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    <title>topic Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday in Community Chat</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;Hello my friends!  Hope your day went well - mine is going too fast! With Angie here, the time flies by fast - and all of a sudden I realized I hadn't gotten this thread out yet so here I am!  Tomorrow our other classmate, Shirley who also is Father Jerry's sister, is coming for lunch - looking forward to that. She doesn't live far from here.  Tomorrow Linus works so it'll just be us three girls.  Then Thursday night Angie is planning on getting together with her nephews and nieces who live around here and that's great!  They are meeting at a restaurant.  Friday night Lori invited us over for supper.  Tomorrow we dog sit for her and she'll be here for supper.  So much going on!  Today Linus' brothers were here to help put up some cupboards in the garage - it looks so nice!!  Lots of blessings by God for today - how about you?  Waiting to hear from Bobbiesue and Felicia - maybe Felicia's still in the hospital, she wrote she'll be in there for 8 days following the surgery.  Shorelady - how are you?  Harlene, how's the foot?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Never let what you can't do get in the way of what you can do. Lord, help&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;me to recognize my abilities and focus only on my strengths so that each&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;day I will get nearer to my goals&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Scripture for the day:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;mountains shake in the heart of the sea;  though its waters roar and&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;foam, though the mountains tremble with its tumult."  ~Psalm 46:1-3&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Meditation for the day:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"God is our refuge and strength."  God is a sanctuary, a refuge from the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;cares of life.  We can get away from the misunderstandings of others by&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;retiring into our own place of meditation.  But from ourselves, from our&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;sense of failure, our weakness, our shortcomings, where can we flee?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Only to the eternal God, our refuge, until the immensity of God's spirit&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;envelopes our spirit and it loses its smallness and weakness and comes&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;into harmony again with God's.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayer for the day:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I pray that I may lose my limitations in the immensity of God's love.  I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pray that my spirit may be in harmony with God's spirit.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Here's some food for thought:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;CHANGE IS GOOD&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Contributed by Melanie Schurr&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;My life has taken an interesting sudden change. As my children have&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;both flown the nest, and it is now just my husband and I, I could not&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;deny I missed that nurturing side of me that still had so much more to&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;give. I don't recall exactly how the idea of being a "nanny" came upon&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;me, but&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;the thought of making a little extra cash at something I knew I'd be&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;good at was appealing.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;It wasn't long before I found someone who was seeking exactly what I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;had to offer, but I cannot deny that the first week of taking care of&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;an eight week old infant was not without its difficulties. Not only&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;had many facets of child care changed since my own now adult children&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;were little, but I was also now approaching it as a forty-seven year&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;old woman, not an energetic twenty-something.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;By the end of the day, I was pooped!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;However, in a very short time, it all began to come back to me; all&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;those little tricks and skills us mothers learn by way of hands-on&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;experience. I also noticed that being around a young child again&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;caused me to have a rekindled appreciation of new life, along with a&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;sense of meaning and purpose for my life now as a more mature woman.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"I have the ability to teach this child," I thought. "I hope that I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;can become a positive light in her life."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Sometimes change can be frightening or difficult. However, all change&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;for the better is always a step in the right direction!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;What about you?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Is there something in your life you need to change, get rid of, stop&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;doing or break ties with?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Today is the day to make the change!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Five Ploys of Satan&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Doubt - Tempts us to question God's Word and his goodness, forgiveness, and &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;love&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Discouragement - Tempts us to focus intently on our problems rather than &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;entrusting them to God's care&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Diversion - Tempts us to see the wrong things as attractive so that we will &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;want them more than the right things&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Defeat - Tempts us to feel like failure so that we don't even try&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Delay - Tempts us to procrastinate so that things never get done&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Reflect on these ploys of Satan, and if you find that he has darkened your &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;life on any of these counts, lift up the situation to Our Lady in prayer.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR LIFE IS JESUS TO SOMEONE&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR LIFE is Jesus to someone,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;though tattered and torn it may be.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Though often times weak and unstable,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;you're all of God someone will see.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR TONGUE is Jesus to someone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;That idle, insensitive word&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;reflects to at least one searching heart&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;an idle, insensitive Lord.