and make up silly sayings. For example: 123 LDD would e: 123 "Little Dancing Doggie" or some such thing as that. Some sayings would get pretty funny - the kids loved it.

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lolakimono — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:04:25 GMT

@IHeartFashion

There are a lot of free videos with songs/raps on YouTube for extra practice.

alphabet-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36IBDpTRVNE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcsmGpLQsX0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BELlZKpi1Zs

#s to 100-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAxmBJ5ufL8

colors-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G5jHECX6uyU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdxBWRuhEIM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PU9UCnqcLCE

shapes-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWamZya70ZI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pQ5mZIInE6s

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tedEbear — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 03:34:22 GMT

Do you read to him? You can have point out the letters of his name, familiar words. I think reading is VERY important to every age of child. My first GD learned numbers from our poker games, she wasn't in school yet. She learned how they work and the value of numbers by bargaining with how many bites to take before she was done eating. I'd say 10, she would say 3, repeat 10, until the amount was acceptable to me. Then she would count each bite until she came to number agreed on. I didn't spend the time with my own kids because it was "the TEACHERS" job to teach them. That was the way it was in my family growing up.---------tedEbear

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Mrsq2022 — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 04:44:01 GMT

@IHeartFashion - I recommend card games (anything like memory where he can turn two card ps over and see if they match but also count how many hearts or diamond

s there are...cards are great) and dice games, as well as finding alphabet bingo on Amazon.

One great game is having your child roll a dice/die and write down the number he rolls. Over and over. Then he can tally them up and see how many ones he rolled, how many twos....it seems like a game but it is a great way to learn. Hopefully your teacher can give you suggestions!

There are some fun IPad apps where the child traces letters with their finger while the letter is said out loud by the monkey. Kindergarten focuses a lot on letters and sounds too so don't worry too much at this point! Some kids don't know any letters when they start kinder.

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dex — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 15:09:57 GMT

I bought the alphabet cards and would drop a random amount on the floor and then turn it into a Sesame Street game show...GIVE ME an A...A yea!It took a lot of my energy to make it exciting but he loved it.I gave him pocker chips for each correct letter and then he could save them towards different treats.We had a list on the fridge of his favorites and he counted up the chips...counting lesson...to see how close he was to earning a reward.

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Disneylandfan — Fri, 01 Jan 2016 06:45:54 GMT

I've taught kindergarten for 15 years and now teach transitional kindergarten. There are lots of fun ways to teach letter names and sounds but one that I utilize and the kids never seem to tire of is Go Fish. Go buy a card set with the letters, I've seen them in grocery stores, target etc.

Then play Go Fish. First we do letter names and then we start with sounds. If the kids can't hold the cards they lay them face up on the table, doesn't matter if everyone can see the cards, because they have fun looking for the letter.

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INDIANA BONES — Fri, 01 Jan 2016 06:58:32 GMT

@IHeartFashion wrote:
He's 4, in pre-k (the oldest in the class) and doesn't know ANY letters or numbers... she was worried because he also only knew a few colors and shapes. I feel like a failed mama with him

Please do not feel this way. With my 2nd daughter, she was reading the Bible(not the entire Bible but what she had been read) at age 2. Yes age 2. Her pediatrician actually paid for her to go to K-3 in a Christian School because at the time I could not afford it.. She was advanced until 4th grade. Her MD told me some children advance early but by middle school or 6th grade they all level out USUALLY. My daughter did level out and was a good student but not honors by any means. The moral of this is that some children advance early and some later but they eventually all NORMALLY have the same ability by a certain age. Just like walking. Some walk early and some later but they all eventually walk if they are healthy. YOU ARE A GOOD MOM! Proven by your being upset about this and seeking help. The school will give you some learning tips and their are so many learning toys out now. My thoughts will be with you.

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Happyp — Fri, 01 Jan 2016 07:24:43 GMT

I have a suggestion. Since he doesn't recognize any letters o numbers. You can start explaning that all letter and numbers have different lines. We form letter with straight lines, curve lines and slant(not sure about the spelling) lines or conbination of two or three. Make a a T graph with one side that say straigh lines, and the other side with curve lines. Make flash card with curve and straigh lines. Clasify four or five for him. After that, take turns with him. Ones he do it correctly, is time to incorporate letters. The letter that have combination of straigt and curve lines can be put in a container or make a different graph. IMO children should never, never, never be retain in pre-k or kindergarten. If he/she is behind, first grade should be the grade to be retain. Hope this will help u and your son.