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    <title>topic Daily Positive Thread for Tuesday in Community Chat</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;God gives abundantly to those who pass His gifts on to others. Lord, let&lt;BR /&gt; Your blessings flow in to me and then out from me. I will neither be&lt;BR /&gt; selfish&lt;BR /&gt; nor let my gifts stagnate.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the&lt;BR /&gt; things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set&lt;BR /&gt; their minds on the things of the Spirit." ~Romans 8:5&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God can draw us all closer to God in the bonds of the spirit. God&lt;BR /&gt; would have all people drawn closer to each other in the bonds of the&lt;BR /&gt; spirit. God, the great spirit of the universe, of which each of our&lt;BR /&gt; spirits is a part, wants unity with God and all God's children.&lt;BR /&gt; "Unity of the spirit in the bonds of peace." Each experience of our&lt;BR /&gt; life, of joy, of sorrow, of danger, of safety, of difficulty, of&lt;BR /&gt; success, of hardship, of ease, each can be accepted as part of our&lt;BR /&gt; common lot, n the bonds of the spirit.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may welcome the bonds of true fellowship. I pray that I&lt;BR /&gt; may be brought closer to unity with God and other people.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Today was really a warm day - very nice out in the patio!&lt;BR /&gt; It was an ordinary day - made chow mein for supper because I had left over&lt;BR /&gt; rice and chicken, now I have left over chow mein which will be good for a&lt;BR /&gt; meal tomorrow. I chopped all the veggies plus mushrooms in the food&lt;BR /&gt; processor and they were done in no time. Love my stainless steel large&lt;BR /&gt; skillet! Today I typed a long letter to Father Al, remember he's in a&lt;BR /&gt; Nursing Home. His mind is very clear, nothing wrong with that, but his body&lt;BR /&gt; is not so good anymore, he said yesterday that he needs the walker and&lt;BR /&gt; someone always has to be helping him, like a dog on a leash! He is my&lt;BR /&gt; sister's age and from my hometown. Fr. Jerry would tell me how Fr. Al was&lt;BR /&gt; doing, and it was not good physically - but we have good conversations on&lt;BR /&gt; the phone. Linus called the appliance store this morning, and they said&lt;BR /&gt; that it's getting closer when they can use him. He's also going to go to&lt;BR /&gt; the Good Earth Food Store tomorrow because they are looking for help, so&lt;BR /&gt; he'll want to inquire what they are looking for. One good benefit there&lt;BR /&gt; would be a good discount on the groceries, but he doesn’t know if they want&lt;BR /&gt; full time help or part time. Also he won't work Sundays anymore.&lt;BR /&gt; Sorry to be rattlin' on - my blessings this day - a big blessing was that he&lt;BR /&gt; lost his wallet, I prayed to St. Anthony, and it was found in the car under&lt;BR /&gt; the seat! It was frantic here for awhile looking and calling places.&lt;BR /&gt; Finally after awhile he asked if I prayed to St. Anthony, because he found&lt;BR /&gt; it, and didn't know how it got there, he had looked in the car before!&lt;BR /&gt; It's good to call upon our Saints for help.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; PRAYER TO MARY CONSOLER OF THE AFFLICTED&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; O Immaculate Mary, Dear Mother, Consoler , I take refuge in your most&lt;BR /&gt; lovable Heart with all the trust of which I am capable .You shall be&lt;BR /&gt; dearest object of my love and my veneration.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; From you , the dispenser of heavenly treasures , I shall always seek&lt;BR /&gt; peace in my troubles, light in my doubts, defence in my dangers, help in&lt;BR /&gt; my needs .&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Be therefore my refuge my strength, my consolation O Mary Consoler .&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the hour of my death , graciously receive the last beats of my heart,&lt;BR /&gt; and obtain for me a place in that heavenly country,where as one , all&lt;BR /&gt; hearts shall praise forever the adorable Heart of Jesus , with your&lt;BR /&gt; most lovable Heart , O Mary , my Mother, Consoler of the Afflicted ,&lt;BR /&gt; pray for us , who have recourse to you.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 1. I believe that if anything is worth doing, it would have been done&lt;BR /&gt; already.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 2. I shall never move quickly, except to avoid more work or find excuses.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 3. I will never rush into a job without a lifetime of consideration.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 4. I shall meet all of my deadlines directly in proportion to the amount of&lt;BR /&gt; bodily injury&lt;BR /&gt; I could expect to receive from missing them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 5. I firmly believe that tomorrow holds the possibility for new&lt;BR /&gt; technologies, astounding discoveries,&lt;BR /&gt; and a reprieve from my obligations.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 6. I truly believe that all deadlines are unreasonable regardless of the&lt;BR /&gt; amount of time given.7. I shall never forget that the probability of a&lt;BR /&gt; miracle, though infinitely small, is not exactly zero.