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    <title>topic Daily Positive Thread for Saturday in Community Chat</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; If you want peace and goodness in your life you must be kind and loving.&lt;BR /&gt; Lord, may I avoid creating misery so that my life will reflect my love for&lt;BR /&gt; You.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it&lt;BR /&gt; nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces&lt;BR /&gt; endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature&lt;BR /&gt; and complete, lacking in nothing."   ~James 1:2-4&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; As we look back over our lives, it is not too difficult to see that what we&lt;BR /&gt; went through was for a purpose and helped to prepare us for some valuable&lt;BR /&gt; work in life.  Everything in our lives can help make us of some use in the&lt;BR /&gt; world.  Each person's life is like the pattern of a mosaic. Each thing that&lt;BR /&gt; happens to us is like one tiny stone in the mosaic, and each tiny stone fits&lt;BR /&gt; into the perfected pattern of the mosaic of our life, which has been&lt;BR /&gt; designed by God.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may not need to see the whole design of my life.  I pray that&lt;BR /&gt; I may trust the Designer.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Hope you all had a good day today - I did - weather was nice and sunshiny, it did rain a little but we still had the sun too. With the lawn being mowed last night the rain did it good! Today was spent cleaning out closets and some things going to the garage sale and some just to throw out.  Found a box of my Mom's old recipes, with her handwriting, some I did keep, but had to throw most out, as it was a lot of clutter.  Gosh! she saved everything! There was an old letter from my brother to her, and on the back was a recipe.  She would listen to the radio - a party line and people would call in recipes, so here's she's copying away and saving every little scrap.  There were some really old booklets by companies selling their products too.  It was interesting to say the least looking through the box, and remembering my dear Mom who was a very great cook - a great blessing to have her for 25 years, and a great blessing re-living her through that box. I even found a slip saying expenses and it was for my Dad's funeral.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Homily of the Day&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; May 20, 2011&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; The Rest Will Take Care of Itself!&lt;BR /&gt; by  Monsignor Dennis Clark, Ph.D.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Acts 13:26-33 / Jn 14:1-6&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; It’s natural to wonder what heaven will be like, and it’s fascinating to hear the phantasms that some of us have conjured up, with no basis whatever in fact or scripture except that this is the way we think it ought to be.  Will it be like a Giotto painting with everyone in fancy dress and all neatly arranged like the court of a renaissance king?  Or will it perhaps be an idyllic scene of saints clad in flowing white gowns, luxuriating serenely on puffy clouds and languidly plucking their harps?  I seriously doubt it.  But who knows?  For the fact is that heaven is as inscrutable as God himself.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Yet we do know something about God: He is our eternally loving Father.  And good fathers know how take good care of their children.  St. Paul said that he didn’t have a clue as to the specifics: “Eye has not seen nor ear heard what God has prepared for those who love him.”  And in the end, who needs specifics?  What we do need is trust — trust in the full extent of God’s love for us.  And from that trust in his love will come love in return — love that takes care and helps our neighbors to thrive.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Trust and love.  The rest will take care of itself!&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Our Model&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; God entered history through a family&lt;BR /&gt; in order to make family life holy&lt;BR /&gt; and show us how to live in our homes.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; from Love in the Little Things&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Prepare Your Heart&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; To be strong&lt;BR /&gt; So soon it will unite&lt;BR /&gt; With to whom it belongs.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; My commands are as such&lt;BR /&gt; Be forgiven and forgive others&lt;BR /&gt; Love your enemies&lt;BR /&gt; As sisters and brothers.