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I need some advice

Alexa6352 — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 17:28:34 GMT

My 42 yr old niece is getting married for the 1st time. She is my Brothers Daughter.My Brother and I are estranged. We haven't spoken or seen each other in over 25yrs. I have a relationship with my niece & her 47 yr old brother.

She is getting Married on the Island of St John and it's going to be a very small affair about 20 people. I don't expect to be invited given the circumstances..BUT I have to send something to Honor the Wedding. I purchased 2 Waterford Champagne Flutes. They are so beautiful...BUT that is not enough. I want to send money with it. I just don't know what's enough. I'm leaning towards $500..Any suggestions?

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qvcfreak — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 18:10:12 GMT

I think the champagne flutes and $500 is more than enough. Congratulations to your niece and future husband.

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violann — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 18:39:39 GMT

A lovely and gracious gesture.

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Lilysmom — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 18:58:47 GMT

Agreed. Very generous and thoughtful.

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Kachina624 — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 21:29:33 GMT

That would make me happy were I a bride.

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goodstuff — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 21:49:41 GMT

That's more money than I give for weddings, but expectations are different with different people and families. Of course, you may give whatever amount you wish. A $500 gift is very generous.

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Snowpuppy — Fri, 27 Jun 2014 00:06:09 GMT

If your budget allows and that's what's in your heart to do then go right ahead.

Waterford! OMG.........the love!

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Hoovermom — Fri, 27 Jun 2014 00:43:08 GMT

Beautiful present and cash too, woo-woo!!!

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ive been framed — Fri, 27 Jun 2014 01:05:01 GMT

Very generous of you Alexa! Forgive me if I'm being presumptuous, but may I suggest a heartfelt note from you to the couple as well? That would mean a lot to them I'm sure.

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Alexa6352 — Fri, 27 Jun 2014 01:13:47 GMT

On 6/26/2014 ive been framed said:
Very generous of you Alexa! Forgive me if I'm being presumptuous, but may I suggest a heartfelt note from you to the couple as well? That would mean a lot to them I'm sure.

I already wrote a beautiful note in the Wedding Card I am putting in the gift with the money.She & her brother are very special to me. I have no children and I was very young when they were born.

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RetRN — Fri, 27 Jun 2014 04:05:10 GMT

You are a wonderful aunt, very kind and generous.

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sparkygirl — Tue, 01 Jul 2014 05:07:41 GMT

That is a lovely gift, and very generous. You should feel very comfortable with that.