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR GOALS are Jesus to someone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;What you put first, they believe,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;are the goals of God for the Christian.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Your life is all they receive.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR FAITHFULNESS... that's Jesus to someone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Their judgement of how God is true,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;rests unquestionably in the faithfulness&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;they see day by day in you.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR LOVE is Jesus to someone--&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that someone who is seeking to know&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that Jesus will follow and guide and&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;befriend wherever in life they might go.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;SO BEWARE lest others blaspheme&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;God by what you say or do,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;for the only Jesus that someone knows&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;is the Jesus they see in you.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Unknown&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Believe what God believes...&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Overcoming negative feelings, whether they stem from childhood or current &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;situation, takes time and effort, but change is possible.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Christian psychologist, Dr. Richard Dickerson, has written a beautiful summary &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;of how God looks at you. Read this passage aloud to yourself every morning &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;and evening for the next month, then evaluate how your feelings about &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;yourself have changed:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE IS SLOW TO LOSE PATIENCE WITH ME.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE TAKES THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF MY LIFE AND USES THEM IN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;A CONSTRUCTIVE WAY FOR MY GROWTH.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT TREAT ME AS AN OBJECT TO BE POSSESSED AND &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;MANIPULATED.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT NEED TO IMPRESS ME WITH HOW GREAT AND &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;POWERFUL HE IS BECAUSE HE IS GOD. NOR DOES HE BELITTLE ME AS HIS CHILD IN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;ORDER TO SHOW ME HOW IMPORTANT HE IS.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE IS FOR ME. HE WANTS TO SEE ME MATURE AND DEVELOP IN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;HIS LOVE.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT SEND DOWN HIS WRATH ON EVERY LITTLE &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;MISTAKE I MAKE, OF WHICH THERE ARE MANY.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT KEEP SCORE OF ALL MY SINS AND THEN BEAT ME &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;OVER THE HEAD WITH THEM WHENEVER HE GETS A CHANCE.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE IS DEEPLY GRIEVED WHEN I DO NOT WALK IN THE WAYS &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;THAT PLEASE HIM BECAUSE HE SEES THIS AS EVIDENCE THAT I DON'T TRUST HIM AND &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;LOVE HIM AS I SHOULD.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE KEEPS WORKING PATIENTLY WITH ME EVEN WHEN I FEEL &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;LIKE GIVING UP.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE KEEPS ON TRUSTING ME WHEN AT TIMES I DON'T EVEN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;TRUST MYSELF.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE NEVER SAYS THERE IS NO HOPE FOR ME. RATHER, HE &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;PATIENTLY WORKS WITH ME, LOVES ME, AND DISCIPLINES ME IN SUCH A WAY, THAT IT &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;IS HARD FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND THE DEPTH OF HIS CONCERN FOR ME.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayer When in a Bad Mood&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Heavenly Father, I awoke this morning in a bad mood, and I have been unable &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;to shake it so far. Everything bothers me and everyone rubs me the wrong &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;way.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I just cannot seem to get my true bearings. Help me to think of your &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;salvation---&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;your countless gifts and overwhelming love for me.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Let me relax and forget life's cares by placing myself wholly into your &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;hands. Grant that this mood will soon pass and I will be able to bask in &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;your love and communicate it to others. Amen.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;God Qualifies&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;There are many reasons why God would not want&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;you--but don't worry. You're in good company.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Moses stuttered.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;David's armor didn't fit.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;John Mark was rejected by Paul.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Hosea's wife was a prostitute.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Amos' only training was in the school of fig-tree pruning.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jacob was a liar.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;David had an affair.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Solomon was too rich.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Abraham was too old.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;David was too young.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Timothy had ulcers.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Peter was afraid of death.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Lazarus was dead.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;John was self-righteous.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Naomi was a widow.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Paul was a murderer. So was Moses.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jonah ran from God.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Miriam was a gossip.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Gideon and Thomas both doubted.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jeremiah was depressed and suicidal.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Elijah was burned out.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;John the Baptist was a loudmouth.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Martha was a worrywart.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Samson had long hair.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Noah got drunk.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Did I mention that Moses had a short fuse?