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RIP TATIANA PEREBEINIS

Linmo — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 03:47:59 GMT

Tatiana was the Chief Accounting Officer at SE Ranking, a tech company in Palo Alto, CA. She and her two teenage children were killed by Russian artillery fire while trying to evacuate from Irpin, a small city near Kyiv. She was in her early 40's.

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Spacrazy — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 04:18:54 GMT

@Linmo

There are no words...

Thank you for posting this beautiful photo to remind us there are angels that walk with us on this earth and that heaven gained three new ones today.

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spiderw — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 04:36:37 GMT

So very sad. It is heartbreaking what is going on in the Ukraine and all the lives lost. Words cannot express my sorrow for this family and all who have died and are suffering and struggling during this horror.

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Carmie — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 04:45:53 GMT

What makes her story more heartbreaking is that her husband saw the pictures that were posted of her and their children and his best friend....that 's how he found out they were killed. Imagine seeing that.

So very sad and unnecessary.

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Hippiified — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 04:54:07 GMT

So sorry! So much loss!

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beach-mom — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 06:10:42 GMT

@Linmo - Thank you for posting her picture. She was only trying to keep her family safe. We are watching all of this unfold in front of us. And we can't do anything to help but donate financially and pray.

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meallen616 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 09:31:42 GMT

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phoenixbrd — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 11:20:57 GMT

This war could have been avoided....my heartfelt condolences for this woman and her family as well as all of those who have lost their lives during this horrendous war.

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OKPrincess — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 12:34:04 GMT

How terribly sad. Words cannot express my thoughts 🙏🏻🙏🏻

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golding76 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 17:42:21 GMT

Tragic and heartbreaking.

May their memory be eternal!

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Spurt — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 17:47:59 GMT

So sad.....😥

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ValuSkr — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 18:00:38 GMT

Does anyone know why she was in Ukraine with her children? For work? Visiting relatives?

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Cakers3 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:05:27 GMT

Her husband, last I read, said that they are in body bags on the floor in the morgue. He is trying to have them released.

Watching the mass graves...........MASS GRAVES.....and watching the young boy crying as a bag containing his mother is removed.

This isn't about taking over the country; this is about wiping out the people of Ukraine (and onward).

HIstory repeating itself.

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golding76 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:33:21 GMT

Some additional information on this devastated family (from The Washington Post):

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by Julian Mark

Serhiy Perebyinis and his wife, Tatiana

Serhiy Perebyinis found out his family had been killed as much of the world did.

Photos flashing on his Twitter feed showed four people lying next to a World War II memorial just outside Kyiv after they were fired on by the Russian military. One of them was his wife, and two were his children.

“I recognized the luggage, and that is how I knew,” Perebyinis told the New York Times, whose journalists witnessed the incident. Photographer Lynsey Addario captured a widely viewed photograph of the four victims.

It showed Perebyinis’s wife, Tatiana, 43, and their two children, Mykyta, 18, and Alisa, 9. The fourth victim was Anatoly Berezhnyi, a 26-year-old church volunteer who had been crossing with the family, the Times reported. All four died.

Perebyinis confirmed that account in a brief interview with The Washington Post early Thursday, explaining that he recognized his family in the photos from their clothes and personal belongings. He was not with his wife and children because he was caring for his mother in Donetsk.

“This is a war crime, and someone needs to be held accountable,” he told The Post. “I lost everyone and lost the meaning of life.”

The incident took place Sunday. As residents of Irpin attempted to evacuate, Russian troops fired mortar shells upon the city, killing at least eight, The Post reported, including Perebyinis’s wife and children. The attack came as Ukrainian officials accused Russia of violating agreements regarding humanitarian corridors for the evacuation of civilians. Russian officials have denied the accusations, yet the images of the woman and her children lying on the ground have been considered lurid evidence of the war’s violence on ordinary Ukrainians.

“My wife, two children and two dogs died,” Perebyinis said. “I was left alone. We lived happily for 23 years.”

(I did not include the full article.)

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Cakers3 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 21:10:51 GMT

@golding76 wrote:
Some additional information on this devastated family (from The Washington Post):
__________________________________________
by Julian Mark

Serhiy Perebyinis found out his family had been killed as much of the world did.
Photos flashing on his Twitter feed showed four people lying next to a World War II memorial just outside Kyiv after they were fired on by the Russian military. One of them was his wife, and two were his children.

