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REFORMED SHOPAHOLICs Memorial week, May28

sydsgma1 — Sun, 27 May 2018 16:40:13 GMT

Good morning.. it remains very hot and humid..sydnie took Pepper on a walk about 8am. The house is nice and cool.

Nothing on for today..syd and m are finishing up her garden this morning. It is going to rain this afternoon so I am glad that she is completing it.

Claudia, hope r feels better. Unfortunately, constipation is a side effect of pain meds..has he tried a product like Colace..?

Linda hope your flight back is better than the one going out. That was a short trip, but I understand about not wanting to be away from Dh.

Enjoy yiur day.🌷🌷

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chprsp — Sun, 27 May 2018 18:48:53 GMT

Not too hot here. R said that last night as soon as he got back to the rendezvous and the tent it started pouring. Not much rain here though.

R is prescribed several meds but has to take them on a regular basis along with his yogurt. Seems almost every time he goes on a rendezvous he has problems. The gastroparesis doesn't help either. He swears by the squatty potty.

I washed the inside glass of the back room windows except the one I couldn't reach due to all his gear. I will be glad down the road when we replace those windows with tilt in ones. Half the dusting is done. I'm still debating where to move all of the items he has on the old oak buffet.

Both dogs are enjoying the air conditioning. I found a few more pieces of clothing to donate along with shoes.

Wiper fluid isn't working in the suv so we'll need to call the dealership next week. Inspection is due next month so maybe both things can be taken care of at the same time.

Linda, I hope your trip home is a better one.

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LindaLatte — Sun, 27 May 2018 23:53:16 GMT

Good Evening! Fortunately, my trip home was much better than the trip there -- no delays. The first plane (longer trip) was not full, which was great. The second plane was full, and the lady who sat next to me was a real "chatty Cathy". She was coming to Tucson to help out her son and family. His wife had a "nervous breakdown" and he asked her to come and help. I heard all about her medical history, family medical history, etc., etc. Oh well.....

I am very tired after getting up at 3:00 a.m. But, the cab was waiting for me at 3:30, and the driver was very nice. The check-in went pretty smoothly except for I forgot to go to the TSA pre-check aisle, and ended up being "patted down" since they saw something -- arm and shoulders. I can understand the arm (it has a plate and s c r e ws, but nothing with my shoulders. Anyway, I passed. It is hot and dry here, but really better than the hot and humid weather plus storms they are having in Maryland.

Made it in time to feed DH lunch -- he looked thin to me and tired. But, I think he was happy I'm back.

I have done the laundry, and I'm unpacking. I used most of what I took with the exception of a hooded sweatshirt (too hot). So, I need to figure out what I can cut out to make my bags lighter. I was happy with the collapsable pillow that I used on the first flight -- it really helped with my neck.

Both of you are doing so much with de-cluttering, and I feel guilty that I have let that go for a while. Need to get back on track and stop buying.

Glad R was feeling better and you could have your anniversary dinner, Claudia. Also glad Syd and M are finishing up her garden before the rain comes Barbara.

Hope both of you sleep well.

Hugs,

Linda

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sydsgma1 — Mon, 28 May 2018 15:50:22 GMT

Good morning..we got a lot accomplished this morning.ALL OF THE SCREENS ARE CLEAN AND THE GARAGE HAS BEEN CLEANED OUT ALSO. oops about the caps..I am going to wash the interior windows..but I need to sit for a while.

we are in an excessive heat warning for today. I hope this is not a sign of a hot summer.

Linda..I really dislike talking on a plane so I say hell and then put my headphones on and pull out my kindle. Those are great deterrents..I sleep also...the pics of 2 of your grandsons were very nice. I am glad that you had a good visit . Dh was happy to have you home.

my decluttering is an ongoing process because there are 4 of us here. I really feel that things are more under control..

Claudia..hope you are having a good day.

None of my family’s grades are nearby...so we never visit.

enjoy your day..😍😍

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chprsp — Mon, 28 May 2018 20:07:41 GMT

Linda, we'll have those 3 AM wakeups when we go to the Colorado Springs reunion. Not looking forward to them at all. I'm glad your flight home was better except for the talkative lady beside you. I know you're happy to see your DH.

Barbara, it's very hot here too. I decided it was too hot to mow unless it cools down by evening. Glad you got so much organized.

I dropped some donations off this morning plus got the last of R's winter clothes to the attic plus the plastic bin of fleece sheets.

I pulled out some denim jackets i have not worn in a while. I wear a smaller size now so am debating whether to keep or donate.

R came home early afternoon. We had a few panic stricken moments when we couldn't find his wallet or cell phone. He had them in his hand when he got out of the suv. We checked where he'd been in the house and checked the seats of the suv. Finally I opened the backhand there they were. When I took bags out to carry on He must have laid them down.

