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She is gone!

Rainbows and Roses — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:44:09 GMT

My dear friend that I loved so much that moved away........committed suicide Saturday afternoon........the funeral was today..........I did not know..........her elderly dad was so upset of course he could not think to call me.......it happened so fast......we spoke two weeks ago and I had to travel and she was trying to rest and get things in order in her new home and had things to do and now she is just gone and the dinner I went to Saturday night........well she was flown to the hospital here..........I had no idea she was here.........her dad was in the hospital in the state she moved to and he had to get out of the hospital to be with her while she was on the machine.......she died really quickly.......I am really upset of course......she is gone.......we won't ever talk again until I go to Heaven..........she had mental issues so I know she is in Heaven. Please keep her dad and brother in your prayers. Thank you so much. I feel so lost.........never getting to talk to her again.

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scotttie — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:46:28 GMT

Oh no. My condolences RandR. How awful for her family and friends.

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croemer — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:46:53 GMT

Sorry.

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Lakk — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:47:52 GMT

R&R (((hugs))) SO sorry to lose a good friend especially this way. Prayers ascending.

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september — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:48:43 GMT

I'm very sorry. I'm sure you'll miss her so much. Hugs to you.

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Rainbows and Roses — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:53:07 GMT

Thank you. I feel so sad and lost.........I don't even feel like taking my sleeping pill tonight......I don't think I can even sleep with it........just to know that it is over and she is gone.....she did not want to die but recently had voices in her head......and they were saying horrible things for her to do.......it was a bit scary for me but I knew she would never do anything on purpose.....she was saved and had such a sweet soul.......she suffered so with bi-polar and depression........she helped me so much when I was so very sick last year and I in turned helped her and packed her up so she could move to be close to her elderly dad.......she had a hard time making friends being bipolar because people were afraid of her behavior sometimes but she did not scare me except one time........but she got her meds right and we thought she was going to breeze through.......that poor dad..........her sister in law was never nice to her........she has to live with that......many people hurt my friends feelings but I can say I have no regrets and that I was there for her when no one else was but her dad.......we all need someone to care for us and we don't need people saying mean things........it cuts deep to the heart of a soul.............if you know someone that is sad........please check on them and let them know you love them. I know she did not think about me before her act but I sure wish she would have called me and I think she would still be alive..........I helped her so many times but she did not call this time.

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Rainbows and Roses — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 05:56:33 GMT

Thank you all. I posted so this might help someone you know that is sad and depressed.......maybe checking on them and doing something nice for them will save their life. Blessings to you all and thank you. I am just numb. She went with me to my son's wedding knowing I was so sick and needed support.......I used to cook for her and me every night last year for months......but especially the year before I did the most cooking since I was so sick last year...........

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Deb1010again — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 06:04:49 GMT

So sorry you lost your friend. You sound like you were a good friend to her and I'm sure that was a blessing in her life. Take good care.

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Rainbows and Roses — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 06:09:05 GMT

Goodnight ladies and thank you.

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SeaGal — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 06:18:55 GMT

I am sorry R&R.

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Shorty2U — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 06:29:01 GMT

I am so very sorry for your loss Rainbows. I will certainly keep her family and you in my prayers.

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bathina — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 06:43:20 GMT

I'm sorry to read this. May your friend find the rest and peace she wasn't afforded in this life.

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Remee — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 07:17:46 GMT

Dear Rainbows and Roses,

I'm deeply sorry to hear of the loss of your dear friend. I have been touched by similar circumstances and can only imagine what you must be feeling at this time. Please go over all of the wonderful memories you have of you and your friend and hold them dear to your heart. They will comfort you in future days.

I have said prayers for her father, brothers and you. May God comfort you and hold you all close to His loving and merciful heart at this time. She is with Him, and at great peace.

I know you were a blessing to her and a good friend. This was a tremendous gift to her, as she was to you.

Lean on our Father's grace and mercy to get through this tough time, He will carry you through it tenderly.

Blessings to you and all who knew and loved her.

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Big Sister — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 08:01:59 GMT

R and R, I can imagine how sad and lonely you feel without your good friend. I am so sorry she is gone from your life.

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Suzy Snowflake — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 12:35:01 GMT

My condolence and prayers for peace of heart and a return of happiness! Xox

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CaliKat — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 13:07:07 GMT

Rainbows and Roses,

I too lost a dear friend not too long ago. I know what a big hole that leaves in your heart.

I am truly sorry for your loss, and the pain your are feeling!

Kathy

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Elstongunn — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 13:23:41 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss, R&R.

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CouponQueen — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 13:27:04 GMT

On 4/9/2014 Rainbows and Roses said:
Thank you. I feel so sad and lost.........I don't even feel like taking my sleeping pill tonight......I don't think I can even sleep with it........just to know that it is over and she is gone.....she did not want to die but recently had voices in her head......and they were saying horrible things for her to do.......it was a bit scary for me but I knew she would never do anything on purpose.....she was saved and had such a sweet soul.......she suffered so with bi-polar and depression........she helped me so much when I was so very sick last year and I in turned helped her and packed her up so she could move to be close to her elderly dad.......she had a hard time making friends being bipolar because people were afraid of her behavior sometimes but she did not scare me except one time........but she got her meds right and we thought she was going to breeze through.......that poor dad..........her sister in law was never nice to her........she has to live with that......many people hurt my friends feelings but I can say I have no regrets and that I was there for her when no one else was but her dad.......we all need someone to care for us and we don't need people saying mean things........it cuts deep to the heart of a soul.............if you know someone that is sad........please check on them and let them know you love them. I know she did not think about me before her act but I sure wish she would have called me and I think she would still be alive..........I helped her so many times but she did not call this time.

WHAT? you just said she committed suicide but would never do it on purpose?

You mean she was expressing suicidal thoughts to you (or who?) and you did not think she would do it..the voices in her head were telling her? Those are the worst kind..when you have auditory AND command hallucinations..and you DO take them serious...

Never ever think that you know anybody who is mentally ill and expresses thoughts of dying..that they would not do it..you always treat them as IF they would..

oh my..

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Canada61 — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 13:38:07 GMT

There's so much I can say here but won't.

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Pqfan — Thu, 10 Apr 2014 14:47:38 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss R&R.