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 8. If at first I don’t succeed, there is always next year.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 9. I shall always decide not to decide, unless of courses I decide to change&lt;BR /&gt; my mind.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 10. I shall always begin, start, initiate, take the first step, and/or write&lt;BR /&gt; the first word,&lt;BR /&gt; when I get around to it&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 11. I obey the law of inverse excuses which demands that the greater&lt;BR /&gt; the task to be done, the more insignificant the work that must be done prior&lt;BR /&gt; to beginning&lt;BR /&gt; the greater task.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 12. I know that the work cycle is not plan/start/finish, but wait/plan/plan.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God bless you with discomfort&lt;BR /&gt; at easy answers, half truths, superficial relationships,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will live deep within your heart.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God bless you with anger&lt;BR /&gt; at injustice, oppression and exploitation of people,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will work for justice, equality and peace.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God bless you with tears&lt;BR /&gt; to shed for those who suffer from pain, rejection, starvation and war,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will reach out your hand to comfort them and change their pain&lt;BR /&gt; into joy.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And may God bless you with the foolishness&lt;BR /&gt; to think that you can make a difference in the world,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will do the things which others tell you cannot be done.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; By a misplaced blow with a hammer, a man smashed one of his thumbs.&lt;BR /&gt; "That's too bad," said a friend, when he heard about the accident.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But the man was a kind of philosopher. He replied, "No, it isn't. It is one&lt;BR /&gt; of the best things that ever happened to me. It taught me to appreciate&lt;BR /&gt; thumb. I never knew its value to me before. On the first day, by actual&lt;BR /&gt; count, I found out after I injured my thumb, that there were 257 things I&lt;BR /&gt; had been doing with my thumb everyday in my life, without giving it a&lt;BR /&gt; thought. And I never realized that my thumb is practically indispensable to&lt;BR /&gt; me."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We never seem to value our commonest blessings until we are deprived of&lt;BR /&gt; them. Someone has remarked (evidently from personal experience) that the&lt;BR /&gt; best thing that can happen to us is to lose everything we've got and then&lt;BR /&gt; get it all back again.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The second time around, we'll treasure it and appreciate it much much more.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; TIME TO THINK&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; October 8, 2009&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My brother-in-law opened the bottom drawer of my sister's bureau and&lt;BR /&gt; lifted out a tissue-wrapped package.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "This," he said, "is not a slip. This is lingerie." He discarded the&lt;BR /&gt; tissue and handed me the slip. It was exquisite; silk, handmade and&lt;BR /&gt; trimmed with a cobweb of lace. The price tag with an astronomical&lt;BR /&gt; figure on it was still attached. "Jan bought this the first time we&lt;BR /&gt; went to New York, at&lt;BR /&gt; least 8 or 9 years ago. She never wore it. She was saving it for a&lt;BR /&gt; special occasion. Well, I guess this is the occasion." He took the&lt;BR /&gt; slip from me and put it on the bed with the other clothes we were&lt;BR /&gt; taking to the mortician. His hands lingered on the soft material for a&lt;BR /&gt; moment, then he slammed the drawer shut and turned to me. "Don't ever&lt;BR /&gt; save anything for a special occasion. Every day you're alive is a&lt;BR /&gt; special occasion."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I remembered those words through the funeral and the days that&lt;BR /&gt; followed when I helped him and my niece attend to all the sad chores&lt;BR /&gt; that follow an unexpected death. I thought about them on the plane&lt;BR /&gt; returning to California from the Midwestern town where my sister's&lt;BR /&gt; family lives. I thought about all the things that she hadn't seen or&lt;BR /&gt; heard or done. I thought about the things that she had done without&lt;BR /&gt; realizing that they were special.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I'm still thinking about his words, and they've changed my life. I'm&lt;BR /&gt; reading more and dusting less. I'm sitting on the deck and admiring&lt;BR /&gt; the view without fussing about the weeds in the garden. I'm spending&lt;BR /&gt; more time with my family and friends and less time in committee&lt;BR /&gt; meetings. Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experience to&lt;BR /&gt; savor, not endure. I'm trying to recognize these moments now and&lt;BR /&gt; cherish them. I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and&lt;BR /&gt; crystal for every special event-such as losing a pound, getting the&lt;BR /&gt; sink unstopped, the first camellia blossom. I wear my good blazer to&lt;BR /&gt; the market if I like it. My theory is if I look prosperous, I can&lt;BR /&gt; shell out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries without wincing. I'm&lt;BR /&gt; not saving my good perfume for special parties; clerks in hardware&lt;BR /&gt; stores and tellers in banks have noses that function as well as my&lt;BR /&gt; party-going friends. "Someday" and "one of these days" are losing&lt;BR /&gt; their grip on my vocabulary. If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing,&lt;BR /&gt; I want to see and hear and do it now.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I'm not sure what my sister would've done had she known that she&lt;BR /&gt; wouldn't be here for the tomorrow we all take for granted. I think she&lt;BR /&gt; would have called family members and a few close friends. She might&lt;BR /&gt; have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past&lt;BR /&gt; squabbles. I like to think she would have gone out for a Chinese&lt;BR /&gt; dinner, her favorite food. I'm guessing - I'll never know.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I&lt;BR /&gt; knew that my hours were limited. Angry because I put off seeing good&lt;BR /&gt; friends whom I was going to get in touch with - "someday". Angry&lt;BR /&gt; because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write -&lt;BR /&gt; one of these days. Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and&lt;BR /&gt; daughter often enough how much I truly love them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that&lt;BR /&gt; would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I&lt;BR /&gt; open my eyes, I tell myself that it is special.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Every day, every minute, every breath truly is... a gift from God.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God litter your life with blessings!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "You've got to dance like nobody's watching, and love like it's never&lt;BR /&gt; going to hurt."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "People say true friends must always hold hands, but true friends&lt;BR /&gt; don't need to hold hands because they know the other hand will always&lt;BR /&gt; be there."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May your Tuesday be filled with many blessings! God bless everything you&lt;BR /&gt; do.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 04:29:50 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2012-06-05T04:29:50Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Daily Positive Thread for Tuesday</title>
      <link>https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/Daily-Positive-Thread-for-Tuesday/m-p/208707#M92854</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;God gives abundantly to those who pass His gifts on to others. Lord, let&lt;BR /&gt; Your blessings flow in to me and then out from me. I will neither be&lt;BR /&gt; selfish&lt;BR /&gt; nor let my gifts stagnate.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the&lt;BR /&gt; things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set&lt;BR /&gt; their minds on the things of the Spirit." ~Romans 8:5&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God can draw us all closer to God in the bonds of the spirit. God&lt;BR /&gt; would have all people drawn closer to each other in the bonds of the&lt;BR /&gt; spirit. God, the great spirit of the universe, of which each of our&lt;BR /&gt; spirits is a part, wants unity with God and all God's children.&lt;BR /&gt; "Unity of the spirit in the bonds of peace." Each experience of our&lt;BR /&gt; life, of joy, of sorrow, of danger, of safety, of difficulty, of&lt;BR /&gt; success, of hardship, of ease, each can be accepted as part of our&lt;BR /&gt; common lot, n the bonds of the spirit.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may welcome the bonds of true fellowship. I pray that I&lt;BR /&gt; may be brought closer to unity with God and other people.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Today was really a warm day - very nice out in the patio!&lt;BR /&gt; It was an ordinary day - made chow mein for supper because I had left over&lt;BR /&gt; rice and chicken, now I have left over chow mein which will be good for a&lt;BR /&gt; meal tomorrow. I chopped all the veggies plus mushrooms in the food&lt;BR /&gt; processor and they were done in no time. Love my stainless steel large&lt;BR /&gt; skillet! Today I typed a long letter to Father Al, remember he's in a&lt;BR /&gt; Nursing Home. His mind is very clear, nothing wrong with that, but his body&lt;BR /&gt; is not so good anymore, he said yesterday that he needs the walker and&lt;BR /&gt; someone always has to be helping him, like a dog on a leash! He is my&lt;BR /&gt; sister's age and from my hometown. Fr. Jerry would tell me how Fr. Al was&lt;BR /&gt; doing, and it was not good physically - but we have good conversations on&lt;BR /&gt; the phone. Linus called the appliance store this morning, and they said&lt;BR /&gt; that it's getting closer when they can use him. He's also going to go to&lt;BR /&gt; the Good Earth Food Store tomorrow because they are looking for help, so&lt;BR /&gt; he'll want to inquire what they are looking for. One good benefit there&lt;BR /&gt; would be a good discount on the groceries, but he doesn’t know if they want&lt;BR /&gt; full time help or part time. Also he won't work Sundays anymore.