The dogs are happy R's home and very grateful for ac. They're laying near the vents.

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LindaLatte — Mon, 28 May 2018 21:22:25 GMT

Good Afternoon! Glad you have accomplished so much, Barbara. It is pretty hot here, but fortunately the AC is working. I have not visited the graves of my family in many years due to distance. Sort of sad that today is the 7th anniversary of my brother's death in addition to Memorial Day. But, it is nice seeing the lovely tributes so many are giving to those who died in service.

I tried reading my Kindle and sleeping on the plane, but I think lady laid in wait for me to twitch, Barbara. I generally do not care to talk much while I am on a plane, but she obviously felt the need to talk.

My SIL took those pictures of my grands with his special camera, etc. DD is always very cautious about putting things up on Facebook (and is not on FB), but the boys had no problem with me doing so. My younger DGS forgot to pick up his honors sash, but the older guy was wearing a cord symbolizing that he is serving in the armed forces.

Very glad you found R's things, Claudia. I would be in a panic for sure if I lost both my cell and wallet. Sorry you have the 3:00 a.m. wake-ups for your trip. The "talker" was from Colorado Springs, but she did not talk much about the area. I'm sure you will make the right decision on the denim jackets. Good for you going down a size (assuming that is a positive thing for you.) My DGS who is a manager at Macy's said that denim jackets and maxi dresses are "in" for Fall.

I was so messed up last night -- tried staying up as late as possible, but only made it to 10 p.m. or so. Naturally, I woke up very early, and got out of bed at 5:00 after unsuccessfully trying to get back to sleep. It was good taking my walk early -- not hot, and my headache (started yesterday afternoon) seems to be gone now. Thank goodness.

DH was a little bit more perky today, but only ate about half of his lunch. He was trying to talk to me, but really could not get out the words. I do think he is happy to have me back. They were serving hot dogs and hamburgers with potato salad, etc., and I ate a hot dog -- nice. I don't have them often, but really like them. I am being very self-indulgent these days. Too many of my friends and acquaintances are dying, and I don't want to forgo things that I like within reason, of course.

I finally took some time to go through my closet this morning, and I have 9 items to donate for sure, and another couple of possibles. Definitely need to think long and hard before I add any clothes and shoes, no matter how cute or what a great bargain they are. I have pretty much blown May, so I will try to make June a better month.

Hope both of you have a nice evening.

Hugs,

Linda

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chprsp — Mon, 28 May 2018 23:43:45 GMT

It's difficult, Linda, when the date of a loved ones death falls on a day like Memorial Day. You never forget but one adjusts to a new reality.

It reached mid 90's this afternoon. The temperature has dropped a bit and I got most of the backyard mowed before batteries needed charged.

I hope the terrible flooding in MD was not near DD and family. A horrible thing to have happen twice in 2 years.

I'll have to check fb for the pictures.

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LindaLatte — Mon, 28 May 2018 23:55:39 GMT

Fortunately, that area is not near where DD lives, Claudia. But, her area was flooded a couple of weeks ago. Destroyed several buildings, parks, ball fields, etc., but not as bad as the area flooded yesterday.

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sydsgma1 — Tue, 29 May 2018 14:47:18 GMT

Good morning..I am paying for my activity yesterday so v said he wants me to not do a lot..hence he will do the laundry and the small amount of cleaning. I know the heat and humidity play a big role in how I feel.

Thanks for the compliments on my on my red scarf, shawl...it was a fun pattern. I matmake one in another color later.

Linda..those were great pics...(((Hugs)) on the anniversary of your brothers desth.

I am not the nicest person, linda. I have told chatty people that I am going to read and or sleep...not very often..but more than once. 🤪🤪 I find time changes very difficult..our Hawaii trips do a number on me. Hope you are recovered today. And that dh eats more.

Claudia, I would absolulety freak out if I lost my phone or wallet. Your flight for Colorado is very early...yikes. Our flight to Hawaii changed so we have a very long layover in Seattle. I have delta lounge privileges so we will stay there. Has r recovered from the weekend?

enjoy your day...🌻🌻

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LindaLatte — Tue, 29 May 2018 20:57:33 GMT

Good Afternoon! Glad you are taking it easy, and V is taking care of some of the chores you wanted to do, Barbara. I think the older I am the harder the time changes are on me.

Fortunately, I am better today. I slept better last night -- got up a few times, but went back to bed. I got up a little early, but not bad. And, I took my walk while it was still cool. It is supposed to make it to 100 degrees today, and they are talking about very high temperatures for the weekend. Oh well.....

I finally went to the pool yesterday, and it was nice. The neighborhood (it is not in my neighborhood, but close) was having a pot luck, so almost everyone was inside having dinner. Only one other couple was in the pool, and they left shortly after I came. While I like seeing my "pool buddies" it was nice having the pool all to myself.

