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What do you think?

Marmalade_1 — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:32:50 GMT

I think it is true.

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Topaz Gem — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:34:17 GMT

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esmeraldagooch — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:37:35 GMT

I don't think this is true.

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60sgirl — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:38:16 GMT

I can see where this has merit.

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Marmalade_1 — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:38:16 GMT

On 3/10/2015 esmeraldagooch said:
I don't think this is true.

So you care about your image?

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Cakers1 — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:40:34 GMT

True as a generalization but sometimes not caring what others think isn't always a good thing.

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esmeraldagooch — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:41:36 GMT

On 3/10/2015 Marmalade said:
On 3/10/2015 esmeraldagooch said:
I don't think this is true.

So you care about your image?

Absolutely and I am not fake.

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jubilant — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:43:58 GMT

I agree.

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Marmalade_1 — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:44:14 GMT

On 3/10/2015 esmeraldagooch said:
On 3/10/2015 Marmalade said:
On 3/10/2015 esmeraldagooch said:
I don't think this is true.

So you care about your image?

Absolutely and I am not fake.

Sorry I disagree.When one is overly concerned about their image they compromise in being true to themselves, therefore they are fake to a certain extent.

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game-on — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 17:45:32 GMT

I don't think you can paint people with one brush....

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raven-blackbird — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 18:54:40 GMT

OP............I think it's MORE then true.........it's just the way it is..................raven

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Lion — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 18:57:15 GMT

On 3/10/2015 game-on said:
I don't think you can paint people with one brush....

Exactly. Life is not black or white, not one way or the other.

I think most everyone cares about the image they present, at some level.

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KittyLouSoutenu — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:01:21 GMT

I think the people who say they don't care are full of it.

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Irshgrl31201 — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:04:32 GMT

Of course I care about my image to a certain degree. I am a business owner and also work in a service beauty based industry. My clients would hardly go to someone who looked like they just rolled out of bed, not caring about their appearance, someone who gossiped and is generally unprofessional.

While working in the beauty business requires one who is successful in that profession to have a certain set of characteristics that make someone feel comfortable with your professionalism, owning and renting out properties does too, just a different kind.

The civil world in general requires this. There are times I would love to tell a rude client off but I have a professional image to keep up. That isn't being fake, that is being smart.

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deepwaterdotter — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:06:47 GMT

On 3/10/2015 Irshgrl31201 said:
Of course I care about my image to a certain degree. I am a business owner and also work in a service beauty based industry. My clients would hardly go to someone who looked like they just rolled out of bed, not caring about their appearance, someone who gossiped and is generally unprofessional.

While working in the beauty business requires one who is successful in that profession to have a certain set of characteristics that make someone feel comfortable with your professionalism, owning and renting out properties does too, just a different kind.

The civil world in general requires this. There are times I would love to tell a rude client off but I have a professional image to keep up. That isn't being fake, that is being smart.

Well-stated, and I agree.

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PIT-HAG Melissa — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:09:21 GMT

My friends and I live by the F rule...

If you are not feeding, financing, friends or family it just doesn't matter...There IS one more F but I refrained from posting even the mild version..You are welcome..

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jessa — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:13:27 GMT

On 3/10/2015 KittyLouSoutenu said:
I think the people who say they don't care are full of it.

As usual ITA with you! And you didn't need a gazillion words to lecture about it!!!

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MickD — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 19:18:48 GMT

I care....just not a lot.

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blackhole99 — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 20:12:49 GMT

I don't think people are fake just because they want to maintain a certain life style or personal look or want others to think well of them. I don't believe people who say they don't care about what others think, I think they are trying to make a case for how they behave and want to live.

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sylviahomeatlast — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 20:15:28 GMT

I care but in a various way.