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Your First REAL Kiss!

beach-mom — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 02:49:12 GMT

I was on a website tonight where this is one of my security questions (the first person you kissed), so I started thinking about it.

I "had a boyfriend" in 6th grade, but the most we did was hold hands. Then I moved north. We wrote for a while, but then just stopped. After that, I was a "late bloomer" when it came to romance.

My first REAL kiss was when I was visiting colleges the summer after my junior year. My mom and I were staying at a hotel, and he was there doing the same thing with his father. We met by the pool and made arrangements to meet there again after dinner. I was so starry eyed, and he was gorgeous!

He was visiting a major university; I was visiting a small college. I ended up going there my first year. I don't know what happened to him. I never saw him again. I suppose if that had happened today we would have exchanged numbers on our cell phones or something!

But he could KISS, and he taught me how!

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

Carmie — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 03:04:39 GMT

I don't remember my first real kiss, but I remember the first time I kissed a boy.

I was in second grade and sat next to a boy named Samuel. Our desks were touching, so we were sitting close.

My best friend told me a boy kissed her and she bragged about it. So, I thought I would try it too. I just tapped him and when he turned his face my way, I kissed him on the cheek. It wasn't all that great and I told my best friend she was bragging about nothing.

Well, that boy told his father and dad thought I had a crush on his son and tried to get us together. His father was disappointed when I married someone else (crazy dad)

I never told his dad that kissing his son was just an experiment and wasn't enjoyable.

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deepwaterdotter — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 03:08:34 GMT

I was 15 years-old on summer vacation at a rented cabin on a lake with my family and some neighborhood friends. One of the neighborhood boys kissed me while sitting in my father's boat in the moonlight. It was actually more romantic than I realized at the time. But I never really liked him as anything other than a friend.

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spent2much — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 03:17:34 GMT

I was about 13 (in eighth grade).Richard had a party at his house and several of us were invited. All of a sudden he sat down next to me, put his arm around me and kissed me. He told me he liked me. Looking back, I think he was a bit too forward. Anyway, he was my boyfriend for about a year and a half. (We did a lot more kissing.) Then in high school, freshman year, he dropped me. JERK! {*_*}

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

Mary Bailey — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 03:31:14 GMT

I'm keeping to myself

thanks for letting me reliver

& he was the one that got away

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

beach-mom — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 03:34:07 GMT

@Carmie @deepwaterdotter and @spent2much - I loved reading your stories!

@Mary Bailey - I'm intrigued, but I understand if you want to keep it to yourself!

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

Snowpuppy — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 04:01:23 GMT

@Mary Bailey wrote:
I'm keeping to myself
thanks for letting me reliver
& he was the one that got away

May the universe hear you and heal your heart.

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

Jk9 — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 04:44:14 GMT

Wow. I really don't remember.

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Mersha — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 05:19:50 GMT

He was my first "love" and I was 14 and he was 16. It was incredibly memorable.

We dated for several years and he broke up with me for someone else. I was crushed. It took a long time to get over him.

I talked with him years down the road and I am very thankful that he was one that got away. He had been married and divorced 3 times.

It is amazing as you go through life and some things that happen seem so awful and you later realize that it all happened so something much better could come your way.

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

beach-mom — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 06:19:40 GMT

@Mersha wrote:
He was my first "love" and I was 14 and he was 16. It was incredibly memorable.

We dated for several years and he broke up with me for someone else. I was crushed. It took a long time to get over him.

I talked with him years down the road and I am very thankful that he was one that got away. He had been married and divorced 3 times.

It is amazing as you go through life and some things that happen seem so awful and you later realize that it all happened so something much better could come your way.

@Mersha - So true! TY for sharing your story!

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songbird — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 09:42:26 GMT

i was 14 and the boy was 17. Yes, it was a real date. He took me to the movies. Then to a restaurant. My mother allowed it. Remember I grew up European. You started dating early and the boy would be older. I was wearing lipstick at 13. By the time I was a junior/senior high school, everyone I dated was in college. He didn't really kiss me. Kiss on the cheek didn't count. I got a real kiss at 16. But I didn't have a real boyfriend till I was 16. And he taught me how to drive. That was better then a kiss! Driver's Ed was the icing on the cake. i was already saving for a car.

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jubilant — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 09:51:53 GMT

I can remember my first kiss because I hated it. I had a crush on this boy. We were around 14. We were walking home from school and all of a sudden he turned to me and came at me with his mouth wide open and tried to french kiss me. I think my nose and mouth were in his. YUK!! It really turned me off. I thought it a slobbery mess and that ended my crush on him. LOL. He obviously had a lot more experience than I did. My next kiss would have been from a guy I met at 15. I don't remember the first time he kissed me but we went steady for 3 yrs.

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BirkiLady — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 12:15:29 GMT

What an odd security question! Most of those first kisses are awkward and with the wrong person. So glad life goes on, we live, learn and have the ability to choose the right person rather than settle for the first guy!!

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Pook — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 13:04:31 GMT

I was in high school and met him at a dance in another town. He was really good looking but was a trumpet player and had strong lip muscles and - well it wasn't much fun and was painful!

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

racada — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 01:15:17 GMT

@Mary Bailey wrote:
I'm keeping to myself
thanks for letting me relive
& he was the one that got away

I don't really remember my first real kiss....but I remember my "best" kiss ever. I too am keeping that to myself. Think of him from time to time, wonder what might have been had circumstances been different.

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

depglass — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 13:29:04 GMT

I honestly can't remember, it must have been a non-event. But I did learn never to date trumpet players.

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Mary Bailey — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 14:26:57 GMT

@racada wrote:
@Mary Bailey wrote:
I'm keeping to myself
thanks for letting me relive
& he was the one that got away

I don't really remember my first real kiss....but I remember my "best" kiss ever. I'm too am keeping that to myself. Think of him from time to time, wonder what might have been had circumstances been different.

@racada I have a best kiss memory too! sigh.....

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lulu1 — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 15:45:16 GMT

My husband and I became an "item" in sixth grade. For some reason, our class started having makeout parties on Saturday afternoons. We played Spin the Bottle to establish your partner for the party. After a few parties, my husband and I became permanent partners. So, I guess that means sometime between then and high school graduation, I had my first REAL kiss.

Both our mothers placed obstacles in our romance and finally managed to break us up when we headed to college. We were broken up for a bit over a year. I fell head over heels in love twice. Fate would bring us back together and in June we celebrated our 50th anniversary.

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CatsyCline — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 16:01:02 GMT

He was my first boyfriend. We were both 14 in eighth grade. We were walking by the edge of a huge (acres and arces) field of rye goofing around. We took our shoes off and started throwing them at each other (kids!) I ran and he ran after me and caught me by the waist and kissed me! i floated on air for days.

We hiked to a lake to swim and rode horses together and sailed. Inseparable. i bought 45s for him and made gum wrapper chains and he invited me over for dinner 2x a week. He was Italian and his mother was the best cook. he called me Honey and his nic was Funny.

We broke up when i went to the mall for back to school shopping with my friends. We were going into 9th grade. He left everything i had ever given him on the back steps. All the records i gave him warped in the sun.

We still keep in touch, just a hello, here and there.

ed: 45 rpm records (not 78s)

Re: Your First REAL Kiss!

JYWilliams — Sat, 28 Aug 2021 18:29:16 GMT

We both where 16 and high school sweethearts