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    <title>topic Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday in Community Chat</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt; We are judged by our actions, not by our intentions. Lord, may I show&lt;BR /&gt; my love for You through charity and goodness toward others.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Save us, O LORD our God, and gather us from among the nations, that we may&lt;BR /&gt; give thanks to your holy name and glory in your praise." ~Psalm 106:47&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We can always remember that we are weak but that God is strong. God knows&lt;BR /&gt; all about our weakness. God hears every cry for mercy, every sign of&lt;BR /&gt; weakness, every plea for help, and every sorrow over every failure, every&lt;BR /&gt; weakness felt and expressed. We only fail when we trust too much&lt;BR /&gt; in our own strength. We need not feel bad about our weakness. When we are&lt;BR /&gt; weak, that is when God is strong to help us. When we trust God enough, our&lt;BR /&gt; weakness will not matter. God is always strong to save.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may learn to lean on God's strength. I pray that I may know&lt;BR /&gt; that my weakness is God's opportunity.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Hope your day went well - it was another nice day here&lt;BR /&gt; today - and while picking raspberries even a little hot! Seems like a&lt;BR /&gt; record for October here in MN. Nice ordinary day - and at the spur of the&lt;BR /&gt; moment we went out to eat at Applebee's after he got home from work - it&lt;BR /&gt; just so happened that Lori would have come home for supper tonight, but when&lt;BR /&gt; she called I had the cell along and told her where we were and it's not far&lt;BR /&gt; from her office so she came there and joined us - it was such a nice,&lt;BR /&gt; enjoyable time being with her. It always is. So that was my blessings for&lt;BR /&gt; the day - and there are much more numerous to count! A big blessing was&lt;BR /&gt; that Linus' day at work went well, and he wasn't too worn out when he got&lt;BR /&gt; home. Oh wow, another one I shouldn't forget - when we got home, I let&lt;BR /&gt; Sammy out - and I lost my balance and almost fell but I caught a stake that&lt;BR /&gt; holds up the tomatoes - yes, they are close to the patio, and it got my&lt;BR /&gt; balance right and I never fell!! Praise the Lord!! Maybe my Guardian Angel&lt;BR /&gt; made sure I caught that stake!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Homily of the Day&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; October 11, 2011&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God Doesn´t Do It. we Do It to Ourslves.&lt;BR /&gt; by Monsignor Dennis Clark, Ph.D.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Rom 1:16-25 / Lk 11:37-41&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At first glance, Jesus’ advice at the end of today’s gospel sounds a little&lt;BR /&gt; strange, almost like a suggestion that we try to make a deal with God: “I’ll&lt;BR /&gt; give alms, Lord, if you’ll let me off the hook.” Well, that’s not at all&lt;BR /&gt; what Jesus was trying to tell us.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When we sin, we ourselves are the first of the victims of our own ‘crime.’&lt;BR /&gt; Here’s how it works: Every sinful choice damages our spirit by reinforcing&lt;BR /&gt; one of the unloving pathways in our soul, and by taking us a little further&lt;BR /&gt; into ourselves and a little further away from God and his people. As we move&lt;BR /&gt; further and further away and grow more and more preoccupied with ourselves&lt;BR /&gt; and our own desires, it becomes ever easier to turn our backs on God and&lt;BR /&gt; everyone else. And that means cutting ourselves off from the only source of&lt;BR /&gt; true joy. It’s a downward spiral that ultimately can leave us in total&lt;BR /&gt; isolation, trapped inside a hardened heart. What better definition is there&lt;BR /&gt; of h ell? And remember, God didn’t do this to us. We did it to ourselves, one&lt;BR /&gt; choice at a time.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God’s attitude towards us never changes. He’s always waiting to take us back&lt;BR /&gt; into his embrace. But it’s very hard to escape from a truly hardened heart,&lt;BR /&gt; as we can see so clearly from observing the pharisees. In fact, there’s only&lt;BR /&gt; one way out of that cold, bitter place, and that is by doing what we may&lt;BR /&gt; have nearly forgotten how to do: looking beyond our own needs to the needs&lt;BR /&gt; of others, giving instead of taking. As we begin to do that with God’s help,&lt;BR /&gt; we are in fact returning to the “scene of the crime” and repairing the&lt;BR /&gt; damage we’ve done to others. In the process, our own hearts begin to heal,&lt;BR /&gt; and more and more we can receive the love that God and his people have been&lt;BR /&gt; trying to give us all the while.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; There’s healing and repair work to be done in all of us. Why not let God&lt;BR /&gt; help!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The Rosary&lt;BR /&gt; "For myself, I know of no better way of establishing the kingdom of God,&lt;BR /&gt; Eternal Wisdom, than to unite vocal and mental prayer by saying the holy&lt;BR /&gt; Rosary and meditating on its fifteen mysteries."&lt;BR /&gt; St. Louis De Montfort&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; For Reflection:&lt;BR /&gt; Why is the Rosary such a useful prayer in establishing the kingdom of God&lt;BR /&gt; within the soul? How have I seen this to be so in my own life? What can I do&lt;BR /&gt; to make progress in my daily meditation of the mysteries?&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The Smell of God&lt;BR /&gt; A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the doctor&lt;BR /&gt; walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. Still groggy from&lt;BR /&gt; surgery,her husband David held her hand as they braced themselves for the&lt;BR /&gt; latest news.&lt;BR /&gt; That afternoon of March 10 , 1991, complications had forced Diana, only&lt;BR /&gt; 24-weeks pregnant, to undergo an emergency Cesarean to deliver the couple's&lt;BR /&gt; new daughter, Danae Lu Blessing. At 12 inches long and weighing only one&lt;BR /&gt; pound and nine ounces, they already knew she was perilously premature.