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Trust in me&lt;BR /&gt; And I will open doors&lt;BR /&gt; Give in my name&lt;BR /&gt; And I will give you more.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Your life is not a game&lt;BR /&gt; I didn't create you that way&lt;BR /&gt; Just keep your spirit in tune with me&lt;BR /&gt; So that you may hear what I have to say.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; You have control of who&lt;BR /&gt; Is the authority in your life&lt;BR /&gt; So keep this in mind&lt;BR /&gt; When your life is facing strife.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Why go to Church?&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; If you're spiritually alive, you're going to love this! If you're&lt;BR /&gt; spiritually dead, you won't want to read it. If you're spiritually curious,&lt;BR /&gt; there is still hope!&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Why Go To Church?&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and&lt;BR /&gt; complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday. "I've gone&lt;BR /&gt; for 30 years now," he wrote, "and in that time I have heard something like&lt;BR /&gt; 3,000 sermons. But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of&lt;BR /&gt; them. So, I think I'm wasting my time and the pastors are wasting theirs by&lt;BR /&gt; giving sermons at all."&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; This started a real controversy in the "Letters to the Editor" column,&lt;BR /&gt; much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone wrote&lt;BR /&gt; this clincher:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked&lt;BR /&gt; some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu&lt;BR /&gt; for a single one of those meals. But I do know this.. They all nourished me&lt;BR /&gt; and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not given me&lt;BR /&gt; these meals, I would be physically dead today. Likewise, if I had not gone&lt;BR /&gt; to church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!" When you are&lt;BR /&gt; DOWN to nothing.... God is UP to something! Faith sees the invisible,&lt;BR /&gt; believes the incredible and receives the impossible! Thank God for our&lt;BR /&gt; physical AND our spiritual nourishment!&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Lessons of Love&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; A ninety-one-year-old woman died after living a long, dignified life.&lt;BR /&gt; When she met God, she asked Him about something that had&lt;BR /&gt; long bothered her:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created&lt;BR /&gt; equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique&lt;BR /&gt; lesson to teach us.  And it is only through these lessons that we learn&lt;BR /&gt; about life, people, relationships, and God. This confused the woman,&lt;BR /&gt; so God began to explain:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always as&lt;BR /&gt; they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the&lt;BR /&gt; masks people wear if you want to know their heart. And remove your own&lt;BR /&gt; masks to let people know yours.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone steals from you, it teaches you that nothing is forever.&lt;BR /&gt; Always appreciate what you have, for you never know when you might&lt;BR /&gt; lose it.  And never, ever, take your friends and family for granted because&lt;BR /&gt; today is the only guarantee you have.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone inflicts an injury upon you, it teaches you that the&lt;BR /&gt; human state is a fragile one.  Protect and take care of your body as best&lt;BR /&gt; you can; it's the only thing you are sure to have forever.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike.&lt;BR /&gt; When you encounter people who are different from you, don't judge them&lt;BR /&gt; by how they look or act; instead, base your opinion on the contents of&lt;BR /&gt; their hearts.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone&lt;BR /&gt; does not always mean that person will love you back.  But don't turn your&lt;BR /&gt; back on love because when you find the right person, the joy that that one&lt;BR /&gt; person brings will make up for all the past hurts put together.  Times ten.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone&lt;BR /&gt; makes mistakes.  When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can&lt;BR /&gt; do is forgive the offender without pretense.  "Forgiving those who have&lt;BR /&gt; hurt us is the most difficult, the most courageous, and the most noble thing&lt;BR /&gt; Man can do.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting&lt;BR /&gt; temptation is Man's greatest challenge.  Be vigilant in your resistance&lt;BR /&gt; against all temptation.  