&lt;BR /&gt; Sorry to be rattlin' on - my blessings this day - a big blessing was that he&lt;BR /&gt; lost his wallet, I prayed to St. Anthony, and it was found in the car under&lt;BR /&gt; the seat! It was frantic here for awhile looking and calling places.&lt;BR /&gt; Finally after awhile he asked if I prayed to St. Anthony, because he found&lt;BR /&gt; it, and didn't know how it got there, he had looked in the car before!&lt;BR /&gt; It's good to call upon our Saints for help.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; PRAYER TO MARY CONSOLER OF THE AFFLICTED&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; O Immaculate Mary, Dear Mother, Consoler , I take refuge in your most&lt;BR /&gt; lovable Heart with all the trust of which I am capable .You shall be&lt;BR /&gt; dearest object of my love and my veneration.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; From you , the dispenser of heavenly treasures , I shall always seek&lt;BR /&gt; peace in my troubles, light in my doubts, defence in my dangers, help in&lt;BR /&gt; my needs .&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Be therefore my refuge my strength, my consolation O Mary Consoler .&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At the hour of my death , graciously receive the last beats of my heart,&lt;BR /&gt; and obtain for me a place in that heavenly country,where as one , all&lt;BR /&gt; hearts shall praise forever the adorable Heart of Jesus , with your&lt;BR /&gt; most lovable Heart , O Mary , my Mother, Consoler of the Afflicted ,&lt;BR /&gt; pray for us , who have recourse to you.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 1. I believe that if anything is worth doing, it would have been done&lt;BR /&gt; already.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 2. I shall never move quickly, except to avoid more work or find excuses.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 3. I will never rush into a job without a lifetime of consideration.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 4. I shall meet all of my deadlines directly in proportion to the amount of&lt;BR /&gt; bodily injury&lt;BR /&gt; I could expect to receive from missing them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 5. I firmly believe that tomorrow holds the possibility for new&lt;BR /&gt; technologies, astounding discoveries,&lt;BR /&gt; and a reprieve from my obligations.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 6. I truly believe that all deadlines are unreasonable regardless of the&lt;BR /&gt; amount of time given.7. I shall never forget that the probability of a&lt;BR /&gt; miracle, though infinitely small, is not exactly zero.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 8. If at first I don’t succeed, there is always next year.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 9. I shall always decide not to decide, unless of courses I decide to change&lt;BR /&gt; my mind.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 10. I shall always begin, start, initiate, take the first step, and/or write&lt;BR /&gt; the first word,&lt;BR /&gt; when I get around to it&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 11. I obey the law of inverse excuses which demands that the greater&lt;BR /&gt; the task to be done, the more insignificant the work that must be done prior&lt;BR /&gt; to beginning&lt;BR /&gt; the greater task.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; 12. I know that the work cycle is not plan/start/finish, but wait/plan/plan.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God bless you with discomfort&lt;BR /&gt; at easy answers, half truths, superficial relationships,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will live deep within your heart.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God bless you with anger&lt;BR /&gt; at injustice, oppression and exploitation of people,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will work for justice, equality and peace.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God bless you with tears&lt;BR /&gt; to shed for those who suffer from pain, rejection, starvation and war,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will reach out your hand to comfort them and change their pain&lt;BR /&gt; into joy.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And may God bless you with the foolishness&lt;BR /&gt; to think that you can make a difference in the world,&lt;BR /&gt; so that you will do the things which others tell you cannot be done.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; By a misplaced blow with a hammer, a man smashed one of his thumbs.&lt;BR /&gt; "That's too bad," said a friend, when he heard about the accident.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But the man was a kind of philosopher. He replied, "No, it isn't. It is one&lt;BR /&gt; of the best things that ever happened to me. It taught me to appreciate&lt;BR /&gt; thumb. I never knew its value to me before. On the first day, by actual&lt;BR /&gt; count, I found out after I injured my thumb, that there were 257 things I&lt;BR /&gt; had been doing with my thumb everyday in my life, without giving it a&lt;BR /&gt; thought. And I never realized that my thumb is practically indispensable to&lt;BR /&gt; me."