&lt;BR /&gt; Still, the doctor's soft words dropped like bombs. "I don't think she is&lt;BR /&gt; going to make it," he said, as kindly as he could. "There's only a 10%&lt;BR /&gt; chance she will live through the night, and even then, if by some slim&lt;BR /&gt; chance she does make it, her future could be a very cruel one."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Numb with disbelief, David and Diana listened as the doctor described the&lt;BR /&gt; devastating problems Danae would likely face is she survived. She would&lt;BR /&gt; never walk. She would never talk. She would probably be blind. She would&lt;BR /&gt; certainly be prone to other catastrophic conditions from cerebral palsy to&lt;BR /&gt; complete mental retardation and on and on.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No! No!" was a Diana could say. She and David with their 5-year-old son&lt;BR /&gt; Dustin, had long dreamed of the day that would have a daughter to become a&lt;BR /&gt; family of four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was slipping away.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Through the dark hours of morning as Danae held onto life by the thinnest&lt;BR /&gt; thread, Diana slipped in and out of drugged sleep, growing more and more&lt;BR /&gt; determined that their tiny daughter would live-and live to be a happy,&lt;BR /&gt; healthy young girl. But David, fully awake and listening to additional dire&lt;BR /&gt; details of their daughter's chances of ever leaving the hospital alive, much&lt;BR /&gt; less healthy, knew he must confront his wife with the inevitable.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "David walked in and said that we needed to talk about making funeral&lt;BR /&gt; arrangements," Diana remembers. "I felt so bad for him because he was doing&lt;BR /&gt; everything, trying to include me in what was going on, but I just wouldn't&lt;BR /&gt; listen - I couldn't listen. I said, "No, that is not going to happen, no&lt;BR /&gt; way! I don't care what the doctors say Danae is not going to die! One day&lt;BR /&gt; she will be just fine, and she will be coming home with us!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As if willed to live by Diana's determination, Danae clung to life - a&lt;BR /&gt; marvel her miniature body could endure. But, as those first days passed, a&lt;BR /&gt; new agony set in for David and Diana. Because Danae's underdeveloped nervous&lt;BR /&gt; system was essentially "raw," the lightest kiss or caress only intensified&lt;BR /&gt; her discomfort - so they couldn't even cradle their tiny baby girl against&lt;BR /&gt; their chests to offer the strength of their love. All they could do, as&lt;BR /&gt; Danae struggled alone beneath the ultra-violet light in the tangle of tubes&lt;BR /&gt; and wires, was to pray that God would stay close to their precious little&lt;BR /&gt; girl.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; There was never a moment when Danae suddenly grew stronger. But, as the&lt;BR /&gt; weeks went by, she did slowly gain an ounce of weight here and an ounce of&lt;BR /&gt; strength there.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At last, when Danae turned two months old, her parents were able to hold her&lt;BR /&gt; in their arms for the very first time. And two months later-though doctors&lt;BR /&gt; continued to gently but grimly warn that her chances of surviving, much less&lt;BR /&gt; living any kind of normal life, were next to zero&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Danae went home from the hospital, just as he mother had predicted.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Today, five years later, Danae is a petite but feisty young girl with&lt;BR /&gt; glittering gray eyes and an unquenchable zest for like. She shows no signs,&lt;BR /&gt; whatsoever, of any mental or physical impairments. Simply, she is everything&lt;BR /&gt; a little girl can be and more-but that happy ending is far from the end of&lt;BR /&gt; her story.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; One blistering afternoon in the summer of 1996 near her home in Irving,&lt;BR /&gt; Texas, Danae was sitting in her mother's lap in the bleachers of a local&lt;BR /&gt; ball park where her brother Dustin's baseball team was practicing. As&lt;BR /&gt; always, Danae was chattering non-stop with her mother and several other&lt;BR /&gt; adults sitting nearby when she suddenly fell silent.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hugging her arms across her chest, Danae asked, "Do you smell that?"&lt;BR /&gt; Smelling the air and detecting the approach of a thunderstorm, Diana&lt;BR /&gt; replied, "Yes, it smells like rain."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Danae closed her eyes and again asked, "Do you smell that?" Once again her&lt;BR /&gt; mother replied, "Yes, I think we're about to get wet. It smells like rain.&lt;BR /&gt; "Still caught in the moment, Danae shook her head, patted her thin shoulders&lt;BR /&gt; with her small hands and loudly announced, "No, it smells like Him. It&lt;BR /&gt; smells like God when you lay your head on His chest."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Tears blurred Diana's eyes as Danae then happily hopped down to play with&lt;BR /&gt; some other children. Thinking back on her daughter's word's it confirmed&lt;BR /&gt; what Diana and all the members of the extended Blessing family had known, at&lt;BR /&gt; least in their hearts, all along. During those long days and nights of her&lt;BR /&gt; first two months of her life when her nerves were too sensitive for them to&lt;BR /&gt; touch her, God was holding Danae on His chest - and it is His loving scent&lt;BR /&gt; that she remembers so well.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Motivation&lt;BR /&gt; A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a twenty dollars&lt;BR /&gt; bill.&lt;BR /&gt; In the room of two hundred people, he asked, "Who would like this twenty&lt;BR /&gt; dollars bill?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hands started going up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He said, "I am going to give this twenty dollars bill to one of you. But&lt;BR /&gt; first, let me do this."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He then asked, "Who still wants it?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Still the hands were up in the air.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He dropped the bill on the ground and started to grind it into the floor&lt;BR /&gt; with his shoe. He picked it up but it is now all crumpled and dirty.