By doing so, you will be rewarded with an&lt;BR /&gt; enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure&lt;BR /&gt; by which you were tempted.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all&lt;BR /&gt; evil.  Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they&lt;BR /&gt; may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an&lt;BR /&gt; obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent&lt;BR /&gt; activities.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect.&lt;BR /&gt; Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws.  Do not&lt;BR /&gt; ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned&lt;BR /&gt; that there were no lessons to be learned from Man's good deeds.  God&lt;BR /&gt; replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift he has.  At the root&lt;BR /&gt; of all kindness is love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; The woman's curiosity deepening, God once again began to explain:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone loves us, it teaches us that love, kindness, charity,&lt;BR /&gt; honesty, humility, forgiveness, and acceptance can counteract all the&lt;BR /&gt; evil in the world.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "For every good deed, there is one less evil deed.  Man alone has the&lt;BR /&gt; power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the&lt;BR /&gt; lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often&lt;BR /&gt; abused.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance, or&lt;BR /&gt; coincidence, consider what your lesson will be.  Will you teach love&lt;BR /&gt; or a harsh lesson of reality?&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or hurting?&lt;BR /&gt; More comfort or pain?  More joy or sadness?  Each one of us has&lt;BR /&gt; power over the balance of love in the world.  Use it wisely.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right&lt;BR /&gt; direction.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "Pass these lessons of love on to those you love and to those you&lt;BR /&gt; have hurt.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "For each person who receives this, there will be a little less evil in&lt;BR /&gt; the world and a little more love."&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Daddy's Poem&lt;BR /&gt;   &lt;BR /&gt; Her hair was up in a pony Tail, &lt;BR /&gt; Her favorite dress tied with a Bow.&lt;BR /&gt; Today was Daddy's Day at School, &lt;BR /&gt; And she couldn't wait to Go.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; But her mommy tried to tell Her, &lt;BR /&gt; That she probably should stay Home &lt;BR /&gt; Why the kids might not Understand, &lt;BR /&gt; If she went to school Alone.. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; But she was not Afraid;&lt;BR /&gt; She knew just what to Say. &lt;BR /&gt; What to tell her Classmates &lt;BR /&gt; Of why he wasn't there Today. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; But still her mother Worried, &lt;BR /&gt; For her to face this day Alone.&lt;BR /&gt; And that was why once Again, &lt;BR /&gt; She tried to keep her daughter Home.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; But the little girl went to School &lt;BR /&gt; Eager to tell them All. &lt;BR /&gt; About a dad she never Sees &lt;BR /&gt; A dad who never Calls.&lt;BR /&gt;       &lt;BR /&gt; There were daddies along the wall in&lt;BR /&gt; Back, for everyone to meet. &lt;BR /&gt; Children squirming impatiently, &lt;BR /&gt; Anxious in their Seats&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; One by one the teacher Called &lt;BR /&gt; A student from the Class. &lt;BR /&gt; To introduce their Daddy,&lt;BR /&gt; As seconds slowly Passed.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; At last the teacher called her Name,&lt;BR /&gt; Every child turned to Stare. &lt;BR /&gt; Each of them was Searching, &lt;BR /&gt; A man who wasn't There.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; 'Where's her daddy At?' &lt;BR /&gt; She heard a boy call Out. &lt;BR /&gt; 'She probably doesn't have One,' &lt;BR /&gt; Another student dared to Shout. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And from somewhere near the Back,&lt;BR /&gt; She heard a daddy Say, &lt;BR /&gt; 'Looks like another deadbeat Dad, &lt;BR /&gt; Too busy to waste his Day.'&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; The words did not offend Her, &lt;BR /&gt; As she smiled up at her Mom. &lt;BR /&gt; And looked back at her teacher, who&lt;BR /&gt; Told her to go on.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And with hands behind her Back, &lt;BR /&gt; Slowly she began to Speak. &lt;BR /&gt; And out from the mouth of a Child, &lt;BR /&gt; Came words incredibly Unique.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; 'My Daddy couldn't be Here, &lt;BR /&gt; Because he lives so far Away. &lt;BR /&gt; But I know he wishes he could Be, &lt;BR /&gt; Since this is such a special Day.