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MY BEAUTIFUL LABRADOODLE DIED

KateinOK — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 08:13:11 GMT

My doodle was only 9 years old. He had a tumor on his heart that burst and he died within hours. He was my best friend and like a child to me. I have an autoimmune disease and have had multiple back surgeries so I am at home almost all the time. My sweet dog never left my side, even waiting on the floor outside the shower door for me when I showered. He always looked at me with love, and listened all day while I chattered on to him! He was funny and I miss him so much. It hurts that he's gone, but I know I was blessed to have had him at all. My husband would like me to get another dog in a few months. Are there any particular dog breeds or mixes you would recommend that are small to medium sized? One that's lovable and sweet and loyal? Thank you for listening and for your advice.

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docsgirl — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 09:05:23 GMT

I'm so sorry about your baby. I've been there more times than I care to count and each time the pain in my is excruciating. When I lost my precious dog 3 years ago, my heart went with him. Quite a long time passed before I was able to adopt my cat. I often ask him who rescued whom. He yawns and cuddles up close to me. Yes, we are blessed to have them but the pain of losing them is unbearable. You will know when your heart is ready to adopt another furbaby. You have my deepest sympathy. docsgirl

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on the bay — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 09:14:11 GMT

I am so sorry about your baby. You said the same thing my son said-that we were so lucky to have had the best dogs in the world

When you are ready, I would suggest you go to your local animal control/humane society and take home the one that captures your heart. You will know.

I cannot go as I pretty much want them all.

Or there are rescue groups online-search local rescue groups for your county/city and they usually have pictures

I bet that your sweet labrodoodle will be honored that you chose to keep on loving and taking good care of another.

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winamac1 — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 09:18:09 GMT

@KateinOK wrote:
My doodle was only 9 years old. He had a tumor on his heart that burst and he died within hours. He was my best friend and like a child to me. I have an autoimmune disease and have had multiple back surgeries so I am at home almost all the time. My sweet dog never left my side, even waiting on the floor outside the shower door for me when I showered. He always looked at me with love, and listened all day while I chattered on to him! He was funny and I miss him so much. It hurts that he's gone, but I know I was blessed to have had him at all. My husband would like me to get another dog in a few months. Are there any particular dog breeds or mixes you would recommend that are small to medium sized? One that's lovable and sweet and loyal? Thank you for listening and for your advice.

So sorry!!!!

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qualitygal — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 10:01:43 GMT

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that. All I can do is send you a big gentle hug. My best to you.

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PamfromCT — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 10:05:57 GMT

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious pet. A loss of such a wonderful and devoted dog is just devastating. Particularly in your situation, I just can't imagine the shock and pain you are in. My heart goes out to you.

Many years ago, we had a Corgi, our beloved Willie. He was a very sweet tempered guy, a perfect companion. Just as cute as can be. He loved to "play soccer" with our son in the yard. With such short little legs, he did not require as much exercise as some larger dogs. You might want to do some research on this breed, as I am sure there are Corgi rescue groups out there. They are smaller dogs, but with quite a sturdy body, and certainly a quiet temperament. I wish you all the best, and I think it is wonderful that you are giving some thought to giving another dog such a loving home.

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Nataliesgramma — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 10:17:14 GMT

I am so sorry......

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Skyegirl21 — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 10:17:42 GMT

Sending thoughts and prayers- there Is no easy way through it, but it will get easier over time. After mine passed I waited, then life brought to me the dearest rescue dog. Another blessing- gratitude for our pets that are a joy in life. Hugs. Skyegirl.

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Vivian — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 10:41:35 GMT

I am so very sorry. Losing a beloved fur baby is such a painful emotional experience. Those of us who have gone through it know all too well how much it hurts. Your love for your dog came shining through in your post. It may sound strange, but it's good to cry. Let it out, post here, and know that there are many here who understand.

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Plaid Pants2 — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:01:41 GMT

Go to your local animal shelter, and they have plenty of loving dogs that need forever homes, and you'll be saving a life.

The dog will always remember that, and be forever grateful to you for it.

*adopt, don't shop*

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riley1 — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:15:21 GMT

Sorry for the loss of your fur-baby.