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We never seem to value our commonest blessings until we are deprived of&lt;BR /&gt; them. Someone has remarked (evidently from personal experience) that the&lt;BR /&gt; best thing that can happen to us is to lose everything we've got and then&lt;BR /&gt; get it all back again.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The second time around, we'll treasure it and appreciate it much much more.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; TIME TO THINK&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; October 8, 2009&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My brother-in-law opened the bottom drawer of my sister's bureau and&lt;BR /&gt; lifted out a tissue-wrapped package.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "This," he said, "is not a slip. This is lingerie." He discarded the&lt;BR /&gt; tissue and handed me the slip. It was exquisite; silk, handmade and&lt;BR /&gt; trimmed with a cobweb of lace. The price tag with an astronomical&lt;BR /&gt; figure on it was still attached. "Jan bought this the first time we&lt;BR /&gt; went to New York, at&lt;BR /&gt; least 8 or 9 years ago. She never wore it. She was saving it for a&lt;BR /&gt; special occasion. Well, I guess this is the occasion." He took the&lt;BR /&gt; slip from me and put it on the bed with the other clothes we were&lt;BR /&gt; taking to the mortician. His hands lingered on the soft material for a&lt;BR /&gt; moment, then he slammed the drawer shut and turned to me. "Don't ever&lt;BR /&gt; save anything for a special occasion. Every day you're alive is a&lt;BR /&gt; special occasion."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I remembered those words through the funeral and the days that&lt;BR /&gt; followed when I helped him and my niece attend to all the sad chores&lt;BR /&gt; that follow an unexpected death. I thought about them on the plane&lt;BR /&gt; returning to California from the Midwestern town where my sister's&lt;BR /&gt; family lives. I thought about all the things that she hadn't seen or&lt;BR /&gt; heard or done. I thought about the things that she had done without&lt;BR /&gt; realizing that they were special.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I'm still thinking about his words, and they've changed my life. I'm&lt;BR /&gt; reading more and dusting less. I'm sitting on the deck and admiring&lt;BR /&gt; the view without fussing about the weeds in the garden. I'm spending&lt;BR /&gt; more time with my family and friends and less time in committee&lt;BR /&gt; meetings. Whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experience to&lt;BR /&gt; savor, not endure. I'm trying to recognize these moments now and&lt;BR /&gt; cherish them. I'm not "saving" anything; we use our good china and&lt;BR /&gt; crystal for every special event-such as losing a pound, getting the&lt;BR /&gt; sink unstopped, the first camellia blossom. I wear my good blazer to&lt;BR /&gt; the market if I like it. My theory is if I look prosperous, I can&lt;BR /&gt; shell out $28.49 for one small bag of groceries without wincing. I'm&lt;BR /&gt; not saving my good perfume for special parties; clerks in hardware&lt;BR /&gt; stores and tellers in banks have noses that function as well as my&lt;BR /&gt; party-going friends. "Someday" and "one of these days" are losing&lt;BR /&gt; their grip on my vocabulary. If it's worth seeing or hearing or doing,&lt;BR /&gt; I want to see and hear and do it now.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I'm not sure what my sister would've done had she known that she&lt;BR /&gt; wouldn't be here for the tomorrow we all take for granted. I think she&lt;BR /&gt; would have called family members and a few close friends. She might&lt;BR /&gt; have called a few former friends to apologize and mend fences for past&lt;BR /&gt; squabbles. I like to think she would have gone out for a Chinese&lt;BR /&gt; dinner, her favorite food. I'm guessing - I'll never know.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It's those little things left undone that would make me angry if I&lt;BR /&gt; knew that my hours were limited. Angry because I put off seeing good&lt;BR /&gt; friends whom I was going to get in touch with - "someday". Angry&lt;BR /&gt; because I hadn't written certain letters that I intended to write -&lt;BR /&gt; one of these days. Angry and sorry that I didn't tell my husband and&lt;BR /&gt; daughter often enough how much I truly love them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I'm trying very hard not to put off, hold back, or save anything that&lt;BR /&gt; would add laughter and luster to our lives. And every morning when I&lt;BR /&gt; open my eyes, I tell myself that it is special.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Every day, every minute, every breath truly is... a gift from God.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May God litter your life with blessings!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "You've got to dance like nobody's watching, and love like it's never&lt;BR /&gt; going to hurt."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "People say true friends must always hold hands, but true friends&lt;BR /&gt; don't need to hold hands because they know the other hand will always&lt;BR /&gt; be there."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; May your Tuesday be filled with many blessings! God bless everything you&lt;BR /&gt; do.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2012 04:29:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2012-06-05T04:29:50Z</dc:date>
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