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; And though you cannot meet Him,&lt;BR /&gt; I wanted you to Know. &lt;BR /&gt; All about my daddy, &lt;BR /&gt; And how much he loves me So.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; He loved to tell me Stories &lt;BR /&gt; He taught me to ride my Bike.&lt;BR /&gt; He surprised me with pink Roses, &lt;BR /&gt; And taught me to fly a Kite.&lt;BR /&gt;   &lt;BR /&gt; We used to share fudge Sundaes, &lt;BR /&gt; And ice cream in a Cone. &lt;BR /&gt; And though you cannot see Him.&lt;BR /&gt; I'm not standing here alone.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; 'Cause my daddy's always with Me,&lt;BR /&gt; Even though we are Apart &lt;BR /&gt; I know because he told Me, &lt;BR /&gt; He'll forever be in my Heart'&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; With that, her little hand reached Up,&lt;BR /&gt; And lay across her Chest.&lt;BR /&gt; Feeling her own Heartbeat,&lt;BR /&gt; Beneath her favorite Dress.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; And from somewhere there in the crowd&lt;BR /&gt; Of dads, her mother stood in tears. &lt;BR /&gt; Proudly watching her Daughter,&lt;BR /&gt; Who was wise beyond her Years. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; For she stood up for the Love &lt;BR /&gt; Of a man not in her Life.&lt;BR /&gt; Doing what was best for her,&lt;BR /&gt; Doing what was Right.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And when she dropped her hand back&lt;BR /&gt; Down, staring straight into the crowd. &lt;BR /&gt; She finished with a voice so Soft, &lt;BR /&gt; But its message clear and Loud..  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; 'I love my daddy very Much,&lt;BR /&gt; he's my shining Star.&lt;BR /&gt; And if he could, he'd be Here,&lt;BR /&gt; But heaven's just too Far.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; You see he is a Marine &lt;BR /&gt; And died just this past Year &lt;BR /&gt; When a roadside bomb hit his Convoy &lt;BR /&gt; And taught Americans to Fear.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; But sometimes when I close my Eyes,&lt;BR /&gt; it's like he never went Away.' &lt;BR /&gt; And then she closed her Eyes,&lt;BR /&gt; And saw him there that Day.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And to her mother's Amazement, &lt;BR /&gt; She witnessed with Surprise.&lt;BR /&gt; A room full of daddies and Children,&lt;BR /&gt; All starting to close their Eyes.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; Who knows what they saw before Them,&lt;BR /&gt; Who knows what they felt Inside. &lt;BR /&gt; Perhaps for merely a Second,&lt;BR /&gt; They saw him at her Side.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; 'I know you're with me Daddy,'&lt;BR /&gt; To the silence she called Out.&lt;BR /&gt; And what happened next made Believers,&lt;BR /&gt; Of those once filled with Doubt.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Not one in that room could explain It, &lt;BR /&gt; For each of their eyes had been Closed. &lt;BR /&gt; But there on the desk beside Her,&lt;BR /&gt; Was a fragrant long-stemmed pink Rose. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And a child was blessed, if only for&lt;BR /&gt; A moment, by the love of her shining star. &lt;BR /&gt; And given the gift of believing,&lt;BR /&gt; That heaven is never too far.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; They say it takes a minute to find a&lt;BR /&gt; Special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then&lt;BR /&gt; An entire life to forget them.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Closing Prayer;&lt;BR /&gt; You give me strength&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Holy Spirit when I am weak, You give me strength to carry on.&lt;BR /&gt; You comfort me each time I seek Your loving arms to lean on.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; You are the Father that I need. You have the wisdom that I lack.&lt;BR /&gt; You give me courage to succeed, when I alone, would have turned back.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; I may have crosses in my life, but I will never know despair;&lt;BR /&gt; for when I seek you in my strife, I know so well you will be there.&lt;BR /&gt;   &lt;BR /&gt; Good night all - Sweet dreams and may you all have a wonderful Saturday - with plenty of blessings! God bless you all!&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Sat, 21 May 2011 02:35:59 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2011-05-21T02:35:59Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Daily Positive Thread for Saturday</title>
