topic 2nd marriage--being $$$ fair in Community Chat https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/2nd-marriage-being-fair/m-p/216367#M95817 <P>Your opinion matters &amp; I am wide open for your comments...</P> <P>1. second marriage for both of us - Dec 2012--long time alone - me 30 years, him 20 years</P> <P>2. will live in my house</P> <P>3. how do you fairly divide/share payment of household expenses - including the house note (28 years left on note), utilities, cable, lawn service, home insurance, cleaning services, groceries</P> <P>4. legal or other ramifications--particularly as it deals with his paying a portion of the house note</P> <P>5. we both have grown children--what are your feelings about the need for them to have an inheritance--1 is drug addict, 1 is recovering drug addict, 1 is real greedy 1 is sorta greedy</P> <P>6. our salaries are the same</P> <P>7. if he pays half of the house note, what would he be entitled to if I precede him in death</P> <P>8. we are late 50's/early 60's - I am 5 years older-</P> <P>I will be taking your answers back to him--thank you for your help on this one!!</P> Thu, 28 Jun 2012 19:05:23 GMT qvcgal2 2012-06-28T19:05:23Z 2nd marriage--being $$$ fair https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/2nd-marriage-being-fair/m-p/216367#M95817 <P>Your opinion matters &amp; I am wide open for your comments...</P> <P>1. second marriage for both of us - Dec 2012--long time alone - me 30 years, him 20 years</P> <P>2. will live in my house</P> <P>3. how do you fairly divide/share payment of household expenses - including the house note (28 years left on note), utilities, cable, lawn service, home insurance, cleaning services, groceries</P> <P>4. legal or other ramifications--particularly as it deals with his paying a portion of the house note</P> <P>5. we both have grown children--what are your feelings about the need for them to have an inheritance--1 is drug addict, 1 is recovering drug addict, 1 is real greedy 1 is sorta greedy</P> <P>6. our salaries are the same</P> <P>7. if he pays half of the house note, what would he be entitled to if I precede him in death</P> <P>8. we are late 50's/early 60's - I am 5 years older-</P> <P>I will be taking your answers back to him--thank you for your help on this one!!</P> Thu, 28 Jun 2012 19:05:23 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/2nd-marriage-being-fair/m-p/216367#M95817 qvcgal2 2012-06-28T19:05:23Z