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;So did Peter, Paul--well, lots of folks did.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But God doesn't require a job interview. He doesn't hire and fire like&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;most bosses, because He's more our dad than our boss. He doesn't look at&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;financial gain or loss. He's not prejudiced nor partial, not judging,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;grudging, sassy, nor brassy, not deaf to our cry, not blind to our need.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;As much as we try, God's gifts are free.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;We could do wonderful things for wonderful people and still not be ... &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;wonderful.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Satan says, "You're not worthy."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jesus says, "So what? I AM."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Satan looks back and sees our mistakes. God looks back and sees the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Cross. He doesn't calculate what you did in '98. It's not even on the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;record.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Sure. There are lots of reasons why God shouldn't want us. But if we are&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;magically in love with Him, if we hunger for Him more than our next&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;breath, He'll use us in spite of who we are, where we've been or what we&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;look like.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Step out of your limitations into the illimitable nature of who God is.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Author unknown&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Remember God knows who you are and He loves you in spite of your short &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;comings.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayer to our Lady of Mount Carmel&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"Flos Carmeli" - Prayer of St. Simon Stock&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;O beautiful Flower of Carmel, most fruitful vine, Splendor of Heaven, holy &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;and singular, who brought forth the Son of God, still ever remaining a Pure &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Virgin, assist me in this necessity.  O Star of the sea, help and protect &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;me!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Show me that Thou art my Mother.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to Thee!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Remember The Bent Tree&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I was lying in bed this morning thanking God for his healing and then&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;praying for greater healing from some childhood damage I have often&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;struggled to overcome.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I began thinking about how nice it would be if those events had never&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;happened. But as I was praying about it, the thought came to me to&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"remember the bent tree".&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The "bent tree" story is one I heard as a young boy when an elderly&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pastor was talking about it to his adult congregation. Being a "young&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;tree" myself at the time, I didn't then fully understand the story.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;From my childhood memory, it goes like this:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;A large family with several children had just moved to a home in the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;country. The children were delighted to discover that on the property&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;there was a pond suitable for swimming. On a bank at the side of the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pond a young oak tree was growing. The tree was so young that its trunk&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;and branches were thin and quite flexible--not capable of supporting&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;much weight.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The children discovered that with a running start they could make the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;thin branches swing and arc over the pond enough to drop in with a&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;satisfying splash. They spent many happy summer hours playing in the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pond and swinging from the tree. But after a few years they outgrew&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;the pond and the tree was no longer used.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;There was damage to the small tree, however. The branches and trunk had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;been bent and twisted and strained so much they were no longer straight&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;as they had been before. The tree looked like it was crippled forever.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Time passed and 35 years later, the long-since grown children came&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;together for a reunion in the area of their childhood. They asked the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;new owners of the property if they could explore once more the place&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;they had grown up. And of course, they walked out to the pond.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;In their mind's eye, they expected to see a spindly young oak at the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;side of the pond.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But things had changed.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;What they saw was a large mature oak tree whose trunk and branches had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;become thick and massive. But through the solid branches they could still&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;see the unnatural bend in the trunk they themselves had created--it had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;become part of the tree's character.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I think the story might have ended there as the pastor made the point&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that "as the twig is bent, so grows the tree". I think he was teaching&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that all of us, as parents and neighbors, affect the lives of our&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;children and people around us in ways that can change their lives for&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;good or bad forever.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But this morning, as I remembered the tree, I saw there is more to the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;story. Yes, the tree had been damaged and bent. But where there had been&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;damage and weakness there was now massive strength and attractive character.