      <link>https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/Daily-Positive-Thread-for-Saturday/m-p/81222#M43929</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt; &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; If you want peace and goodness in your life you must be kind and loving.&lt;BR /&gt; Lord, may I avoid creating misery so that my life will reflect my love for&lt;BR /&gt; You.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Scripture for the day:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it&lt;BR /&gt; nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces&lt;BR /&gt; endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature&lt;BR /&gt; and complete, lacking in nothing."   ~James 1:2-4&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Meditation for the day:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; As we look back over our lives, it is not too difficult to see that what we&lt;BR /&gt; went through was for a purpose and helped to prepare us for some valuable&lt;BR /&gt; work in life.  Everything in our lives can help make us of some use in the&lt;BR /&gt; world.  Each person's life is like the pattern of a mosaic. Each thing that&lt;BR /&gt; happens to us is like one tiny stone in the mosaic, and each tiny stone fits&lt;BR /&gt; into the perfected pattern of the mosaic of our life, which has been&lt;BR /&gt; designed by God.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Prayer for the day:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; I pray that I may not need to see the whole design of my life.  I pray that&lt;BR /&gt; I may trust the Designer.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Hello my friends! Hope you all had a good day today - I did - weather was nice and sunshiny, it did rain a little but we still had the sun too. With the lawn being mowed last night the rain did it good! Today was spent cleaning out closets and some things going to the garage sale and some just to throw out.  Found a box of my Mom's old recipes, with her handwriting, some I did keep, but had to throw most out, as it was a lot of clutter.  Gosh! she saved everything! There was an old letter from my brother to her, and on the back was a recipe.  She would listen to the radio - a party line and people would call in recipes, so here's she's copying away and saving every little scrap.  There were some really old booklets by companies selling their products too.  It was interesting to say the least looking through the box, and remembering my dear Mom who was a very great cook - a great blessing to have her for 25 years, and a great blessing re-living her through that box. I even found a slip saying expenses and it was for my Dad's funeral.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Homily of the Day&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; May 20, 2011&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; The Rest Will Take Care of Itself!&lt;BR /&gt; by  Monsignor Dennis Clark, Ph.D.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Acts 13:26-33 / Jn 14:1-6&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; It’s natural to wonder what heaven will be like, and it’s fascinating to hear the phantasms that some of us have conjured up, with no basis whatever in fact or scripture except that this is the way we think it ought to be.  Will it be like a Giotto painting with everyone in fancy dress and all neatly arranged like the court of a renaissance king?  Or will it perhaps be an idyllic scene of saints clad in flowing white gowns, luxuriating serenely on puffy clouds and languidly plucking their harps?  I seriously doubt it.  But who knows?  For the fact is that heaven is as inscrutable as God himself.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Yet we do know something about God: He is our eternally loving Father.  And good fathers know how take good care of their children.  St. Paul said that he didn’t have a clue as to the specifics: “Eye has not seen nor ear heard what God has prepared for those who love him.”  And in the end, who needs specifics?  What we do need is trust — trust in the full extent of God’s love for us.  And from that trust in his love will come love in return — love that takes care and helps our neighbors to thrive.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Trust and love.  The rest will take care of itself!&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Our Model&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; God entered history through a family&lt;BR /&gt; in order to make family life holy&lt;BR /&gt; and show us how to live in our homes.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; from Love in the Little Things&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Prepare Your Heart&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; To be strong&lt;BR /&gt; So soon it will unite&lt;BR /&gt; With to whom it belongs.