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Now who still wants it?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Still the hands went into the air.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I&lt;BR /&gt; did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value.&lt;BR /&gt; It is still worth twenty dollars."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt&lt;BR /&gt; by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as&lt;BR /&gt; though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will&lt;BR /&gt; happen, you will never lose your value. You are special - Don't ever forget&lt;BR /&gt; it!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Please pass this message to everyone you know. You will never know the lives&lt;BR /&gt; it touches, the hurting hearts it speaks to or the hope that it can bring!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My Hand In God´s&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Each morning when I wake I say,&lt;BR /&gt; "I place my hand in God's today;"&lt;BR /&gt; I know He'll walk close by my side&lt;BR /&gt; My every wandering step to guide.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He leads me with the tenderest care&lt;BR /&gt; When paths are dark and I despair---&lt;BR /&gt; No need for me to understand&lt;BR /&gt; If I but hold fast to His hand.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My hand in His! No surer way&lt;BR /&gt; to walk in safety through each day.&lt;BR /&gt; By His great bounty I am fed;&lt;BR /&gt; Warmed by His love, and comforted.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When at day's end I seek my rest&lt;BR /&gt; And realize how much I'm blessed,&lt;BR /&gt; My thanks pour out to Him; and then&lt;BR /&gt; I place my hand in God's again.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; By Florence Scripps Kellogg&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Taste A Little Honey (Daily Bible Reading Proverbs 24:13-14)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It was in my mouth as honey for sweetness Ezekiel 3:3&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The story is told of Samuel L. Brengle walking into a New York&lt;BR /&gt; office on a stifling, humid day. As he approached the chic secretary,&lt;BR /&gt; he mopped his brow and implored her to tell him how to keep cool.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Ignoring his question under the weight of her own problems, she&lt;BR /&gt; begged "I wish someone would tell me how to keep sweet."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Obviously she had been facing situations that continually brought&lt;BR /&gt; out the worst in her. One can only imagine her resolutions day after&lt;BR /&gt; day as she came to work. She would not let the lazy janitor upset her.&lt;BR /&gt; She would not get so annoyed with the salesman who was always&lt;BR /&gt; having to phone back for something he had forgotten. She would be&lt;BR /&gt; patient with her boss when he was just too fussy to deal with. She would&lt;BR /&gt; not snap back at persistently complaining and demanding customers.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But each day ended the same as the day before. Not in one instance was&lt;BR /&gt; she able to act like the person she wanted to be. Short, snappy words&lt;BR /&gt; able looks and actions plagued her.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; More than she wanted the physical comfort of relief from extreme heat,&lt;BR /&gt; she wanted the inner assurance that she as a person could handle each&lt;BR /&gt; minute sweetly and calmly.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We have an answer to our personality problems. We have a source of&lt;BR /&gt; sweetness that we can draw on. The Psalmist in 119:103 declares,&lt;BR /&gt; "How sweet are they words unto my taste! Yea sweeter than honey to&lt;BR /&gt; my mouth!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As we daily feed upon God's word, we can become more like Him. His&lt;BR /&gt; sweetness will be evident in our lives as each day we taste a little honey.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; THREE STRANGERS&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; October 11, 2011&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards&lt;BR /&gt; sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please&lt;BR /&gt; come in and have something to eat."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Is the man of the house home?", they asked.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No", she said. "He's out."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Then we cannot come in", they replied.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had&lt;BR /&gt; happened.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The woman went out and invited the men in.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "We do not go into a House together," they replied.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Why is that?" she wanted to know.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing&lt;BR /&gt; to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is&lt;BR /&gt; Success and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with&lt;BR /&gt; your husband which one of us you want in your home."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was&lt;BR /&gt; overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said, "Since that is the case, let us&lt;BR /&gt; invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the&lt;BR /&gt; house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better&lt;BR /&gt; to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his&lt;BR /&gt; wife.&lt;BR /&gt; "Go out and invite Love to be our guest."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love?&lt;BR /&gt; Please come in and be our guest."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got&lt;BR /&gt; up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success,&lt;BR /&gt; the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love,&lt;BR /&gt; wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is&lt;BR /&gt; also Wealth and Success!!!!!!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; GOD LIVES UNDER THE BED&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I envy Kevin. My brother, Kevin, thinks God lives under his bed. At least&lt;BR /&gt; that's what I heard him say one night. He was praying out loud in his dark&lt;BR /&gt; bedroom, and I stopped to listen, 'Are you there, God?' he said. 