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judgejudith — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:41:00 GMT

Well, all that was invigorating wasn't it! Tell the truth...you all liked it didn't you.

I have had a very depressing week and my dear sweet Abby, my four legged companion died while I was on vacation. She had a stroke. I've been very depressed about my loss as I now know what it feels like to have nobody waiting for you at home. But that is my problem.

In the mean time, and probably because I am depressed I find people very annoying. And to top it off, I have no filter (apparently), so I just tell them. It makes me feel good.

I do have mental health coverage under my health insurance, but my brother is a shrink so we siblings get a "family rate". Talking to him at Easter, he too, is apparently somewhat annoyed by ignorance.

I am very kind to all my clients. I care for them deeply and would never do anything to hurt their feelings or harm them in any way. I do however find some of their family members very annoying and I wish that they took better care of their family member. However, I do know that they have A LOT of history together and that there are probably legitimate reasons for their actions.

I don't think I have control issues. I do have my share of issues, but really don't think control is one of them.

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Silver Lotus — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:43:11 GMT

Coulda fooled me.

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scotttie — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:43:58 GMT

Judgejudith, I'm very sorry about your dear Abby. Was she a dog or a cat? I posted to you on your thread but never got to see if you received it. I got company.

Can't even stand the thought of ever losing my 4 legged boy. (((hugs)))

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LyndaGee — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:44:22 GMT

Judith - I'm so sorry you lost your Abby. Very sad.

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judgejudith — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:44:39 GMT

On 4/26/2014 Silver Lotus said:
Coulda fooled me.

Don't underestimate yourself, you're easy to fool!

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Suziepeach — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:46:13 GMT

Oh judgejudith, I am so, so sorry about your Abby.. Hugs big time to you!!

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SydneyH — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:46:20 GMT

I'm sorry about your cat, but you are lashing out here and at the wrong people imo.

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judgejudith — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:47:17 GMT

Abby was the sweetest yellow lab a person could ever have as a companion. She made me feel safe.

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Silver Lotus — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:47:19 GMT

On 4/26/2014 SydneyH said:
I'm sorry about your cat, but you are lashing out here and at the wrong people imo.

Exactly.

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evelomaddict — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:51:11 GMT

i'm so very sorry for your loss.

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Surfnturf — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 01:56:08 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss. It hurts so bad to lose a beloved pet. ((Hugs))

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maryebrown_1 — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:02:36 GMT

So sorry about you loss, JJ. Our FurBabies are family members and when we suffer their loss, it's truly heartbreaking.

It would be "nice" if the snarky posters would refrain from nasty comments towards you during your time of grief.

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Silver Lotus — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:05:38 GMT

On 4/26/2014 maryebrown said:
So sorry about you loss, JJ. Our FurBabies are family members and when we suffer their loss, it's truly heartbreaking.

It would be "nice" if the snarky posters would refrain from nasty comments towards you during your time of grief.

It would be nice for you to refrain from judging if you don't know the whole story. Kind of like the rancher story.

Oh and take note of your own siggy while you are at it.

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herekitty_kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:11:39 GMT

I'm sorry to hear about your 4 legged companion Abby. It is not easy losing a pet.

Sorry for the few coming at you with snarky remarks.

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herekitty_kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:13:10 GMT

On 4/26/2014 SydneyH said:
I'm sorry about your cat, but you are lashing out here and at the wrong people imo.

I've seen others lash out with their snarky posts and passive-aggressive attitudes for less. Please make sure you call them out as well.

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Suziepeach — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:13:11 GMT

On 4/26/2014 judgejudith said:
Abby was the sweetest yellow lab a person could ever have as a companion. She made me feel safe.

My Charlie was the very same to me, judgejudith... I have a huge hole in my heart for him.. may not seem like it now but it does get easier.. Hugs.

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SydneyH — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:16:05 GMT

On 4/26/2014 herekitty_kitty said:

I've seen others lash out with their snarky posts and passive-aggressive attitudes for less. Please make sure you call them out as well.

It's not my job to police this place. Apparently you missed an earlier thread, that's what I was referring to.

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herekitty_kitty — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:17:17 GMT

On 4/26/2014 SydneyH said:
On 4/26/2014 herekitty_kitty said:
<br /> I've seen others lash out with their snarky posts and passive-aggressive attitudes for less. Please make sure you call them out as well.

It's not my job to police this place. Apparently you missed an earlier thread, that's what I was referring to.

then stop acting like one of the forum police.

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Silver Lotus — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:18:01 GMT

On 4/26/2014 SydneyH said:
On 4/26/2014 herekitty_kitty said:
<br /> I've seen others lash out with their snarky posts and passive-aggressive attitudes for less. Please make sure you call them out as well.

It's not my job to police this place. Apparently you missed an earlier thread, that's what I was referring to.

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Silver Lotus — Sun, 27 Apr 2014 02:18:57 GMT

On 4/26/2014 herekitty_kitty said:
On 4/26/2014 SydneyH said:
On 4/26/2014 herekitty_kitty said:
<br /> I've seen others lash out with their snarky posts and passive-aggressive attitudes for less. Please make sure you call them out as well.

It's not my job to police this place. Apparently you missed an earlier thread, that's what I was referring to.

then stop acting like one of the forum police.

Your advice is misplaced. Perhaps you should direct that to the OP.