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; My commands are as such&lt;BR /&gt; Be forgiven and forgive others&lt;BR /&gt; Love your enemies&lt;BR /&gt; As sisters and brothers.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Trust in me&lt;BR /&gt; And I will open doors&lt;BR /&gt; Give in my name&lt;BR /&gt; And I will give you more.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Your life is not a game&lt;BR /&gt; I didn't create you that way&lt;BR /&gt; Just keep your spirit in tune with me&lt;BR /&gt; So that you may hear what I have to say.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; You have control of who&lt;BR /&gt; Is the authority in your life&lt;BR /&gt; So keep this in mind&lt;BR /&gt; When your life is facing strife.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Why go to Church?&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; If you're spiritually alive, you're going to love this! If you're&lt;BR /&gt; spiritually dead, you won't want to read it. If you're spiritually curious,&lt;BR /&gt; there is still hope!&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Why Go To Church?&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; A Church goer wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and&lt;BR /&gt; complained that it made no sense to go to church every Sunday. "I've gone&lt;BR /&gt; for 30 years now," he wrote, "and in that time I have heard something like&lt;BR /&gt; 3,000 sermons. But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of&lt;BR /&gt; them. So, I think I'm wasting my time and the pastors are wasting theirs by&lt;BR /&gt; giving sermons at all."&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; This started a real controversy in the "Letters to the Editor" column,&lt;BR /&gt; much to the delight of the editor. It went on for weeks until someone wrote&lt;BR /&gt; this clincher:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked&lt;BR /&gt; some 32,000 meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu&lt;BR /&gt; for a single one of those meals. But I do know this.. They all nourished me&lt;BR /&gt; and gave me the strength I needed to do my work. If my wife had not given me&lt;BR /&gt; these meals, I would be physically dead today. Likewise, if I had not gone&lt;BR /&gt; to church for nourishment, I would be spiritually dead today!" When you are&lt;BR /&gt; DOWN to nothing.... God is UP to something! Faith sees the invisible,&lt;BR /&gt; believes the incredible and receives the impossible! Thank God for our&lt;BR /&gt; physical AND our spiritual nourishment!&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Lessons of Love&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; A ninety-one-year-old woman died after living a long, dignified life.&lt;BR /&gt; When she met God, she asked Him about something that had&lt;BR /&gt; long bothered her:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created&lt;BR /&gt; equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique&lt;BR /&gt; lesson to teach us.  And it is only through these lessons that we learn&lt;BR /&gt; about life, people, relationships, and God. This confused the woman,&lt;BR /&gt; so God began to explain:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always as&lt;BR /&gt; they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the&lt;BR /&gt; masks people wear if you want to know their heart. And remove your own&lt;BR /&gt; masks to let people know yours.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone steals from you, it teaches you that nothing is forever.&lt;BR /&gt; Always appreciate what you have, for you never know when you might&lt;BR /&gt; lose it.  And never, ever, take your friends and family for granted because&lt;BR /&gt; today is the only guarantee you have.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone inflicts an injury upon you, it teaches you that the&lt;BR /&gt; human state is a fragile one.  Protect and take care of your body as best&lt;BR /&gt; you can; it's the only thing you are sure to have forever.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike.&lt;BR /&gt; When you encounter people who are different from you, don't judge them&lt;BR /&gt; by how they look or act; instead, base your opinion on the contents of&lt;BR /&gt; their hearts.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone&lt;BR /&gt; does not always mean that person will love you back.  But don't turn your&lt;BR /&gt; back on love because when you find the right person, the joy that that one&lt;BR /&gt; person brings will make up for all the past hurts put together.  Times ten.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone&lt;BR /&gt; makes mistakes.  When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can&lt;BR /&gt; do is forgive the offender without pretense.  "Forgiving those who have&lt;BR /&gt; hurt us is the most difficult, the most courageous, and the most noble thing&lt;BR /&gt; Man can do.