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The Funeral

SeaMaiden — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:12:11 GMT

So elaborate, so long....Nancy's daughter said that Nancy orchestrated the entire celebration of her life, The funeral, just as she orchestrated her husband's life and her children's life. She was always in control. An interesting and multi faceted woman.

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Krimpette — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:12:52 GMT

A beautiful, poignant funeral.

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Nightowlz — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:13:35 GMT

All that matters is that's what she wanted. I'm not having a funeral, viewing, nada.

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deepwaterdotter — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:52:40 GMT

I have also left instructions in my will as to my funeral arrangements. Since we chose to forego parenthood, my husband and I preferred that we determine the proceedings.

I watched the ceremony on Fox News, and think they aired a thoughtful representation of Mrs. Reagan's final wishes.

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Puzzle Piece — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:03:27 GMT

@SeaMaiden Nancy was organized and orderly, like so many on this planet. She prepared for her funeral. Now, that doesn't mean others would go through with every detail like she laid out. This is a funeral for a former first lady of the finest country in the world. I am sure many more would have like to have been asked to speak but will not get the opportunity.

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beckyb1012 — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:22:17 GMT

I have my instructions with my will in my files and with my Executrix and her copies of all my estate planning documents.

Nancy is with Ronnie now.

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Iwantcoffee — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:23:51 GMT

The blanket of white flowers and music is beautiful.

Rest in peace.

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RazorSharp — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:24:25 GMT

I wish the camera would stop cutting to Patti and Ron Jr. They keep making a point to cut to them when they start praying. Ron Jr. Is an outspoken atheist, and it looks so disrespectful that he isn't praying along with everyone else.

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Puzzle Piece — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:02:29 GMT

@RazorSharp wrote:
I wish the camera would stop cutting to Patti and Ron Jr. They keep making a point to cut to them when they start praying. Ron Jr. Is an outspoken atheist, and it looks so disrespectful that he isn't praying along with everyone else.

That son Ron Jr. has always been an odd ball. His words and his sharing was odd but I think the others like so many just ignore him.

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SusieQ_2 — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:52:39 GMT

I tuned in just as Tom Brokaw was finishing up. I did hear Patti Davis and Ron speak. It was so touching, looking out at the beautiful Caifornia landscape, with its rolling hills under the fittingly cloudy sky.

And now the rain is starting to fall.

Rest in Peace Mrs. Reagan.

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meem120 — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:53:15 GMT

It was lovely.

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chessylady — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:53:18 GMT

It is not disrespectful for Ron Jr. not to pray. If he is an atheist, then he doesn't believe that there is a God to pray to. Would you have him act like he is praying?

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Frosted Cake — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:53:34 GMT

@Puzzle Piece wrote:
@RazorSharp wrote:
I wish the camera would stop cutting to Patti and Ron Jr. They keep making a point to cut to them when they start praying. Ron Jr. Is an outspoken atheist, and it looks so disrespectful that he isn't praying along with everyone else.
That son Ron Jr. has always been an odd ball. His words and his sharing was odd but I think the others like some many just ignore him.

I think Ron Jr. is a nice man and well versed. It's not easy to eulogize someone you loved. He might not have wanted to share personal stories. He's eloquent and has a beautiful voice. I admire the Reagan children as they were individuals.

I'm not an athiest, but when my parents died, I didn't say out loud prayers. I was deep in my own thoughts. No one should judge anyone else's beliefs or way they pray.

Bless the Reagan family. Patty looks so much like her Mom. I thought the memorial was well done.

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Lucky Charm — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 20:56:25 GMT

Did you watch the entire funeral, SM?

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RazorSharp — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:00:59 GMT

@chessylady wrote:
It is not disrespectful for Ron Jr. not to pray. If he is an atheist, then he doesn't believe that there is a God to pray to. Would you have him act like he is praying?

I wasn't saying that it was disrespectful OF him. I was saying that it was disrespectful TO him, because they kept making a point to cut to him to show that he wasn't praying. This day was about Nancy, not Ron Jr., and it was annoying that the media was trying to make it a point to show that he wasn't praying.

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blackhole99 — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:01:53 GMT

I know NR was a first lady and I'm trying not to be judgemental, but for anyone to spend that kind of money to put someone in the ground is beyond me. It just goes to show you how different the rich are from the rest us or at the very least, me.

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croemer — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:03:45 GMT

I loved all the stories. I know the kids and their parents had their moments...and appreicated that they kept it real. I love their love story but realize maybe the kids did not always feel... as they mentioned part of the circle sometimes....I am sad for that. Relationships are complicated and must be especially so when your father was first the Gov. for 2 terms and the President for 2 terms and having the world on your shoulders.

God Bless Ronald and Nancy Reagan.

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Perkup — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:11:51 GMT

On such a day there is no need for any negative comments concerning the last tributes to Nancy Reagan. If you can find nothing else to admire, think of the incredible relationship she shared with her husband Ronnie. The two of them have often been an inspiration to me with my two pecious husbands - one who passed some years ago and the special man to whom I am currently married.

The funeral was lovely, beautiful words were spoken, wonderful misic was played and no one could have come away without feelings of warmth and caring. RIP Nancy Reagan. You mattered to many. Well done.

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goldensrbest — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:12:08 GMT

Yes, the reagans had a fairy tale, marriage, and were devoted to each other,how ever their two kids, had many problems with their relation ship with their parents,

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Puzzle Piece — Fri, 11 Mar 2016 21:13:46 GMT

@blackhole99 Much of Nancy's expenses were paid for by others. You can reasearch the info. I ask, if not here in the USA, then where would someone spend any money on a former first lady.