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True or False

YorkieonmyPillow — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 16:53:46 GMT

"If a friend becomes a hater, they were hating all along."

True, or.......?

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AngusandBuddhasMom — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 16:55:32 GMT

A hater? In what context is the person hating?

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VioletEyes — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 16:55:48 GMT

"Hater" has never described anyone I have ever had as a "friend," thankfully.

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YorkieonmyPillow — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 16:57:28 GMT

If your very close friend of years standing suddenly turns against you and cuts you out of their life or else rejects you for no reason you can think of.....

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AngusandBuddhasMom — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 17:05:33 GMT

I think hater is very strong. Maybe the friends have grown apart and no longer share the same view on things.

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Marmalade_1 — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 17:16:28 GMT

On 1/20/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:
If your very close friend of years standing suddenly turns against you and cuts you out of their life or else rejects you for no reason you can think of.....

Hmmm I don't believe that for a second because there is always a reason and you know what it is, you are just in denial.

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YorkieonmyPillow — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 17:19:07 GMT

This didn't happen to me, it's a catchphrase that is making the rounds. I wanted to know your thoughts on it, it wasn't about me.

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Marmalade_1 — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 17:20:08 GMT

My "you" was generic, sorry you took it personally.

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June Lands — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 17:25:55 GMT

I cut a close friend off a few years ago... I THOUGHT she was a true close friend, but, I realized over the years.... that little things she said... hurtful comments... added up... she really was not a friend at all... she was jealous of me all along and how my life was compared to hers.

So I just stopped calling her... going out with her... being around her... and made the cut. I do not want negative shallow people around me. I only value true friends and relationships.. few in number, yes, but, so much better than having many so called friends that are really not friends at all.

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deepwaterdotter — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:21:55 GMT

On 1/20/2015 Caravaggio said:
I think hater is very strong. Maybe the friends have grown apart and no longer share the same view on things.

I agree.

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NoelSeven — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:28:08 GMT

On 1/20/2015 YorkieonmyPillow said:
If your very close friend of years standing suddenly turns against you and cuts you out of their life or else rejects you for no reason you can think of.....

I don't consider that a hater, but if it happened, I'd call them and ask the friend to talk about what's wrong. See if you can fix it.

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Suziepeach — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:29:16 GMT

On 1/20/2015 deepwaterdotter said:
On 1/20/2015 Caravaggio said:
I think hater is very strong. Maybe the friends have grown apart and no longer share the same view on things.

I agree.

I also agree.

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NoelSeven — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:31:18 GMT

On 1/20/2015 SuzzieQ said:
On 1/20/2015 deepwaterdotter said:
On 1/20/2015 Caravaggio said:
I think hater is very strong. Maybe the friends have grown apart and no longer share the same view on things.

I agree.

I also agree.

I agree and will add ""hater"" seems to be a catchphrase for anyone who disagrees with someone or doesn't like what they like.

It's over-used and silly.

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Suziepeach — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:33:03 GMT

My former best friend- I don't hate her and would never wish anything bad happen to her. It happened and we have no contact now.

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croemer — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:48:01 GMT

I can't say I agree...to many variables...and each friendship has its own story.

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NoelSeven — Tue, 20 Jan 2015 21:55:18 GMT

Haters are people like Westboro Baptist, not a friend who wants to go a separate way.

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jubilant — Wed, 21 Jan 2015 20:57:01 GMT

There can be a very fine line between love and hate. I would talk to my friend before I used that word....hate.

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Chrystaltree2 — Wed, 21 Jan 2015 22:13:50 GMT

Maybe, maybe not. It depends on the circumstances. It also depends on how you define "hater".

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Elstongunn — Thu, 22 Jan 2015 00:22:53 GMT

These types of bumper-sticker ""pearls of wisdom"" or cleverly worded single-sentence pronouncements are rarely true. Very few situations are black and white/true or false.

Re: True or False

Kalli — Thu, 22 Jan 2015 02:58:04 GMT

I think people can change over time, attitudes can sharpen or reverse depending on circumstances and experiences.

Someone who's a friend at one point in our lives, may not be as much of a friend later.

-Kalli