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True Tori.......

sophiamarie — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 18:56:58 GMT

Who watches this show and what do you think????

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qvcfreak — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 19:06:00 GMT

I've watched a couple of episodes and I feel bad for her. But she wasn't taught how to put on her big girl underwear, dust herself off and keep going. The damage has been done, let it go and stop revisiting the issue, it's only hurting her and those beautiful kids that she can't be there for as she is always in the hospital.

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brii — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 19:07:34 GMT

I think she needs to get her life together by taking the huge step of removing herself from these reality shows she seems addicted to.

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CANDLEQUEEN — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 19:09:48 GMT

I really like Tori, but she looks so thin and stressed out. I think she needs to concentrate on her marriage and family and quit the Reality Shows-Dean also seems a huge mess. I didn't watch it last night but what was he crying so bad about? Not being able to find work?

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foundinlv — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 19:48:58 GMT

I thought Mystery Girls was cute and hoping for her sake, that it found an audience. When you think of all the silly sitcoms that her father came up with that took off and became iconic it's incredible really and I think she has a similar creativity. She produces her reality show and after the passing of her dad used her inheritance to open a bed and breakfast in Fallbrook CA and created the reality show around it calling it, Tori & Dean Inn Love. By 2008, they had their first child, no longer ran the bed & breakfast and changed the name to Tori & Dean - Home Sweet Hollywood. Though I never watched it, it had an audience and she was successful later changing the name to True Tori. Despite all her faults and poor choices in getting involved with Dean....she is surviving and she is making him pay for his sins by putting it all out there. She is paying for her own sins too. Hopefully, she will stop having kids with that man.

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brii — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 19:57:26 GMT

I think she wound up doing all these reality shows with him to control him. She probably didn't trust him. If he went off and had a legitimate job, she wouldn't be with him as much as she could if they were working together.

I don't think he'll get any legitimate work now.

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foundinlv — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:01:48 GMT

On 11/19/2014 brii said:
I think she wound up doing all these reality shows with him to control him. She probably didn't trust him. If he went off and had a legitimate job, she wouldn't be with him as much as she could if they were working together.

I don't think he'll get any legitimate work now.

I think his addictions ruined his career. For some reason he is choosing to make them public.

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winamac1 — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:02:19 GMT

I watch the show though I didn't see this week's episode. I do think she's addicted to being on "tv" and having a reality show. I like her, and I think she's finally recognizing she's made some big mistakes in life. She's at least trying to reconcile a bit with her poor choices. Overall, I think she's sweet and a "good" person deep down. Her life is a hot mess. I think she's in over her head, she spends too much, and she had a very dysfunctional relationship with her mother. That's a big part of her problem. She probably never felt loved, and she seems to have a lot of issues with insecurity.

I think Dean needs to be in a mental hospital for a few weeks to get his act together. He's very co dependent on her and she is on him. I feel for those children.

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colliemom4 — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:02:23 GMT

I don't watch it on a regular basis but I've watched it. They both seem troubled. I'm doubtful their marriage will last.

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MISERABLE66 — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:02:59 GMT

I never seen it but Ive seen clips of it on other shows. I don't feel bad for her at all. How you got him, is how you lose him!

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donasmom — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:12:39 GMT

Watched it for the first time last night. Seems, to me, she likes playing the victim and starring in her own personal Pity Party. He is no prize, but she knew what she was doing when they got together when they were both married to others.

I am not being facetious when I post this, but she needs some sort of 12-Step Program to help her in her addiction to reality shows, and for always having to be the center of attention. Perhaps pulling away for all this reality show mess, though hard on her income, might be just what she needs.

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BellaPaprika — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:24:35 GMT

Last week's episode and last night's showed his former (won't let me say "ex" ??) wife. She comes across as strong, very mature and probably that's why she was able to control Dean for 13 years! He describes their relationship as "emasculating" but I think it worked for as long as it did because she most likely treated him as another child. Tori can't do that because she has too many issues of her own. The ex-wife suggested that his problem is less about "addictions" and more about his wanting and needing attention. Tori wasn't convinced this was true but several of her friends and her therapist asked her why she would believe anything that Dean told her after all his lies. The ex also showed her a very passionate love letter that Dean wrote to her just a few months before he left her for Tori. When Tori asked him about it he got very upset and kept saying "Don't read it out loud!". He also demanded that the ex-wife not be on the show again and he himself is reportedly dropping out of the show. He obviously can't take the truth.

Also in last night's episode they visited a spiritual "guru" and that's when Dean fell apart and was sobbing and saying "I feel so vulnerable". He has a habit of sobbing and "falling apart" whenever he thinks he's in trouble with Tori. Very juvenile.

The best thing Tori could do is to get away from him but with 4 kids that will be difficult.

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foundinlv — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:33:41 GMT

BCB....though I didn't see last night's episode (will look for it) I don't see how their marriage can survive or take too much more. The self flagellation gets harder to watch.

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Group 5 minus 1 — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:39:16 GMT

After last nights episode w/ the Guru I decided I was DONE. DH watches it and laughs a lot!!!

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sophiamarie — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:40:39 GMT

Can he just drop out of the show if he signed a contract? I think they are both train wrecks in different forms. Last night, she was wiping his eyes and nose as though he was one of her children. I was waiting for her to say "blow, blow".....

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BellaPaprika — Wed, 19 Nov 2014 20:44:10 GMT

On 11/19/2014 Bungo said:
After last nights episode w/ the Guru I decided I was DONE. DH watches it and laughs a lot!!!

LOL! Mine too!!