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Father's Day

IamMrsG — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 13:55:32 GMT

I was a blessed child. I grew up in a home with two parents who loved me. On this day of days, Father’s Day, I choose to tell you about my Dad.

He’s gone now, but only in the physical sense. He remains in my heart and spirit. I love him as much today as I did when I was his little girl, and now as an adult, I respect him so much more.

You see, my father was a hero. I do not make this claim lightly and am certain that many who knew him would wholeheartedly affirm it. Men cried upon hearing the news of his death. A few came to leave mementoes, notes and photos on his grave. One man brought his young son to Dad’s grave so he could say goodbye. Dad was that kind of a man.

Due to the circumstances of his youth he had very little education, yet he was the smartest man I knew. He grasped concepts quickly and had a clarity of thought and vision that enabled him to get to the crux of the matter straight away. That included people – you could not easily deceive or fool my Dad.

He had an inordinate sense of justice, compassion and a tender heart. Dad didn’t believe in judging people. He did not attend church, yet, by example, he taught me more about acceptance and tolerance than I ever learned from sitting on a church pew.

I could go on, but I believe you can see now why I feel blessed to have been the daughter of such a man. Thank you, Dad. For everything.

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hoosieroriginal — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 14:01:31 GMT

You can tell how much you loved your dad. My dad died when I was 9 years old and I still miss him and wish I knew more about him. He was my hero too. His death really affected my relationship with people, not in a good way.

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Yardlie — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 14:12:02 GMT

@IamMrsG wrote:
I was a blessed child. I grew up in a home with two parents who loved me. On this day of days, Father’s Day, I choose to tell you about my Dad.

He’s gone now, but only in the physical sense. He remains in my heart and spirit. I love him as much today as I did when I was his little girl, and now as an adult, I respect him so much more.

You see, my father was a hero. I do not make this claim lightly and am certain that many who knew him would wholeheartedly affirm it. Men cried upon hearing the news of his death. A few came to leave mementoes, notes and photos on his grave. One man brought his young son to Dad’s grave so he could say goodbye. Dad was that kind of a man.

Due to the circumstances of his youth he had very little education, yet he was the smartest man I knew. He grasped concepts quickly and had a clarity of thought and vision that enabled him to get to the crux of the matter straight away. That included people – you could not easily deceive or fool my Dad.

He had an inordinate sense of justice, compassion and a tender heart. Dad didn’t believe in judging people. He did not attend church, yet, by example, he taught me more about acceptance and tolerance than I ever learned from sitting on a church pew.

I could go on, but I believe you can see now why I feel blessed to have been the daughter of such a man. Thank you, Dad. For everything.

@IamMrsG...Your love for your dad comes through clearly. You definitely were blessed to have such a dad.

I hope you don't mind my saying that I could have written your post. I had the same kind of dad. He has been gone 5 years, and I miss him so much. He was the parent in our family who showed us love, led by example, and taught us all the practical things we know.

Happy Father's Day to all the father's out there...and to all who carry memories of their fathers in their hearts.

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IMW — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 15:42:45 GMT

Thanks for the lovely post. I, too was blessed. My dh and my son in law are also great dads.

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JustJazzmom — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 15:58:43 GMT

What a wonderful post!

My Dad was of 'the greatest generation' and there wasn't anything he wouldn't attempt to fix! He was a handy guy who loved working with tools. If he didn't know how to do something, he managed to find a way to do it -- maybe a neighbor was skilled at it or he got a book and read up on how to do something the correct and proper way. Basic electrical wiring for instance or wallpapering walls are two examples. If the job was too complicated he had the sense to hire someone!

He taught me that I could do anything I wanted to be when I grew up and was always encouraging me to do and be the best growing up!

I miss you Dad today and always!

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Pandalady — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 16:05:00 GMT

@IamMrsG@YardlieGod bless you both for your posts! Those are lovely tributes to your fathers. I am thankful to still have my dad. He is a wonderful dad who gives me love and support each and every day! I grew up in a wonderful, loving home where daddy came home from work and made sure he took time with me, in spite of not growing up in such a loving home, himself. He always encouraged me to follow my dreams. My parents have been married for 55 years now and show daily virtures of a wonderful marriage! I am truly blessed as their daughter.