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SeaMaiden — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:17:47 GMT

@KateinOK My heart crys for you.... so so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I think a dog with a simular loving sweet personality would be a a Golden Retriever. My girl Lola is about 70 pounds... and just a bundle of love. Sweet, gentle... just wants to be pet and loved all day long. They are people dogs and have a very kind giving personality... no meaness in their hearts. Probably why they are chosen as service dogs so many times... smart too!

Whatever type of dog you get, it will be a lucky dog to find you and have you as the one they love. Best wishes to you. ((hugs))

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Angie321 — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:30:22 GMT

Dealing with the loss of a much loved furbaby is sooo hard. I think a rescue dog would be wonderful. I've gotten 2 of my babies from petfinder dot com. You can put in your location, type of pet, male or female, and size you're looking for. Most of them have a little write up about the animal. There are so many on there, I can't look at it very often or I'd have a zoo in my home!

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hoosieroriginal — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:42:20 GMT

I'm so sorry for your loss - they are our children - I know some people don't understand that, but they give you UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. I know there is another shelter animal out there that needs your love.

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athenian — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:44:02 GMT

Oh, I am so sorry, and know the loss you feel.

We found our rescue beagle online. We went to see her in person, and I knew right away. I always think our previous pets have a hand (or paw) in sending us the right next pet. You'll know when you meet the right one.

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NickNack — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:50:44 GMT

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how hard that is. I lost my beloved Japanese Chin last year. Within a few weeks I had my French Bulldog. Getting a new dog so quickly was a good decision for me. You'll know when it's time. I've also had Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. Shih Tzus are very sweet and also healthy. All of these breeds are very sweet, but are smaller than what you're used to.

Greyhounds are supposed to be wonderful dogs. If I were looking for a larger dog I think I would look into a Greyhound rescue. Let us know what you decide.

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SilleeMee — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 11:59:24 GMT

(((((( BIG HUG ))))))

I have tears for you. I'm so sorry.

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Say Nay — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 12:00:46 GMT

Sorry about your pup. How about adopting a rescue?

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KingstonsMom — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 12:32:11 GMT

@KateinOK

Kate, my sincerest sympathy for the loss of your beloved doodle. May you find some comfort and peace in this poem.

Last Night

I stood by your bed last night; I came to have a peek.

I could see that you were crying, you found it hard to sleep.

I whined to you softly as you wiped away a tear,

"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."

I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour your coffee.

You were thinking of the many times your hand reached down to me.

I was with you at the shop today; your arms were getting sore,

I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.

I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.

I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.

I walked with you toward the house, you fumbled for your key.

I gently put my paw on you; I smiled and said, "It's me."

You looked so very, very tired and sank into a chair.

I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.

It's possible for me to be so near you everyday,

to tell you with such certainty, "I never went away."

You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew....

in the stillness of the evening, I was very close to you.

The day is over, I smile and watch you yawning

and say, "Goodnight, God Bless, I'll see you in the morning."

And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,

I'll rush across to meet you and we'll stand side by side.

I have so many things to show you, there's so much for you to see.

Be patient, live your journey out....then come home to be with me

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Yardlie — Wed, 22 Jun 2016 12:33:33 GMT

@KateinOK ... I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your furbaby. While I haven't had dogs, I had two cats who were my "children." My heart ached so badly when it came time to put them down. I loved them so dearly.

I feel the pain you are experiencing...and shock. There are so many wonderful breeds of dogs out there. You can love a mutt just as much as a pure bred.

After I lost my second furbaby in January, I only waited three weeks before adopting another...from the shelter. The pain of living without a furbaby was too much for me. While I knew that adopting another kitty would not remove the pain I was experiencing over the loss of my other cat, it did give me something else to love...and another kitty to love me. It helped ease the pain.

I hope you don't go out looking for another "look alike" labradoodle." My friend lost her dog last fall and adopted a look-alike dog. She spends all her time comparing the new dog to the old one and is constantly frustrated because the new one doesn't behave the same as the one she lost. Every animal has it's own personality and special ways. There are millions of furbabies who need a home. Start looking at your shelter for one who needs a human to love it. Best of luck to you...and hugs!