'Where are&lt;BR /&gt; you? Oh, I see. Under the bed...'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I giggled softly and tiptoed off to my own room. Kevin's unique perspectives&lt;BR /&gt; are often a source of amusement. But that night something else lingered long&lt;BR /&gt; after the humor. I realized for the first time the very different world&lt;BR /&gt; Kevin lives in. He was born 30 years ago, mentally disabled as a result of&lt;BR /&gt; difficulties during labor. Apart from his size (he's 6-foot-2), there are&lt;BR /&gt; few ways in which he is an adult.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He reasons and communicates with the capabilities of a 7-year-old, and he&lt;BR /&gt; always will. He will probably always believe that God lives under his bed,&lt;BR /&gt; that Santa Claus is the one who fills the space under our tree every&lt;BR /&gt; Christmas and that airplanes stay up in the sky because angels carry them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I remember wondering if Kevin realizes he is different. Is he ever&lt;BR /&gt; dissatisfied with his monotonous life? Up before dawn each day, off to work&lt;BR /&gt; at a workshop for the disabled, home to walk our cocker spaniel, return to&lt;BR /&gt; eat his favorite macaroni-and-cheese for dinner, and later to bed. The only&lt;BR /&gt; variation in the entire scheme is laundry, when he hovers excitedly over the&lt;BR /&gt; washing machine like a mother with her newborn child.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He does not seem dissatisfied. He lopes out to the bus every morning at&lt;BR /&gt; 7:05, eager for a day of simple work.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He wrings his hands excitedly while the water boils on the stove before&lt;BR /&gt; dinner, and he stays up late twice a week to gather our dirty laundry for&lt;BR /&gt; his next day's laundry chores.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And Saturdays - oh, the bliss of Saturdays! That's the day my Dad takes&lt;BR /&gt; Kevin to the airport to have a soft drink, watch the planes land, and&lt;BR /&gt; speculate loudly on the destination of each passenger inside. 'That one's&lt;BR /&gt; goin' to Chi-car-go! ' Kevin shouts as he claps his hands. His anticipation&lt;BR /&gt; is so great he can hardly sleep on Friday nights.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And so goes his world of daily rituals and weekend field trips.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He doesn't know what it means to be discontent.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His life is simple.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He will never know the entanglements of wealth of power, and he does not&lt;BR /&gt; care what brand of clothing he wears or what kind of food he eats. His needs&lt;BR /&gt; have always been met, and he never worries that one day they may not be.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His hands are diligent. Kevin is never so happy as when he is working. When&lt;BR /&gt; he unloads the dishwasher or vacuums the carpet, his heart is completely in&lt;BR /&gt; it.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He does not shrink from a job when it is begun, and he does not leave a job&lt;BR /&gt; until it is finished. But when his tasks are done, Kevin knows how to relax.&lt;BR /&gt; He is not obsessed with his work or the work of others. His heart is pure.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He still believes everyone tells the truth, promises must be kept, and when&lt;BR /&gt; you are wrong, you apologize instead of argue.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Free from pride and unconcerned with appearances, Kevin is not afraid to cry&lt;BR /&gt; when he is hurt, angry or sorry. He is always transparent, always sincere.&lt;BR /&gt; And he trusts God.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Not confined by intellectual reasoning, when he comes to the Lord, he comes&lt;BR /&gt; as a child. Kevin seems to know God - to really be friends with Him in a way&lt;BR /&gt; that is difficult for an 'educated' person to grasp. God seems like his&lt;BR /&gt; closest companion.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; In my moments of doubt and frustrations with my beliefs, I envy the security&lt;BR /&gt; Kevin has in his simple faith.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It is then that I am most willing to admit that he has some divine knowledge&lt;BR /&gt; that rises above my mortal questions.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It is then I realize that perhaps he is not the one with the handicap. I am.&lt;BR /&gt; My obligations, my fear, my pride, my circumstances - they all become&lt;BR /&gt; disabilities when I do not trust them to God's care.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Who knows if Kevin comprehends things I can never learn? After all, he has&lt;BR /&gt; spent his whole life in that kind of innocence, praying after dark and&lt;BR /&gt; soaking up the goodness and love of God.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And one day, when the mysteries of heaven are opened, and we are all amazed&lt;BR /&gt; at how close God really is to our hearts, I'll realize that God heard the&lt;BR /&gt; simple prayers of a boy who believed that God lived under his bed.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Kevin won't be surprised at all!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When you receive this, say a prayer. That's all you have to do. There is&lt;BR /&gt; nothing attached. This is powerful.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Just send this to four people OR MORE and do not break this, please.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive. There is no cost, but a lot&lt;BR /&gt; of rewards.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; FRIENDS ARE ANGELS WHO LIFT US TO OUR FEET WHEN OUR WINGS HAVE TROUBLE&lt;BR /&gt; REMEMBERING HOW TO FLY !!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Good night - Sweet Dreams - Have a positive day tomorrow - and let us pray&lt;BR /&gt; for one another.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
