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To answer your questions

RibbonsRosesRainbows — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 04:58:22 GMT

I don't know why the thread was closed.......it did not seem out of line for me...........I will be only helping his dad another few weeks hopefully.........I come back home and go to bed. His dad has to go to work while someone is recovering from an injury at his job.......he has to be at work at 5:15 am.........so that is why I am going to his home at 5 am......it has been so hard staying awake but you know it does give me something to do and he is such a joy and I wanted to help........that is what I do for people...........I help people in need.........he did not ask me I asked could I help and he said well, he did not want to put me out but since his sister has children it would be too much on her and I live a few doors down........I know he cares for me.......believe me he would not have me around if he did not like me......too many other women willing to help him..........so thank you ladies and I have to keep moving........the disease I have will not kill me per se..........there is just no cure and it is so painful..........some days it is horrible but some days are better and I am going to keep praying and believing for my healing while here on earth with our Savior Yeshua. {Jesus to most people, but since there is no J in Hebrew......he was not called Jesus but Yeshua}. Anyway I am sure this will be closed also.

I hope you get the rose candle....it was so worth it and I hope it lasts me for years and years. I don't burn them all the time.......I should because I can't take them with me when I die..............lol........I would have never loved flamless candles had I not been given one.

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RibbonsRosesRainbows — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 04:59:43 GMT

Well, I am tired........I rested all day today and going to bed now. Maybe this 5 am getting up will help me sleep better but I do come home and rest back in bed..........but usually for only two-three hours. I am trying to push myself more. Today I could not. Hugs to my friends.

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cater — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:04:19 GMT

Goodnight RRR you are kind hearted. Just take care of your self. I am usually up at 4am but I don't have to leave my home. I am sure the little boy enjoys being with you and appreciates that you are being nice to him.

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ROMARY — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:25:54 GMT

RRR: Good evening and sleep well. Nice of you to help your BF's son. They live nearby, which is a plus for you, and them, too.

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TruthTelr — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:27:10 GMT

Hard to imagine millions of people go to bed at a reasonable time, get up early and stay up, awake all day. And are productive...physically and/or mentally and/or intellectually. And then go to bed at a reasonable time and start all over again. Its called personal pride, sense of accomplishment.

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missy1 — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:39:59 GMT

I must have missed the thread. So now you are babysitting your boyfriends son at 5 am? Sounds like he has found childcare for free. How long are you doing this 5 am care?

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PIT-HAG Melissa — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:45:05 GMT

On 8/20/2014 TruthTelr said:
Hard to imagine millions of people go to bed at a reasonable time, get up early and stay up, awake all day. And are productive...physically and/or mentally and/or intellectually. And then go to bed at a reasonable time and start all over again. Its called personal pride, sense of accomplishment.

Oh the irony of your moniker...

Since you are such a truth teller what is your other nic?

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stilltamn8r — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:45:19 GMT

On 8/20/2014 TruthTelr said:
Hard to imagine millions of people go to bed at a reasonable time, get up early and stay up, awake all day. And are productive...physically and/or mentally and/or intellectually. And then go to bed at a reasonable time and start all over again. Its called personal pride, sense of accomplishment.

and imagine, they never even mention it to anybody. Almost as if it is..........expected.....

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PIT-HAG Melissa — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 05:46:50 GMT

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Lindsays Grandma — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 09:37:04 GMT

RRR...If it makes you feel good to help your friend by taking his son to school once in a while you don't owe explanations to anyone. If it gives you pleasure to help someone, good for you. Just make sure you take good care of yourself and get the rest you need.

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I am still oxox — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 10:13:12 GMT

Hmm I still wonder what is the big secret about the disease? In this day and age and surly with poster the norm the we hear about every part of her life, so why not name the mystery illness

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stilltamn8r — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 11:45:36 GMT

On 8/21/2014 Usedtobeoxox said:
Hmm I still wonder what is the big secret about the disease? In this day and age and surly with poster the norm the we hear about every part of her life, so why not name the mystery illness

well, arthritis is a painful, incurable disease... Lots of diseases are treatable (to one extent or another) and yet incurable- Heck, I have one!

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brii — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 11:50:05 GMT

Well, glad all that's cleared up...

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Maya Maye — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 11:56:31 GMT

On 8/20/2014 TruthTelr said:
Hard to imagine millions of people go to bed at a reasonable time, get up early and stay up, awake all day. And are productive...physically and/or mentally and/or intellectually. And then go to bed at a reasonable time and start all over again. Its called personal pride, sense of accomplishment.

Are they disabled? I highly doubt it.

There are people in this world who have physical as well as mental and emotional limitations. So happy you are not one of them...or are you?

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Chalcedony — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 12:12:49 GMT

I believe that the OP would benefit from a more positive outlet for her energy that posting on this BB. After awhile of doing very little, it can be hard to get motivated to get out of bed, out of the house, etc. Exercise, volunteer work, a hobby, part-time job, anything - so maybe taking care of the boy will be a start. Being needed is a very strong motivator for most of us.

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Krimpette — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 13:00:48 GMT

On 8/21/2014 Chalcedony said: I believe that the OP would benefit from a more positive outlet for her energy that posting on this BB. After awhile of doing very little, it can be hard to get motivated to get out of bed, out of the house, etc. Exercise, volunteer work, a hobby, part-time job, anything - so maybe taking care of the boy will be a start. Being needed is a very strong motivator for most of us.

I believe the OP craves the attention she receives on these forums. Negative attention or positive, doesn't seem to matter. Just attention.

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irishmama5 — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 13:49:01 GMT

Too many other women willing to help him? For a small town your boyfriend is very fortunate that the grammer school is within walking distance and that many other women would be willing to be at his house at 5am to care for his son. Ofcourse he did not have to ask he KNEW you would offer just like you offered in June. You are like Grandmother for his son

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VioletEyes — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 14:34:05 GMT

Even if most of this persona is a figment of the OP's imagination, it still think it is very, very sad. She has been posting for years and I suspect there are elements of her threads that she draws from that are based on truth. If there is in fact a "boyfriend" he clearly is using her. Sad on all counts and painful to read.

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QueenDanceALot — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 14:35:21 GMT

Does RRR see the women lining up or is he telling her that they are?

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stilltamn8r — Thu, 21 Aug 2014 14:38:34 GMT

On 8/21/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:
Does RRR see the women lining up or is he telling her that they are?

I think it is the voice of mer mother..who by her own account, pushed her toward men, that echoes in her head.."If you don't get him, someone else will"- it is very sad to think your only worth is what man you can attract...