The senior lunch program went okay (a bit longer than normal, but....), and I will be leaving for the gym soon. Then I will visit DH.

I forgot one more thing about "chatty". I was on the aisle, and another lady was at the window. Chatty decided to sit in the middle, and said -- it is good to have three old ladies in the row. Neither the other lady or I said a word, and she repeated it. Again, we said nothing. Eventually, I found out (not that I asked) that she was five years older than me. The other lady was playing solitaire on her computer, but chatty kept trying to engage her in conversation as well. I have to say she made an impression on me if nothing else. I guess I will need to be more like you if that happens again. Yikes!

My work buddy was back at the senior lunch program, and in fairly good shape. She told me that their roof needs to be replaced and it will cost something like $18,000. Apparently, the developer did some shoddy work on the roofs. The roofer is backed up, so their work won't be done until November. But, he assured her that it would be okay until then.

Hope R and your furbabies are okay, and you are not doing too much, Claudia. I know you want to accomplish a lot, but try take care of yourself as well.

Have a nice evening!

Hugs,

Linda

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chprsp — Wed, 30 May 2018 00:01:00 GMT

Great pictures, Linda. Yes I finally saw them!

Barbara, I'm glad you're taking it easy today. The heat, at least here is miserable. 97° when I was out earlier.

R managed to fall last night. He took some leftovers out of the microwave - hotter than anticipated so quickly put them on the table then somehow lost his balance. I heard a this and got up to investigate when Griff came tearing out of the kitchen to get me. R said he landed on his shoulder- left of course. We got him up and I have him some Motrin. He's ok today.

I finished mowing late morning before it reached 90. R tried to persuade me to hold a ladder while he climbed up to put in a new bracket for his USMC flag. Nope. Not going to happen. Reminded him the doctor said he didn't trust him not to try to fix things and did he really want to explain to him why he messed up the surgery.

Linda, last overseas trip I ordered something from Magellan's (i think) called No Jet Lag and it worked. I cannot sleep on the plane. Our first overseas trip the time change really affected me.

I wonder if "Chatty" is one of those people nervous about flying so covers it up by talking, talking, talking.

I decided to donate the jackets. If they're too big I won't wear them. Now to bag them up and get them out of the house.

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sydsgma1 — Wed, 30 May 2018 15:24:06 GMT

Good morning..it is much cooler (70) and rainy..so the ac is off..I much prefer fresh air and the house open. I picked up a few groceries after I dropped sydnie at school.

Pepper goes to the groomer in a bit...she has so much hair ,mini schnauzers don’t have fur that she was pretty hot this weekend.

I am am going to have a lot of people here for our anniversary..no one is staying here, but I need to figure out meals for around 25....think I will do some easy serve stuff?lasagna from Costco, tacos in a bag, salads, .my brothers wives, who are like sisters to me both know that I am having some physical,difficulties and said they will help...and my girls and dil are al so big helps ...so no stress...don’t believe that. L.ol

Linda..I am still shaking my head about your chatty seat mate. Glad you are over your jet lag. And it sounds as if Dh is perking up..hope you can get him to eat more. Glad your lunch buddy is back.

Sydnie spent hours this weekend working on a science project..she is very meticulous in what she does and turns out amazing work.

Claudia..yikes to r falling..and the same to him going on a ladder..v is smart enough not to do that anymore. Hope our cooler weather heads your way.

Have a good day.🍄🍄🌼

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LindaLatte — Wed, 30 May 2018 16:47:21 GMT

Good Morning/Afternoon! Should reach 100 degrees here today, so I am glad I got my walk in early. If all goes well, I will go to the pool this afternoon.

R on a ladder -- I don't think so..... I remember DH was always trying to get up on the roof -- it is a one-story house, but I did not approve. So, he managed to get up there when I was out. Yikes. I hope R doesn't fall again, and he listens to you, Claudia. I looked up that product, and I think it would be great for overseas travel, but perhaps too much for my trips. I would like to travel overseas some day, but not now because of DH. You may be correct about "chatty" being nervous about flying. Years ago on a business trip one of my colleague was very nervous about flying and we managed to sit next to a lady who was the same. Between the two, I thought I would lose it. The funny thing is that my colleague went home on a different plane, and others told me she was fine about flying.

I imagine Syd's science project is great, Barbara. Hope you can feel a little less stressed about your anniversary celebration. Like you said, there will be lots of eager helpers, and they know about your physical limitations. Keep reminding yourself that they really want to help, and this is a time for you and V to celebrate, not stress. The caregiver told me that DH is eating very well for her, so I don't know why he isn't doing so for me. I'll try again at lunch today.

Hope both of you have a nice day!

Hugs,

Linda

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chprsp — Thu, 31 May 2018 00:01:35 GMT

Try not to stress,Barbara. Yes, I know it's almost impossible not to. I'm very glad you'll have lots of help.