DH lost his father suddenly in October of 2015. This is a hard day for him this year. My FIL also could have been the wonderful father you described in your post @IamMrsG! He always treated me like family. My inlaws had just celebrated 50 years of marriage.

I believe that it takes a strong man of faith to lead his family for that many years. In honor and memory of my father and FIL, Happy Father's Day! I also want to wish all of the fathers a wonderful day! God bless you all!

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Preds — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 20:15:19 GMT

My dad taught me so very much, but I just can't share it as well as everyone else had. I just lost him in Feb and the "pain"is still raw. I can say that he is/was the greatest man I every knew. I am very blessed to have had him as a father, mentor, teacher, inspiration, debator, and friend.

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Vickiv — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 20:28:21 GMT

My real Dad was not in my life but I had the most wonderful step father. He was so good and kind to me. Treated me like I was his own daughter. A caring grandfather also. Gave me great advice growing up. I miss him so much since he passed away. Sometimes stepfathers are not recognized on Fathers Day but I had the best one ever!

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BornToShop — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 20:32:17 GMT

@IamMrsG, how moving & comforting your post is. In fact, I read it 3 more times. I too, am blessed with my dad, a hero to me who is still 85 years young. Your words are the epitome of what Father's Day is all about. Thank you.

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meallen616 — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 20:34:15 GMT

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MaxsMom — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 20:57:38 GMT

I just went to visit my Dad, he is a wonderfual Dad.

I am 59 and I am very lucky to have him.

I always have to remember this, he has alzheimers. He smiled at me and I told him

how much I love him and that he is a wonderful dad.

He is in a home for alzheimers patients and is well taken care.

I believe in my heart, he knows who I am. I can tell by the way he looks at me.

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Shawnie — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 21:07:46 GMT

Lost my dad very young, forty years ago. Fathers Day is sad for me.

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Preds — Sun, 19 Jun 2016 21:22:51 GMT

@MaxsMom wrote:
I just went to visit my Dad, he is a wonderfual Dad.
I am 59 and I am very lucky to have him.
I always have to remember this, he has alzheimers. He smiled at me and I told him
how much I love him and that he is a wonderful dad.
He is in a home for alzheimers patients and is well taken care.
I believe in my heart, he knows who I am. I can tell by the way he looks at me.

He knows. He may not be able to show it, but he knows.

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MaxsMom — Mon, 20 Jun 2016 00:05:33 GMT

Thank you Preds, in my heart I know he knows.

I try not to be sad, I just remember him the way that he was and that makes it

bearable. There are so many families dealing with loved ones with Alzheimers.

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IamMrsG — Mon, 20 Jun 2016 00:49:51 GMT

@Preds wrote:
My dad taught me so very much, but I just can't share it as well as everyone else had. I just lost him in Feb and the "pain"is still raw. I can say that he is/was the greatest man I every knew. I am very blessed to have had him as a father, mentor, teacher, inspiration, debator, and friend.

@Preds

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Lila Belle — Mon, 20 Jun 2016 03:07:34 GMT

I was the first girl born on my dad's side in 4 generations. After 4 sons he was ecstatic when I was born. He has always been my rock, my biggest fan and supporter. I am so proud to be his daughter and the mother of his grandsons.

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pitdakota — Mon, 20 Jun 2016 03:34:51 GMT

@Preds wrote:
My dad taught me so very much, but I just can't share it as well as everyone else had. I just lost him in Feb and the "pain"is still raw. I can say that he is/was the greatest man I every knew. I am very blessed to have had him as a father, mentor, teacher, inspiration, debator, and friend.

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@Preds It is so hard. I wish you well but don't really have an wonderful words of wisdom. I felt the same way about my father and miss him so very much. It has been 3 years now since my father passed away. Hang in there....it does get a little easier. And just remember the wonderful legacy he left behind....You!