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      <title>Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday</title>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;BR /&gt; We are judged by our actions, not by our intentions. Lord, may I show&lt;BR /&gt; my love for You through charity and goodness toward others.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Save us, O LORD our God, and gather us from among the nations, that we may&lt;BR /&gt; give thanks to your holy name and glory in your praise." ~Psalm 106:47&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We can always remember that we are weak but that God is strong. God knows&lt;BR /&gt; all about our weakness. God hears every cry for mercy, every sign of&lt;BR /&gt; weakness, every plea for help, and every sorrow over every failure, every&lt;BR /&gt; weakness felt and expressed. We only fail when we trust too much&lt;BR /&gt; in our own strength. We need not feel bad about our weakness. When we are&lt;BR /&gt; weak, that is when God is strong to help us. When we trust God enough, our&lt;BR /&gt; weakness will not matter. God is always strong to save.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may learn to lean on God's strength. I pray that I may know&lt;BR /&gt; that my weakness is God's opportunity.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Hope your day went well - it was another nice day here&lt;BR /&gt; today - and while picking raspberries even a little hot! Seems like a&lt;BR /&gt; record for October here in MN. Nice ordinary day - and at the spur of the&lt;BR /&gt; moment we went out to eat at Applebee's after he got home from work - it&lt;BR /&gt; just so happened that Lori would have come home for supper tonight, but when&lt;BR /&gt; she called I had the cell along and told her where we were and it's not far&lt;BR /&gt; from her office so she came there and joined us - it was such a nice,&lt;BR /&gt; enjoyable time being with her. It always is. So that was my blessings for&lt;BR /&gt; the day - and there are much more numerous to count! A big blessing was&lt;BR /&gt; that Linus' day at work went well, and he wasn't too worn out when he got&lt;BR /&gt; home. Oh wow, another one I shouldn't forget - when we got home, I let&lt;BR /&gt; Sammy out - and I lost my balance and almost fell but I caught a stake that&lt;BR /&gt; holds up the tomatoes - yes, they are close to the patio, and it got my&lt;BR /&gt; balance right and I never fell!! Praise the Lord!! Maybe my Guardian Angel&lt;BR /&gt; made sure I caught that stake!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Homily of the Day&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; October 11, 2011&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God Doesn´t Do It. we Do It to Ourslves.&lt;BR /&gt; by Monsignor Dennis Clark, Ph.D.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Rom 1:16-25 / Lk 11:37-41&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At first glance, Jesus’ advice at the end of today’s gospel sounds a little&lt;BR /&gt; strange, almost like a suggestion that we try to make a deal with God: “I’ll&lt;BR /&gt; give alms, Lord, if you’ll let me off the hook.” Well, that’s not at all&lt;BR /&gt; what Jesus was trying to tell us.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When we sin, we ourselves are the first of the victims of our own ‘crime.’&lt;BR /&gt; Here’s how it works: Every sinful choice damages our spirit by reinforcing&lt;BR /&gt; one of the unloving pathways in our soul, and by taking us a little further&lt;BR /&gt; into ourselves and a little further away from God and his people. As we move&lt;BR /&gt; further and further away and grow more and more preoccupied with ourselves&lt;BR /&gt; and our own desires, it becomes ever easier to turn our backs on God and&lt;BR /&gt; everyone else. And that means cutting ourselves off from the only source of&lt;BR /&gt; true joy. It’s a downward spiral that ultimately can leave us in total&lt;BR /&gt; isolation, trapped inside a hardened heart. What better definition is there&lt;BR /&gt; of h ell? And remember, God didn’t do this to us. We did it to ourselves, one&lt;BR /&gt; choice at a time.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; God’s attitude towards us never changes. He’s always waiting to take us back&lt;BR /&gt; into his embrace. But it’s very hard to escape from a truly hardened heart,&lt;BR /&gt; as we can see so clearly from observing the pharisees. In fact, there’s only&lt;BR /&gt; one way out of that cold, bitter place, and that is by doing what we may&lt;BR /&gt; have nearly forgotten how to do: looking beyond our own needs to the needs&lt;BR /&gt; of others, giving instead of taking. As we begin to do that with God’s help,&lt;BR /&gt; we are in fact returning to the “scene of the crime” and repairing the&lt;BR /&gt; damage we’ve done to others. In the process, our own hearts begin to heal,&lt;BR /&gt; and more and more we can receive the love that God and his people have been&lt;BR /&gt; trying to give us all the while.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; There’s healing and repair work to be done in all of us. Why not let God&lt;BR /&gt; help!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The Rosary&lt;BR /&gt; "For myself, I know of no better way of establishing the kingdom of God,&lt;BR /&gt; Eternal Wisdom, than to unite vocal and mental prayer by saying the holy&lt;BR /&gt; Rosary and meditating on its fifteen mysteries."&lt;BR /&gt; St. Louis De Montfort&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; For Reflection:&lt;BR /&gt; Why is the Rosary such a useful prayer in establishing the kingdom of God&lt;BR /&gt; within the soul? How have I seen this to be so in my own life? What can I do&lt;BR /&gt; to make progress in my daily meditation of the mysteries?&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The Smell of God&lt;BR /&gt; A cold March wind danced around the dead of night in Dallas as the doctor&lt;BR /&gt; walked into the small hospital room of Diana Blessing. Still groggy from&lt;BR /&gt; surgery,her husband David held her hand as they braced themselves for the&lt;BR /&gt; latest news.&lt;BR /&gt; That afternoon of March 10 , 1991, complications had forced Diana, only&lt;BR /&gt; 24-weeks pregnant, to undergo an emergency Cesarean to deliver the couple's&lt;BR /&gt; new daughter, Danae Lu Blessing. At 12 inches long and weighing only one&lt;BR /&gt; pound and nine ounces, they already knew she was perilously premature.&lt;BR /&gt; Still, the doctor's soft words dropped like bombs. "I don't think she is&lt;BR /&gt; going to make it," he said, as kindly as he could. "There's only a 10%&lt;BR /&gt; chance she will live through the night, and even then, if by some slim&lt;BR /&gt; chance she does make it, her future could be a very cruel one."