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting&lt;BR /&gt; temptation is Man's greatest challenge.  Be vigilant in your resistance&lt;BR /&gt; against all temptation.  By doing so, you will be rewarded with an&lt;BR /&gt; enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure&lt;BR /&gt; by which you were tempted.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all&lt;BR /&gt; evil.  Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they&lt;BR /&gt; may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an&lt;BR /&gt; obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent&lt;BR /&gt; activities.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect.&lt;BR /&gt; Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws.  Do not&lt;BR /&gt; ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned&lt;BR /&gt; that there were no lessons to be learned from Man's good deeds.  God&lt;BR /&gt; replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift he has.  At the root&lt;BR /&gt; of all kindness is love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; The woman's curiosity deepening, God once again began to explain:&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When someone loves us, it teaches us that love, kindness, charity,&lt;BR /&gt; honesty, humility, forgiveness, and acceptance can counteract all the&lt;BR /&gt; evil in the world.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "For every good deed, there is one less evil deed.  Man alone has the&lt;BR /&gt; power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the&lt;BR /&gt; lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often&lt;BR /&gt; abused.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance, or&lt;BR /&gt; coincidence, consider what your lesson will be.  Will you teach love&lt;BR /&gt; or a harsh lesson of reality?&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or hurting?&lt;BR /&gt; More comfort or pain?  More joy or sadness?  Each one of us has&lt;BR /&gt; power over the balance of love in the world.  Use it wisely.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right&lt;BR /&gt; direction.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "Pass these lessons of love on to those you love and to those you&lt;BR /&gt; have hurt.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; "For each person who receives this, there will be a little less evil in&lt;BR /&gt; the world and a little more love."&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Daddy's Poem&lt;BR /&gt;   &lt;BR /&gt; Her hair was up in a pony Tail, &lt;BR /&gt; Her favorite dress tied with a Bow.&lt;BR /&gt; Today was Daddy's Day at School, &lt;BR /&gt; And she couldn't wait to Go.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; But her mommy tried to tell Her, &lt;BR /&gt; That she probably should stay Home &lt;BR /&gt; Why the kids might not Understand, &lt;BR /&gt; If she went to school Alone.. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; But she was not Afraid;&lt;BR /&gt; She knew just what to Say. &lt;BR /&gt; What to tell her Classmates &lt;BR /&gt; Of why he wasn't there Today. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; But still her mother Worried, &lt;BR /&gt; For her to face this day Alone.&lt;BR /&gt; And that was why once Again, &lt;BR /&gt; She tried to keep her daughter Home.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; But the little girl went to School &lt;BR /&gt; Eager to tell them All. &lt;BR /&gt; About a dad she never Sees &lt;BR /&gt; A dad who never Calls.&lt;BR /&gt;       &lt;BR /&gt; There were daddies along the wall in&lt;BR /&gt; Back, for everyone to meet. &lt;BR /&gt; Children squirming impatiently, &lt;BR /&gt; Anxious in their Seats&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; One by one the teacher Called &lt;BR /&gt; A student from the Class. &lt;BR /&gt; To introduce their Daddy,&lt;BR /&gt; As seconds slowly Passed.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; At last the teacher called her Name,&lt;BR /&gt; Every child turned to Stare. &lt;BR /&gt; Each of them was Searching, &lt;BR /&gt; A man who wasn't There.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; 'Where's her daddy At?' &lt;BR /&gt; She heard a boy call Out. &lt;BR /&gt; 'She probably doesn't have One,' &lt;BR /&gt; Another student dared to Shout. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And from somewhere near the Back,&lt;BR /&gt; She heard a daddy Say, &lt;BR /&gt; 'Looks like another deadbeat Dad, &lt;BR /&gt; Too busy to waste his Day.'&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; The words did not offend Her, &lt;BR /&gt; As she smiled up at her Mom. &lt;BR /&gt; And looked back at her teacher, who&lt;BR /&gt; Told her to go on.