https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/What-is-an-appropriate-customary-Pastor-s-fee-for-memorial/m-p/106988#M51270 <P>This afternoon is my FIL's memorial service and I need a bit of help with deciding upon the amount for the honorarium (the amount contributed to the minister for performing the memorial service). The pastor is a friend and stated there was no fee, but my husband and I feel strongly about wanting to make a contribution. I know my father-in-law would have felt the same way- he wanted to be "square" with everyone-this is one of the last things I remember him saying to us.</P> <P>Any insight you may have about this would be very helpful. Also, we are not, nor was my FIL a member of this church.</P> Thu, 18 Aug 2011 20:45:23 GMT brodalicious 2011-08-18T20:45:23Z https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/What-is-an-appropriate-customary-Pastor-s-fee-for-memorial/m-p/106988#M51270 <P>This afternoon is my FIL's memorial service and I need a bit of help with deciding upon the amount for the honorarium (the amount contributed to the minister for performing the memorial service). The pastor is a friend and stated there was no fee, but my husband and I feel strongly about wanting to make a contribution. I know my father-in-law would have felt the same way- he wanted to be "square" with everyone-this is one of the last things I remember him saying to us.</P> <P>Any insight you may have about this would be very helpful. Also, we are not, nor was my FIL a member of this church.</P> Thu, 18 Aug 2011 20:45:23 GMT https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/What-is-an-appropriate-customary-Pastor-s-fee-for-memorial/m-p/106988#M51270 brodalicious 2011-08-18T20:45:23Z