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Numb with disbelief, David and Diana listened as the doctor described the&lt;BR /&gt; devastating problems Danae would likely face is she survived. She would&lt;BR /&gt; never walk. She would never talk. She would probably be blind. She would&lt;BR /&gt; certainly be prone to other catastrophic conditions from cerebral palsy to&lt;BR /&gt; complete mental retardation and on and on.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No! No!" was a Diana could say. She and David with their 5-year-old son&lt;BR /&gt; Dustin, had long dreamed of the day that would have a daughter to become a&lt;BR /&gt; family of four. Now, within a matter of hours, that dream was slipping away.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Through the dark hours of morning as Danae held onto life by the thinnest&lt;BR /&gt; thread, Diana slipped in and out of drugged sleep, growing more and more&lt;BR /&gt; determined that their tiny daughter would live-and live to be a happy,&lt;BR /&gt; healthy young girl. But David, fully awake and listening to additional dire&lt;BR /&gt; details of their daughter's chances of ever leaving the hospital alive, much&lt;BR /&gt; less healthy, knew he must confront his wife with the inevitable.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "David walked in and said that we needed to talk about making funeral&lt;BR /&gt; arrangements," Diana remembers. "I felt so bad for him because he was doing&lt;BR /&gt; everything, trying to include me in what was going on, but I just wouldn't&lt;BR /&gt; listen - I couldn't listen. I said, "No, that is not going to happen, no&lt;BR /&gt; way! I don't care what the doctors say Danae is not going to die! One day&lt;BR /&gt; she will be just fine, and she will be coming home with us!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As if willed to live by Diana's determination, Danae clung to life - a&lt;BR /&gt; marvel her miniature body could endure. But, as those first days passed, a&lt;BR /&gt; new agony set in for David and Diana. Because Danae's underdeveloped nervous&lt;BR /&gt; system was essentially "raw," the lightest kiss or caress only intensified&lt;BR /&gt; her discomfort - so they couldn't even cradle their tiny baby girl against&lt;BR /&gt; their chests to offer the strength of their love. All they could do, as&lt;BR /&gt; Danae struggled alone beneath the ultra-violet light in the tangle of tubes&lt;BR /&gt; and wires, was to pray that God would stay close to their precious little&lt;BR /&gt; girl.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; There was never a moment when Danae suddenly grew stronger. But, as the&lt;BR /&gt; weeks went by, she did slowly gain an ounce of weight here and an ounce of&lt;BR /&gt; strength there.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; At last, when Danae turned two months old, her parents were able to hold her&lt;BR /&gt; in their arms for the very first time. And two months later-though doctors&lt;BR /&gt; continued to gently but grimly warn that her chances of surviving, much less&lt;BR /&gt; living any kind of normal life, were next to zero&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Danae went home from the hospital, just as he mother had predicted.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Today, five years later, Danae is a petite but feisty young girl with&lt;BR /&gt; glittering gray eyes and an unquenchable zest for like. She shows no signs,&lt;BR /&gt; whatsoever, of any mental or physical impairments. Simply, she is everything&lt;BR /&gt; a little girl can be and more-but that happy ending is far from the end of&lt;BR /&gt; her story.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; One blistering afternoon in the summer of 1996 near her home in Irving,&lt;BR /&gt; Texas, Danae was sitting in her mother's lap in the bleachers of a local&lt;BR /&gt; ball park where her brother Dustin's baseball team was practicing. As&lt;BR /&gt; always, Danae was chattering non-stop with her mother and several other&lt;BR /&gt; adults sitting nearby when she suddenly fell silent.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hugging her arms across her chest, Danae asked, "Do you smell that?"&lt;BR /&gt; Smelling the air and detecting the approach of a thunderstorm, Diana&lt;BR /&gt; replied, "Yes, it smells like rain."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Danae closed her eyes and again asked, "Do you smell that?" Once again her&lt;BR /&gt; mother replied, "Yes, I think we're about to get wet. It smells like rain.&lt;BR /&gt; "Still caught in the moment, Danae shook her head, patted her thin shoulders&lt;BR /&gt; with her small hands and loudly announced, "No, it smells like Him. It&lt;BR /&gt; smells like God when you lay your head on His chest."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Tears blurred Diana's eyes as Danae then happily hopped down to play with&lt;BR /&gt; some other children. Thinking back on her daughter's word's it confirmed&lt;BR /&gt; what Diana and all the members of the extended Blessing family had known, at&lt;BR /&gt; least in their hearts, all along. During those long days and nights of her&lt;BR /&gt; first two months of her life when her nerves were too sensitive for them to&lt;BR /&gt; touch her, God was holding Danae on His chest - and it is His loving scent&lt;BR /&gt; that she remembers so well.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Motivation&lt;BR /&gt; A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a twenty dollars&lt;BR /&gt; bill.&lt;BR /&gt; In the room of two hundred people, he asked, "Who would like this twenty&lt;BR /&gt; dollars bill?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Hands started going up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He said, "I am going to give this twenty dollars bill to one of you. But&lt;BR /&gt; first, let me do this."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He then asked, "Who still wants it?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Still the hands were up in the air.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He dropped the bill on the ground and started to grind it into the floor&lt;BR /&gt; with his shoe. He picked it up but it is now all crumpled and dirty.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Now who still wants it?