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And with hands behind her Back, &lt;BR /&gt; Slowly she began to Speak. &lt;BR /&gt; And out from the mouth of a Child, &lt;BR /&gt; Came words incredibly Unique.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; 'My Daddy couldn't be Here, &lt;BR /&gt; Because he lives so far Away. &lt;BR /&gt; But I know he wishes he could Be, &lt;BR /&gt; Since this is such a special Day.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; And though you cannot meet Him,&lt;BR /&gt; I wanted you to Know. &lt;BR /&gt; All about my daddy, &lt;BR /&gt; And how much he loves me So.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; He loved to tell me Stories &lt;BR /&gt; He taught me to ride my Bike.&lt;BR /&gt; He surprised me with pink Roses, &lt;BR /&gt; And taught me to fly a Kite.&lt;BR /&gt;   &lt;BR /&gt; We used to share fudge Sundaes, &lt;BR /&gt; And ice cream in a Cone. &lt;BR /&gt; And though you cannot see Him.&lt;BR /&gt; I'm not standing here alone.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; 'Cause my daddy's always with Me,&lt;BR /&gt; Even though we are Apart &lt;BR /&gt; I know because he told Me, &lt;BR /&gt; He'll forever be in my Heart'&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; With that, her little hand reached Up,&lt;BR /&gt; And lay across her Chest.&lt;BR /&gt; Feeling her own Heartbeat,&lt;BR /&gt; Beneath her favorite Dress.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; And from somewhere there in the crowd&lt;BR /&gt; Of dads, her mother stood in tears. &lt;BR /&gt; Proudly watching her Daughter,&lt;BR /&gt; Who was wise beyond her Years. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; For she stood up for the Love &lt;BR /&gt; Of a man not in her Life.&lt;BR /&gt; Doing what was best for her,&lt;BR /&gt; Doing what was Right.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And when she dropped her hand back&lt;BR /&gt; Down, staring straight into the crowd. &lt;BR /&gt; She finished with a voice so Soft, &lt;BR /&gt; But its message clear and Loud..  &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; 'I love my daddy very Much,&lt;BR /&gt; he's my shining Star.&lt;BR /&gt; And if he could, he'd be Here,&lt;BR /&gt; But heaven's just too Far.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; You see he is a Marine &lt;BR /&gt; And died just this past Year &lt;BR /&gt; When a roadside bomb hit his Convoy &lt;BR /&gt; And taught Americans to Fear.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; But sometimes when I close my Eyes,&lt;BR /&gt; it's like he never went Away.' &lt;BR /&gt; And then she closed her Eyes,&lt;BR /&gt; And saw him there that Day.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And to her mother's Amazement, &lt;BR /&gt; She witnessed with Surprise.&lt;BR /&gt; A room full of daddies and Children,&lt;BR /&gt; All starting to close their Eyes.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; Who knows what they saw before Them,&lt;BR /&gt; Who knows what they felt Inside. &lt;BR /&gt; Perhaps for merely a Second,&lt;BR /&gt; They saw him at her Side.&lt;BR /&gt;    &lt;BR /&gt; 'I know you're with me Daddy,'&lt;BR /&gt; To the silence she called Out.&lt;BR /&gt; And what happened next made Believers,&lt;BR /&gt; Of those once filled with Doubt.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Not one in that room could explain It, &lt;BR /&gt; For each of their eyes had been Closed. &lt;BR /&gt; But there on the desk beside Her,&lt;BR /&gt; Was a fragrant long-stemmed pink Rose. &lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; And a child was blessed, if only for&lt;BR /&gt; A moment, by the love of her shining star. &lt;BR /&gt; And given the gift of believing,&lt;BR /&gt; That heaven is never too far.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; They say it takes a minute to find a&lt;BR /&gt; Special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then&lt;BR /&gt; An entire life to forget them.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Closing Prayer;&lt;BR /&gt; You give me strength&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; Holy Spirit when I am weak, You give me strength to carry on.&lt;BR /&gt; You comfort me each time I seek Your loving arms to lean on.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; You are the Father that I need. You have the wisdom that I lack.&lt;BR /&gt; You give me courage to succeed, when I alone, would have turned back.&lt;BR /&gt;  &lt;BR /&gt; I may have crosses in my life, but I will never know despair;&lt;BR /&gt; for when I seek you in my strife, I know so well you will be there.&lt;BR /&gt;   &lt;BR /&gt; Good night all - Sweet dreams and may you all have a wonderful Saturday - with plenty of blessings! God bless you all!&lt;/P&gt;</description>
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