(I did not include the full article.)

@golding76 This really stood out for me. WW2-lessons not learned.

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Linmo — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:28:31 GMT

@ValuSkr Evidently, her company has a large workforce in Kyiv and she lived in nearby Irpin. The company provided emergency evacuation funding for employees and their families to leave the country and she was distributing them. The company is now helping her husband get to Kyiv.

Reported to AP by a co-worker:

Tatiana Perebeinis stayed in Irpin, where she was living, when the Russian invasion started because her mother was sick and her 18-year-old son was required to remain in the country in case he was needed to defend it, Khirvonina said.

He had started university this year.

“She always talked about him, how smart he was,” Khirvonina said. “She was a great mother; giving her kids everything she could.”

The family’s apartment building was bombed the day before they died, forcing them into a basement without heat or food, and they finally decided to flee to Kyiv, Khirvonina said.

“But then Russian troops started firing on innocent civilians,” she said.

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golding76 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:30:02 GMT

I had intended to include this and was interrupted:

Serhiy and Tatiana Perebyinis knew each other in high school and ended up marrying in 2001, he told the Times. They lived in Donetsk, an eastern region in Ukraine, until 2014 when fighting broke out there between pro-Russian separatists and forces backed by Ukraine’s government, Perebyinis told The Post. The family left and settled in Kyiv.

Tatiana Perebyinis worked for SE Ranking, a Silicon Valley software company, joining its offices in Kyiv in 2016 and rising to become the head of the company’s accounting department, Ksenia Khirvonina, a spokeswoman for the company, told The Post. Perebyinis had been in the office with her daughter the day before Russian troops invaded the country on Feb. 24. After that, “no one came to the office, and everyone was hiding or fleeing and trying to leave the country,” Khirvonina said.

In the ensuing days, Perebyinis stayed. Although the company had offered financial assistance for employees seeking to leave, she hunkered down with her children and parents in their home in Irpin, a suburb west of Kyiv. She did not want to leave her son, who was not allowed to exit the country because he was 18 and of fighting age, Khirvonina told The Post. Perebyinis was also concerned about how to move her mother, who has Alzheimer’s disease, the Times reported.

But their apartment building was soon struck by shelling, forcing the family into a basement with no food or electricity, Khirvonina told The Post.

That is when they decided to evacuate. On Sunday, their plan was to join a church group, make their way to Kyiv and figure out a safer destination from there, Serhiy Perebyinis told the Times. They made their way toward Kyiv alongside a damaged bridge and were crossing in front of a World War II monument when they were struck by mortar shells that sprayed out shrapnel shards, the Times reported.

The children died instantly, Khirvonina said, and Serhiy Perebyinis said his wife died at the hospital the next day. Even before the photos hit social media, Perebyinis knew something was wrong because he had been tracking his wife’s cellphone and saw her location jump from the highway to a hospital in Kyiv, he told The Post.

Tatiana Perebyinis’s co-worker knew it was her in the photographs because she had been wearing the coat on a company retreat only weeks before. “My hands just couldn’t stop shaking,” Khirvonina told The Post.

Only weeks earlier, Khirvonina had been paragliding with Perebyinis in the nation of Georgia. It was Perebyinis who had encouraged Khirvonina to take part. She described Perebyinis as a brave woman, a kind mother and a generous co-worker.

“She was a great woman,” Khirvonina said. “And I think it is so unjust that their lives were taken so brutally.”

“There’s no forgiveness, no understanding for those deeds,” she added. “We will never forget that. I am truly scared that this hatred will be with us for … generations to come.”

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ValuSkr — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:39:44 GMT

I saw the photos of their bodies on the bridge. How awful. Her husband / their father recognized their luggage in the pictures and that's how he knew his family was gone.

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golding76 — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 20:44:58 GMT

ValuSkr, you probably read the answer to your question in the additional information I posted on this tragedy, but if not, here is the answer:

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Vivian — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 21:00:39 GMT

The monstrous inhumanity and cruelty of this invasion require world attention. I know that quite a bit has been done already but it does not seem to be sufficient, This poor woman and her children did nothing to deserve this horrible fate. Neither do all the other innocents killed during these past two weeks. It enrages me while at the same time I want to cry for the Ukrainian people.