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The curving trunk and branches arching over the pond could no longer be&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;moved. In fact, the tree now provided stability to the bank on which it&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;grew and extra shade over the pond for comfort to others. A new rope had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;been hung from the now solid branch for a new generation of children to&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;swing over the water.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;It was as if the Lord was telling me that I was praying for the healing&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;He had started long ago. And the healing He often chooses is turning&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;weakness and damage into strength and character that may be used by Him&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;to provide support, comfort and teaching to others. Yet the healing I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;had been praying for was to "make it as if it never happened."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Thinking about the bent tree helped me understand a little more what the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Lord has told us before--that His strength is made perfect in our weakness.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;When I realized that He has been healing me all along, I saw that my prayer&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;for healing needs to change--not so much that He will make it as though some&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pain in life had never happened, but that His strength will be all the more&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;manifest-- because of it.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Author Unknown&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 03:33:51 GMT</pubDate>
    <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2014-07-09T03:33:51Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday</title>
      <link>https://community.qvc.com/t5/Community-Chat/Daily-Positive-Thread-for-Wednesday/m-p/1040305#M390958</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;Hello my friends!  Hope your day went well - mine is going too fast! With Angie here, the time flies by fast - and all of a sudden I realized I hadn't gotten this thread out yet so here I am!  Tomorrow our other classmate, Shirley who also is Father Jerry's sister, is coming for lunch - looking forward to that. She doesn't live far from here.  Tomorrow Linus works so it'll just be us three girls.  Then Thursday night Angie is planning on getting together with her nephews and nieces who live around here and that's great!  They are meeting at a restaurant.  Friday night Lori invited us over for supper.  Tomorrow we dog sit for her and she'll be here for supper.  So much going on!  Today Linus' brothers were here to help put up some cupboards in the garage - it looks so nice!!  Lots of blessings by God for today - how about you?  Waiting to hear from Bobbiesue and Felicia - maybe Felicia's still in the hospital, she wrote she'll be in there for 8 days following the surgery.  Shorelady - how are you?  Harlene, how's the foot?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Never let what you can't do get in the way of what you can do. Lord, help&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;me to recognize my abilities and focus only on my strengths so that each&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;day I will get nearer to my goals&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Scripture for the day:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;mountains shake in the heart of the sea;  though its waters roar and&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;foam, though the mountains tremble with its tumult."  ~Psalm 46:1-3&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Meditation for the day:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"God is our refuge and strength."  God is a sanctuary, a refuge from the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;cares of life.  We can get away from the misunderstandings of others by&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;retiring into our own place of meditation.  But from ourselves, from our&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;sense of failure, our weakness, our shortcomings, where can we flee?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Only to the eternal God, our refuge, until the immensity of God's spirit&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;envelopes our spirit and it loses its smallness and weakness and comes&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;into harmony again with God's.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayer for the day:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I pray that I may lose my limitations in the immensity of God's love.  I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pray that my spirit may be in harmony with God's spirit.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Here's some food for thought:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;CHANGE IS GOOD&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Contributed by Melanie Schurr&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;My life has taken an interesting sudden change. As my children have&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;both flown the nest, and it is now just my husband and I, I could not&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;deny I missed that nurturing side of me that still had so much more to&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;give. I don't recall exactly how the idea of being a "nanny" came upon&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;me, but&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;the thought of making a little extra cash at something I knew I'd be&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;good at was appealing.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;It wasn't long before I found someone who was seeking exactly what I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;had to offer, but I cannot deny that the first week of taking care of&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;an eight week old infant was not without its difficulties. Not only&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;had many facets of child care changed since my own now adult children&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;were little, but I was also now approaching it as a forty-seven year&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;old woman, not an energetic twenty-something.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;By the end of the day, I was pooped!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;However, in a very short time, it all began to come back to me; all&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;those little tricks and skills us mothers learn by way of hands-on&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;experience. I also noticed that being around a young child again&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;caused me to have a rekindled appreciation of new life, along with a&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;sense of meaning and purpose for my life now as a more mature woman.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"I have the ability to teach this child," I thought. "I hope that I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;can become a positive light in her life."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Sometimes change can be frightening or difficult. However, all change&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;for the better is always a step in the right direction!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;What about you?