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My Mom

MamaWick — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:15:26 GMT

I have been very, very fortunate. I have had two mothers. Billie gave birth to me all those decades ago. I lost Billie when I was 15 years old. At age 17, I met the most wonderful teacher...Ellie. She taught English, Drama, Debate. Everyone wanted her as a teacher. I wanted her as more than my teacher.

I talked about her until my father finally asked her out in May of 1971. In November of 1971, daddy and Miss B married. I was my daddy's witness, or as I like to say, Best Man/Woman. After they were pronounced husband and wife, Miss B, the new Mrs C, turned to me and said, "what are you going to call me now?" I replied, "I'd really like to call you mom." She said she would love that, and she has been my mom since November 25, 1971.

Mom was quite a bit younger than daddy, and I got two baby sisters out of the deal...Jamie and Cathie. Jamie is about 19 months younger than my son, Kris and Cathie is about 5 months younger than my son, Bryan. How fun was that? It actually was quite fun. My boys and my sisters grew up together.

Mom is now frail and in failing health. She has dementia, but she remembers so many things, including all three of her daughters and our families when we talk to her. She is in the Memory Care Unit of a nursing home, and now recently under hospice care.

I just called her and told her I would be visiting in 3 days. She asked what day that would be, and I said Friday. She said she really looked forward to it. I asked if I could bring her anything? A milkshake? She said, "I want just yourselves."

OH! And our family has never said step-mom or half-sisters...EVER.

We will be leaving on Thursday for our trip to Missouri and return the following Wednesday. As for my deer pictures, I have taken a bunch of extra pictures and will post them while I am gone. Hope that is okay.

Sorry/not sorry this post is so long.

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Jk9 — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:25:19 GMT

So touching! @MamaWick I thank you for thinking of us here on the boards too. Have a safe trip there and back.

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spiderw — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:25:28 GMT

What a inspiring meaningful post about a loving family who you obviously adore! It gives insight into happiness and wonderful memories of growing up. Your mom sounds like a very blessed woman, her life filled with children who she cared for and now they take care of her.

Enjoy your trip to see your mother and cherish every moment of the visit. Share some fun and laughter, good memories and just being together!

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LdyBugz — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:25:50 GMT

@MamaWick I love the story about your mom. I hope you enjoy your visit with her! 🙂

~LdyBugz

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NicksmomESQ — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:27:36 GMT

What a beautiful story!! @MamaWick How lucky are you to have 2 wonderful mothers!! And how lucky are they to have you as their daughter!!

Be strong! Remember how much you're loved.Love is forever,to hold close to your heart ❤️.

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OKPrincess — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:34:46 GMT

I love your story. You are a blessed woman.

Hope you have a wonderful trip to Missouri.

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hennypenny — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:41:32 GMT

Safe travels.

How lovely to have been blessed with two mothers.

They taught you well. You have been a loving daughter and caretaker of animals too.

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deepwaterdotter — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:46:11 GMT

I wish you safe travels and a meaningful visit with your mother. Thank you for a beautiful post.

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GingerHead — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:50:37 GMT

So beautiful! Thanks for that. I guess you found your second mom. How amazing is that?

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luvzchiz — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 22:48:39 GMT

@MamaWick How wonderful to be blessed with two moms and no doubt a wonderful dad.

Wishing you safe travels and blessed time with your family!

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Greeneyedlady21 — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 23:07:32 GMT

@MamaWick That's beautiful

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DSD2 — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 23:30:02 GMT

" I asked if I could bring her anything? A milkshake? She said, "I want just yourselves."

Happy tears.

You not only had two wonderful mothers in your life, your mothers shared you, a remarkable daughter. It's so heartening to hear all the love your family shared.

I will be praying for Ellie and for you and your family. Safe travels...

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NEvans2 — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 23:43:53 GMT

@MamaWick You are one lucky lady! I hope you have a wonderful visit with your mother.❤️

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Goodie2shoes — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 23:46:20 GMT

What a beautiful story ! I bet you could write a wonderful book ! How fortunate you are to have had 2 loving moms. I hope you enjoy your time here in Missouri with your loving mom. I still miss my mom after losing her to Covid in 2020. You are very blessed !

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JeanLouiseFinch — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 00:14:01 GMT

❤️

I Love This!

Safe travels and enjoy your visit.

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on the bay — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 01:23:54 GMT

@MamaWick,

A mother's love is like no other and how wonderful to have 2!

I hope even though this may be a sad time that you will be able to feel all the love between you and she will too.

Safe travels and thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

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AuntG — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 01:27:29 GMT

Heartwarming. Have safe travels and give her one final hug.

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Skyegirl21 — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 02:01:43 GMT

Sending thoughts, strength and love, my dear- You were truly blessed with 2 Moms, and a loving family! Wishing you peace too .💕☀️💪🏽

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KittySoftPaws — Wed, 01 Mar 2023 02:07:55 GMT

Beautiful story.

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ROMARY — Thu, 02 Mar 2023 00:06:40 GMT

Heartfelt wishes for a safe trip and wonderful time with your precious mother.

Precious Moms, precious daughter, precious, wonderful family.

Precious Dad, too.

Blessings always.