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Still the hands went into the air.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I&lt;BR /&gt; did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value.&lt;BR /&gt; It is still worth twenty dollars."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt&lt;BR /&gt; by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as&lt;BR /&gt; though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will&lt;BR /&gt; happen, you will never lose your value. You are special - Don't ever forget&lt;BR /&gt; it!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Please pass this message to everyone you know. You will never know the lives&lt;BR /&gt; it touches, the hurting hearts it speaks to or the hope that it can bring!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My Hand In God´s&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Each morning when I wake I say,&lt;BR /&gt; "I place my hand in God's today;"&lt;BR /&gt; I know He'll walk close by my side&lt;BR /&gt; My every wandering step to guide.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He leads me with the tenderest care&lt;BR /&gt; When paths are dark and I despair---&lt;BR /&gt; No need for me to understand&lt;BR /&gt; If I but hold fast to His hand.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; My hand in His! No surer way&lt;BR /&gt; to walk in safety through each day.&lt;BR /&gt; By His great bounty I am fed;&lt;BR /&gt; Warmed by His love, and comforted.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When at day's end I seek my rest&lt;BR /&gt; And realize how much I'm blessed,&lt;BR /&gt; My thanks pour out to Him; and then&lt;BR /&gt; I place my hand in God's again.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; By Florence Scripps Kellogg&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Taste A Little Honey (Daily Bible Reading Proverbs 24:13-14)&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It was in my mouth as honey for sweetness Ezekiel 3:3&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The story is told of Samuel L. Brengle walking into a New York&lt;BR /&gt; office on a stifling, humid day. As he approached the chic secretary,&lt;BR /&gt; he mopped his brow and implored her to tell him how to keep cool.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Ignoring his question under the weight of her own problems, she&lt;BR /&gt; begged "I wish someone would tell me how to keep sweet."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Obviously she had been facing situations that continually brought&lt;BR /&gt; out the worst in her. One can only imagine her resolutions day after&lt;BR /&gt; day as she came to work. She would not let the lazy janitor upset her.&lt;BR /&gt; She would not get so annoyed with the salesman who was always&lt;BR /&gt; having to phone back for something he had forgotten. She would be&lt;BR /&gt; patient with her boss when he was just too fussy to deal with. She would&lt;BR /&gt; not snap back at persistently complaining and demanding customers.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; But each day ended the same as the day before. Not in one instance was&lt;BR /&gt; she able to act like the person she wanted to be. Short, snappy words&lt;BR /&gt; able looks and actions plagued her.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; More than she wanted the physical comfort of relief from extreme heat,&lt;BR /&gt; she wanted the inner assurance that she as a person could handle each&lt;BR /&gt; minute sweetly and calmly.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; We have an answer to our personality problems. We have a source of&lt;BR /&gt; sweetness that we can draw on. The Psalmist in 119:103 declares,&lt;BR /&gt; "How sweet are they words unto my taste! Yea sweeter than honey to&lt;BR /&gt; my mouth!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; As we daily feed upon God's word, we can become more like Him. His&lt;BR /&gt; sweetness will be evident in our lives as each day we taste a little honey.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; THREE STRANGERS&lt;BR /&gt; Author Unknown&lt;BR /&gt; October 11, 2011&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards&lt;BR /&gt; sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please&lt;BR /&gt; come in and have something to eat."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Is the man of the house home?", they asked.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "No", she said. "He's out."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Then we cannot come in", they replied.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had&lt;BR /&gt; happened.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The woman went out and invited the men in.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "We do not go into a House together," they replied.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Why is that?" she wanted to know.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing&lt;BR /&gt; to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is&lt;BR /&gt; Success and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with&lt;BR /&gt; your husband which one of us you want in your home."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was&lt;BR /&gt; overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said, "Since that is the case, let us&lt;BR /&gt; invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Their daughter-in-law was listening from the other corner of the&lt;BR /&gt; house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better&lt;BR /&gt; to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "Let us heed our daughter-in-law's advice," said the husband to his&lt;BR /&gt; wife.&lt;BR /&gt; "Go out and invite Love to be our guest."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love?&lt;BR /&gt; Please come in and be our guest."&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got&lt;BR /&gt; up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success:&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success,&lt;BR /&gt; the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love,&lt;BR /&gt; wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is&lt;BR /&gt; also Wealth and Success!!!!!!"&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; GOD LIVES UNDER THE BED&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I envy Kevin. My brother, Kevin, thinks God lives under his bed. At least&lt;BR /&gt; that's what I heard him say one night. He was praying out loud in his dark&lt;BR /&gt; bedroom, and I stopped to listen, 'Are you there, God?' he said. 