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Confidence (not arrogance) and other good traits!

on the bay — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 03:35:51 GMT

I was watching Vincent, a detective series and he is not particularly handsome but he has confidence and with that is very attractive.

Other ones that I think make a person attractive are kindness, compassion, humor, and loving animals!

What are some that you think make someone attractive?

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Spacrazy — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 04:26:12 GMT

Kindness, honesty, hardworking.

EDITED: sense of humor

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on the bay — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 03:33:48 GMT

@Spacrazy,

Yes, I forgot honesty! That was always one of the most important to my mother and her making sure we knew and had that.

There were so many times I wished I could not be but just couldn't do it!

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Foxxee — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 04:15:03 GMT

Loves animals, intelligent, honest, loyal, integrity, self-control, objective, common sense, kind, sense of humor.

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mamaslittlepotato — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 05:40:13 GMT

Compassion, honesty, kindness, confidence, down to earth

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AngelPuppy1 — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 11:12:42 GMT

Yes, some confidence but not smugness or being overly confident. I can't stand that! I love humility, honesty, humor, kindness, strength of character, loyalty, faithfulness, dependabiity, flexibility, cheerfulness, love for God, family and country

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qualitygal — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 11:23:50 GMT

Good trusting friendships.

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Stray — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 13:12:19 GMT

All of the above plus: Ethical, generous in terms of giving of oneself (volunteerism & willingness to help others ), industrious

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jlkz — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 13:18:06 GMT

@Foxxee

You just described DH !

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Sooner — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 13:25:57 GMT

The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

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CANDLEQUEEN — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 13:35:24 GMT

Kind, passionate, hardworking, and the ability to show interest in someone other than themselves!

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PhilaLady1 — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 13:38:06 GMT

I think that the qualities already mentioned are great. But setting aside all of that, confidence can be very sexy.

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PJinIA — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 15:43:15 GMT

Someone who accepts responsibility for their actions or choices in life. They don't blame others or make excuses for their mistakes or failings. I admire people who can admit when they're wrong & correct course if needed. We've all made made mistakes but it's how we handle them that matters more than the mistake itself.

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deepwaterdotter — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 15:58:14 GMT

Financially astute and doesn't snore.

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gertrudecloset — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 19:53:43 GMT

Humility, Fairness in all things (do unto others), intellectual, balanced in temperament and honest.

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candyagain — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 20:04:58 GMT

Smarts and a sense of humor

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Porcelain — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 20:58:53 GMT

A warm heart, slow to anger (though formidable when pushed too far), a sly sense of humor.

And great abs.

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Kalli — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 21:07:29 GMT

So many have already been mentioned. Being kind, hardworking, having some humility also important.

Loyalty very high on my list, too. Everyone talks about someone else once in a while. But a person who constantly talks about someone else as soon as that person leaves the room will never be a loyal friend. JMO

Sense of humor, ability to laugh at yourself, admit mistakes, apologize willingly.

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LuvSoCal — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 02:53:49 GMT

Besides all the traits that make a person a good person he has to be intelligent and have a sense of humor.

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jubilant — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 10:38:37 GMT

Patience, gentleness, generosity, self-control and love of others