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Is there something in your life you need to change, get rid of, stop&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;doing or break ties with?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Today is the day to make the change!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Five Ploys of Satan&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Doubt - Tempts us to question God's Word and his goodness, forgiveness, and &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;love&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Discouragement - Tempts us to focus intently on our problems rather than &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;entrusting them to God's care&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Diversion - Tempts us to see the wrong things as attractive so that we will &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;want them more than the right things&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Defeat - Tempts us to feel like failure so that we don't even try&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Delay - Tempts us to procrastinate so that things never get done&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Reflect on these ploys of Satan, and if you find that he has darkened your &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;life on any of these counts, lift up the situation to Our Lady in prayer.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR LIFE IS JESUS TO SOMEONE&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR LIFE is Jesus to someone,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;though tattered and torn it may be.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Though often times weak and unstable,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;you're all of God someone will see.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR TONGUE is Jesus to someone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;That idle, insensitive word&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;reflects to at least one searching heart&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;an idle, insensitive Lord.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR GOALS are Jesus to someone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;What you put first, they believe,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;are the goals of God for the Christian.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Your life is all they receive.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR FAITHFULNESS... that's Jesus to someone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Their judgement of how God is true,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;rests unquestionably in the faithfulness&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;they see day by day in you.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;YOUR LOVE is Jesus to someone--&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that someone who is seeking to know&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that Jesus will follow and guide and&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;befriend wherever in life they might go.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;SO BEWARE lest others blaspheme&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;God by what you say or do,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;for the only Jesus that someone knows&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;is the Jesus they see in you.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Unknown&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Believe what God believes...&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Overcoming negative feelings, whether they stem from childhood or current &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;situation, takes time and effort, but change is possible.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Christian psychologist, Dr. Richard Dickerson, has written a beautiful summary &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;of how God looks at you. Read this passage aloud to yourself every morning &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;and evening for the next month, then evaluate how your feelings about &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;yourself have changed:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE IS SLOW TO LOSE PATIENCE WITH ME.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE TAKES THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF MY LIFE AND USES THEM IN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;A CONSTRUCTIVE WAY FOR MY GROWTH.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT TREAT ME AS AN OBJECT TO BE POSSESSED AND &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;MANIPULATED.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT NEED TO IMPRESS ME WITH HOW GREAT AND &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;POWERFUL HE IS BECAUSE HE IS GOD. NOR DOES HE BELITTLE ME AS HIS CHILD IN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;ORDER TO SHOW ME HOW IMPORTANT HE IS.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE IS FOR ME. HE WANTS TO SEE ME MATURE AND DEVELOP IN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;HIS LOVE.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT SEND DOWN HIS WRATH ON EVERY LITTLE &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;MISTAKE I MAKE, OF WHICH THERE ARE MANY.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE DOES NOT KEEP SCORE OF ALL MY SINS AND THEN BEAT ME &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;OVER THE HEAD WITH THEM WHENEVER HE GETS A CHANCE.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE IS DEEPLY GRIEVED WHEN I DO NOT WALK IN THE WAYS &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;THAT PLEASE HIM BECAUSE HE SEES THIS AS EVIDENCE THAT I DON'T TRUST HIM AND &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;LOVE HIM AS I SHOULD.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE KEEPS WORKING PATIENTLY WITH ME EVEN WHEN I FEEL &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;LIKE GIVING UP.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE KEEPS ON TRUSTING ME WHEN AT TIMES I DON'T EVEN &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;TRUST MYSELF.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, HE NEVER SAYS THERE IS NO HOPE FOR ME. RATHER, HE &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;PATIENTLY WORKS WITH ME, LOVES ME, AND DISCIPLINES ME IN SUCH A WAY, THAT IT &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;IS HARD FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND THE DEPTH OF HIS CONCERN FOR ME.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayer When in a Bad Mood&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Heavenly Father, I awoke this morning in a bad mood, and I have been unable &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;to shake it so far. Everything bothers me and everyone rubs me the wrong &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;way.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I just cannot seem to get my true bearings. Help me to think of your &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;salvation---&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;your countless gifts and overwhelming love for me.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Let me relax and forget life's cares by placing myself wholly into your &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;hands. Grant that this mood will soon pass and I will be able to bask in &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;your love and communicate it to others. Amen.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;God Qualifies&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;There are many reasons why God would not want&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;you--but don't worry. You're in good company.