'Where are&lt;BR /&gt; you? Oh, I see. Under the bed...'&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I giggled softly and tiptoed off to my own room. Kevin's unique perspectives&lt;BR /&gt; are often a source of amusement. But that night something else lingered long&lt;BR /&gt; after the humor. I realized for the first time the very different world&lt;BR /&gt; Kevin lives in. He was born 30 years ago, mentally disabled as a result of&lt;BR /&gt; difficulties during labor. Apart from his size (he's 6-foot-2), there are&lt;BR /&gt; few ways in which he is an adult.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He reasons and communicates with the capabilities of a 7-year-old, and he&lt;BR /&gt; always will. He will probably always believe that God lives under his bed,&lt;BR /&gt; that Santa Claus is the one who fills the space under our tree every&lt;BR /&gt; Christmas and that airplanes stay up in the sky because angels carry them.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; I remember wondering if Kevin realizes he is different. Is he ever&lt;BR /&gt; dissatisfied with his monotonous life? Up before dawn each day, off to work&lt;BR /&gt; at a workshop for the disabled, home to walk our cocker spaniel, return to&lt;BR /&gt; eat his favorite macaroni-and-cheese for dinner, and later to bed. The only&lt;BR /&gt; variation in the entire scheme is laundry, when he hovers excitedly over the&lt;BR /&gt; washing machine like a mother with her newborn child.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He does not seem dissatisfied. He lopes out to the bus every morning at&lt;BR /&gt; 7:05, eager for a day of simple work.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He wrings his hands excitedly while the water boils on the stove before&lt;BR /&gt; dinner, and he stays up late twice a week to gather our dirty laundry for&lt;BR /&gt; his next day's laundry chores.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And Saturdays - oh, the bliss of Saturdays! That's the day my Dad takes&lt;BR /&gt; Kevin to the airport to have a soft drink, watch the planes land, and&lt;BR /&gt; speculate loudly on the destination of each passenger inside. 'That one's&lt;BR /&gt; goin' to Chi-car-go! ' Kevin shouts as he claps his hands. His anticipation&lt;BR /&gt; is so great he can hardly sleep on Friday nights.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And so goes his world of daily rituals and weekend field trips.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He doesn't know what it means to be discontent.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His life is simple.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He will never know the entanglements of wealth of power, and he does not&lt;BR /&gt; care what brand of clothing he wears or what kind of food he eats. His needs&lt;BR /&gt; have always been met, and he never worries that one day they may not be.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; His hands are diligent. Kevin is never so happy as when he is working. When&lt;BR /&gt; he unloads the dishwasher or vacuums the carpet, his heart is completely in&lt;BR /&gt; it.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He does not shrink from a job when it is begun, and he does not leave a job&lt;BR /&gt; until it is finished. But when his tasks are done, Kevin knows how to relax.&lt;BR /&gt; He is not obsessed with his work or the work of others. His heart is pure.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; He still believes everyone tells the truth, promises must be kept, and when&lt;BR /&gt; you are wrong, you apologize instead of argue.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Free from pride and unconcerned with appearances, Kevin is not afraid to cry&lt;BR /&gt; when he is hurt, angry or sorry. He is always transparent, always sincere.&lt;BR /&gt; And he trusts God.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Not confined by intellectual reasoning, when he comes to the Lord, he comes&lt;BR /&gt; as a child. Kevin seems to know God - to really be friends with Him in a way&lt;BR /&gt; that is difficult for an 'educated' person to grasp. God seems like his&lt;BR /&gt; closest companion.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; In my moments of doubt and frustrations with my beliefs, I envy the security&lt;BR /&gt; Kevin has in his simple faith.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It is then that I am most willing to admit that he has some divine knowledge&lt;BR /&gt; that rises above my mortal questions.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; It is then I realize that perhaps he is not the one with the handicap. I am.&lt;BR /&gt; My obligations, my fear, my pride, my circumstances - they all become&lt;BR /&gt; disabilities when I do not trust them to God's care.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Who knows if Kevin comprehends things I can never learn? After all, he has&lt;BR /&gt; spent his whole life in that kind of innocence, praying after dark and&lt;BR /&gt; soaking up the goodness and love of God.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; And one day, when the mysteries of heaven are opened, and we are all amazed&lt;BR /&gt; at how close God really is to our hearts, I'll realize that God heard the&lt;BR /&gt; simple prayers of a boy who believed that God lived under his bed.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Kevin won't be surprised at all!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; When you receive this, say a prayer. That's all you have to do. There is&lt;BR /&gt; nothing attached. This is powerful.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Just send this to four people OR MORE and do not break this, please.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer is one of the best free gifts we receive. There is no cost, but a lot&lt;BR /&gt; of rewards.&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; FRIENDS ARE ANGELS WHO LIFT US TO OUR FEET WHEN OUR WINGS HAVE TROUBLE&lt;BR /&gt; REMEMBERING HOW TO FLY !!!&lt;BR /&gt; &lt;BR /&gt; Good night - Sweet Dreams - Have a positive day tomorrow - and let us pray&lt;BR /&gt; for one another.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 03:30:04 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
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