Syd is multi talented. I'm sure the project will be geat.

It was about 10° cooler today and windy. I expected it to rain but it hasn't yet. I made a trip to the vet for a bag of Pippen's special food then a quick stop at Wegman's.

Linda, I hope your DH are better for you today. At least seems to be eating well for some of the caregivers.

Barbara, R is just stubborn ( wants to do what he wants to do when he wants to do it). This time though he's listening to me. He doesn't want to chance explaining to the doctor that he tried to do something he shouldn't. Lol.

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sydsgma1 — Thu, 31 May 2018 18:49:50 GMT

Good afternoon..it is humid here but there is a breeze and I have the ceiling fan on. Got back from knitting a little while ago..No window washing to day because rain is threatening. We will be working a bit this weekend.

i decided to get our meals from Costco for next weekend...it will be much easier for me that way. Had a good discussion with my knitting colleagues about food.

Linda, hope your lunch is nice..and that Dh is better today. When I was able to do my big walks..I always went early in the morning..before the heat set in.

+Claudia, glad r is listening to you. I really am looking forward to next weekend...

hope you both both have a good rest of your day. 🌸🌸

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LindaLatte — Thu, 31 May 2018 21:35:38 GMT

Glad that you are comfortable about your decision, Barbara. I think COSTCO meals are a great idea. Imagine you enjoyed your knitting today.

Good that R is listening to you, Claudia. I guess the doctor has emphasized the need for him to take things easy. Hope things are going okay there today.

The meal/outing was okay. I wasn't too impressed by the food, but the prices were reasonable. The ladies I rode with were old friends (or at least good friends), and I didn't feel that included in their discussions or those at the restaurant. But, I did hear some interesting stories about RV living, etc. Most of the ladies seem to be very happy with living here -- plenty to do, nice people, etc. But, there is always room for improvement.

I will be going to visit DH in a little while, and I hope he is a little more "with it" today. DD is suffering from a migraine, but the rest of the family is doing okay.

Hope both of you sleep well.

Hugs,

Linda

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chprsp — Thu, 31 May 2018 23:13:40 GMT

Getting the food from Costco is an excellent idea, Barbara. The least amount of work for you so you can enjoy the celebration.

Linda, I hope your DH is more "with it" today. Too bad about the outing. It's difficult to be a newer participant when everyone knows each other.

Again the dogs are very grateful for ac. It has rained off and on. R is "down in the dumps" fearing the wrist is not healing as it should. I told him to keep using the bone stimulator and wait for the surgeon's appointment on the 12th. No sense borrowing trouble. I think part of it is the death of another high school friend. It was a small class. I'm guessing 40 at the most and this year is their 50th year.

I have a load of laundry to put in the dryer and clothes to put away. If I don't immediately put the clothes away certain young cats will tip the hamper and spread the clothes onto the floor.

Sleep well.

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sydsgma1 — Fri, 01 Jun 2018 17:26:08 GMT

Good afternoon..thank you for the anniversary greetings..hard to believe that many years have gone by. It i is a remarkable achievement. Only my moms parents and one of her sisters celebrated a 50th. And vs parents did also.

Sydnie is looking forward to the hibachi grill tonight. It can be an entertaining experience if we have a good chef.

i am not doing much today so I can enjoy this evening..

Linda. Sorry that your luncheon was not that enjoyable...but at least you learned about ra living. Hope Dh is perkier today...that is such a difficult thing to have to deal with.but it sounds as if your caregivers group is pretty supportive.

Claudia, one of my friends in Az broke her wrist..she had to have 2 surgeries , a bone stimulator and months of pt. It took over 2 years fro it heal. So for some, it does take more time.

Enjoy your day.🌻🌻

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chprsp — Fri, 01 Jun 2018 20:59:34 GMT

Yes it's quite a remarkable achievement, Barbara especially in today's world.. My parents and my maternal grandparents had their 50th. My late aunt and uncle would have had their 60th. I recall R's great aunt and uncle who helped raise him had their 50th. Enjoy the celebration and Happy Birthday to M.

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LindaLatte — Fri, 01 Jun 2018 22:30:04 GMT

Congratulations again, Barbara. My parents made it to their 50th, but I don't think any of my other relatives made it that long -- either one died or they divorced. Happy Birthday to M, and enjoy the restaurant. I have been to that type of restaurant several times (in DC/Maryland), and enjoyed them.

Sorry R, is down, Claudia. It seems that things take a lot longer to heal than I expect. the hospice nurse told me that she was happy that DH heel had healed so quickly, and I thought it was a long time (more than a month.) And, it is sobering when your classmates from high school pass away. I was pretty upset at the number of deaths when my 50th reunion came around.

DH was doing very well both yesterday and today. He is still not eating all his food, but he was smiling and had his eyes open most of the time.

Hope both of you sleep well.

Hugs,

Linda