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Moses stuttered.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;David's armor didn't fit.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;John Mark was rejected by Paul.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Hosea's wife was a prostitute.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Amos' only training was in the school of fig-tree pruning.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jacob was a liar.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;David had an affair.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Solomon was too rich.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Abraham was too old.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;David was too young.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Timothy had ulcers.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Peter was afraid of death.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Lazarus was dead.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;John was self-righteous.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Naomi was a widow.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Paul was a murderer. So was Moses.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jonah ran from God.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Miriam was a gossip.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Gideon and Thomas both doubted.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jeremiah was depressed and suicidal.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Elijah was burned out.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;John the Baptist was a loudmouth.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Martha was a worrywart.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Samson had long hair.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Noah got drunk.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Did I mention that Moses had a short fuse?&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;So did Peter, Paul--well, lots of folks did.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But God doesn't require a job interview. He doesn't hire and fire like&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;most bosses, because He's more our dad than our boss. He doesn't look at&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;financial gain or loss. He's not prejudiced nor partial, not judging,&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;grudging, sassy, nor brassy, not deaf to our cry, not blind to our need.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;As much as we try, God's gifts are free.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;We could do wonderful things for wonderful people and still not be ... &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;wonderful.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Satan says, "You're not worthy."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Jesus says, "So what? I AM."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Satan looks back and sees our mistakes. God looks back and sees the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Cross. He doesn't calculate what you did in '98. It's not even on the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;record.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Sure. There are lots of reasons why God shouldn't want us. But if we are&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;magically in love with Him, if we hunger for Him more than our next&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;breath, He'll use us in spite of who we are, where we've been or what we&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;look like.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Step out of your limitations into the illimitable nature of who God is.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Author unknown&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Remember God knows who you are and He loves you in spite of your short &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;comings.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayer to our Lady of Mount Carmel&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"Flos Carmeli" - Prayer of St. Simon Stock&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;O beautiful Flower of Carmel, most fruitful vine, Splendor of Heaven, holy &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;and singular, who brought forth the Son of God, still ever remaining a Pure &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Virgin, assist me in this necessity.  O Star of the sea, help and protect &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;me!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Show me that Thou art my Mother.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to Thee!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Remember The Bent Tree&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I was lying in bed this morning thanking God for his healing and then&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;praying for greater healing from some childhood damage I have often&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;struggled to overcome.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I began thinking about how nice it would be if those events had never&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;happened. But as I was praying about it, the thought came to me to&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;"remember the bent tree".&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The "bent tree" story is one I heard as a young boy when an elderly&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pastor was talking about it to his adult congregation. Being a "young&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;tree" myself at the time, I didn't then fully understand the story.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;From my childhood memory, it goes like this:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;A large family with several children had just moved to a home in the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;country. The children were delighted to discover that on the property&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;there was a pond suitable for swimming. On a bank at the side of the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pond a young oak tree was growing. The tree was so young that its trunk&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;and branches were thin and quite flexible--not capable of supporting&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;much weight.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The children discovered that with a running start they could make the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;thin branches swing and arc over the pond enough to drop in with a&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;satisfying splash. They spent many happy summer hours playing in the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pond and swinging from the tree. But after a few years they outgrew&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;the pond and the tree was no longer used.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;There was damage to the small tree, however. The branches and trunk had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;been bent and twisted and strained so much they were no longer straight&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;as they had been before. The tree looked like it was crippled forever.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Time passed and 35 years later, the long-since grown children came&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;together for a reunion in the area of their childhood. They asked the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;new owners of the property if they could explore once more the place&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;they had grown up. And of course, they walked out to the pond.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;In their mind's eye, they expected to see a spindly young oak at the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;side of the pond.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But things had changed.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;What they saw was a large mature oak tree whose trunk and branches had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;become thick and massive. But through the solid branches they could still&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;see the unnatural bend in the trunk they themselves had created--it had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;become part of the tree's character.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I think the story might have ended there as the pastor made the point&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that "as the twig is bent, so grows the tree". I think he was teaching&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;that all of us, as parents and neighbors, affect the lives of our&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;children and people around us in ways that can change their lives for&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;good or bad forever.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;But this morning, as I remembered the tree, I saw there is more to the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;story. Yes, the tree had been damaged and bent. But where there had been&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;damage and weakness there was now massive strength and attractive character.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;The curving trunk and branches arching over the pond could no longer be&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;moved. In fact, the tree now provided stability to the bank on which it&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;grew and extra shade over the pond for comfort to others. A new rope had&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;been hung from the now solid branch for a new generation of children to&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;swing over the water.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;It was as if the Lord was telling me that I was praying for the healing&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;He had started long ago. And the healing He often chooses is turning&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;weakness and damage into strength and character that may be used by Him&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;to provide support, comfort and teaching to others. Yet the healing I&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;had been praying for was to "make it as if it never happened."&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Thinking about the bent tree helped me understand a little more what the&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Lord has told us before--that His strength is made perfect in our weakness.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;When I realized that He has been healing me all along, I saw that my prayer&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;for healing needs to change--not so much that He will make it as though some&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;pain in life had never happened, but that His strength will be all the more&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;manifest-- because of it.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Author Unknown&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 03:33:51 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2014-07-09T03:33:51Z</dc:date>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Praying we get good news from both Bobbiesue and Felicia.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Since I started with this new podiatrist my foot is doing well. I get my new shoes on Monday and my new orthodox are in I have an appointment with the podiatrist on Thursday the 17th. I feel good about this working out.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Counting my blessings.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Harlene(lovestopaint)&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 12:26:53 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>lovestopaint</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2014-07-09T12:26:53Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday</title>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Gloria:  So busy!  But it is a blessing to have family and friends around. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Harlene:  Glad to see that things are improving with your new podiatrist.  Sending a prayer that this will be your answer!&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Also thinking of Felicia and bobbiesue.&lt;IMG src="http://community.qvc.com/DesktopModules/ExactTarget/Controls/TextEditor/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/001_wub.gif" alt="{#emotions_dlg.wub}" /&gt;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Hoping to hear from go2girl, too, and sending good thoughts to shorelady.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Wishing everyone a peaceful day - no matter your troubles, you are never alone.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;&lt;IMG src="http://community.qvc.com/DesktopModules/ExactTarget/Controls/TextEditor/jscripts/tiny_mce/plugins/emotions/img/001_wub.gif" alt="{#emotions_dlg.wub}" /&gt;&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt; &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 16:24:39 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Cakers1</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2014-07-09T16:24:39Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday</title>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Good Evening Ladies:&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Stopping by for a quick hello.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Prayers were sent for Bobbisue.  I hope that you receive the help to make you feel better.  Keep the faith.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Cakers....thank you for always thinking of me.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;I have my ups and downs.  And, sadly, right now my faith, which used to be strong, seems to be hanging by a thread.  I am having a difficult time understanding why things happened to someone who was a wonderful man.  I may never have the answer. &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Sending a hello to everyone here.    &lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2014 23:38:28 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>shorelady</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2014-07-09T23:38:28Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: Daily Positive Thread for Wednesday</title>
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      <description>&lt;P&gt;Harlene - that is good news!  Hope you foot heals well.&lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Cakers - busy but in a fun way! Having Angie here for a week is fun! &lt;/P&gt; &lt;P&gt;Shorelady - so nice to hear from you - I understand about those ups and downs, my sisters went through that - but God is always with you, keep the faith alive because the devil wants to put all those doubts in you - don't even give him a chance!! Love you, and you have our support here with prayers.&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2014 04:13:09 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>gloriajean</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2014-07-10T04:13:09Z</dc:date>
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