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Prayer please

busymom22 — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:00:15 GMT

In April my husband was laid off due to the pandemic (oil and gas) and his industry was hit hard. Back in July I posted a prayer request about a job that he ended up not getting. Out of 150 applicants he did make the final three. Since then the few jobs that have become available also have tough competition. Here Christmas is soon and he is still unemployed.

I am praying that God would work a miracle and he could get a job soon. My husband is well connected and has never had an issue before so I know this is very tough on him mentally. We were receiving pandemic assistance but because our state's unemployment now is considered "not crisis level" it was abruptly halted last month.

We live in an area where people seem to be doing well so it makes it tough when others don't seem to understand our plight.

I appreciate any and all prayers!

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kathie66 — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:03:37 GMT

@busymom22 Prayers sent to you and your husband. Sending you a virtual hug as well.

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suzyQ3 — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:04:06 GMT

@busymom22 wrote:
In April my husband was laid off due to the pandemic (oil and gas) and his industry was hit hard. Back in July I posted a prayer request about a job that he ended up not getting. Out of 150 applicants he did make the final three. Since then the few jobs that have become available also have tough competition. Here Christmas is soon and he is still unemployed.

I am praying that God would work a miracle and he could get a job soon. My husband is well connected and has never had an issue before so I know this is very tough on him mentally. We were receiving pandemic assistance but because our state's unemployment now is considered "not crisis level" it was abruptly halted last month.

We live in an area where people seem to be doing well so it makes it tough when others don't seem to understand our plight.

I appreciate any and all prayers!

@busymom22, I'm sure that your husband is networking his heart out to find a new position. But I imagine that employers are truly spooked by the unknown right now. I will think good thoughts for both of you.

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Kachina624 — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:06:21 GMT

Perhaps the legislation pending in Congress will help your family? Does dh have other skills he could use in a stopgap job? My state is very much affected by the ups and downs in oil and gas but things seem to be improving.

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alicedee — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:07:25 GMT

@busymom22I am so sorry you two are going through this. Prayers going out that work will become available very soon.

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Mominohio — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:15:34 GMT

@busymom22

I will definitely say a prayer for your family, and that your husband can find meaningful and good employment. I think it hurts anyone who is used to working and providing for their family to be out of work for an extended period of time, but men even more so.

And I hear you about others maybe not understanding where you are right now. We are in the situation where no one we know has lost their job from the Covid crisis (my son did loose a second, part time job in the restaurant industry, but managed to pick up something else, and still has his full time job). In fact, many are working overtime and doing better.

But I understand that is not everyone's reality. Some people have been hit so hard with the loss of work and income during this time, and depending on where you live and what you do to make a living, finding anything close to what you are used to doing and making is getting hard with cases spiking again and more restrictions and closures possible in the near future.

I hope that he is able to find not only 'something' soon, but the just right something that will be his reward for all the stress and worry and waiting he (and you) has endured.

Financial stress is second only to health issues in my opinion in the hardest things to endure.

Hoping that 2021 will be much better for you and for the world as a whole.

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golding76 — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:20:27 GMT

Busymom2,

I pray that my prayers are heard for your husband to find a suitable job -- soon -- and that you and your family can stop being frightened about not having enough money to live with good health and good comfort.

All blessing to you and your family!

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icezeus — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:23:56 GMT

Prayers sent to lift your family up in this most difficult time.

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FancyPhillyshopper — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:30:27 GMT

Yes, Busymom2, we are all thinking about you and your family and wishing you well.

I understand about wanting to stay in the same industry, but perhaps your husband should consider exploring other opportunities.

Can either you or your husband pick up some part-time work, even online, as many people hire during the holidays, especially UPS, Amazon, etc.

Sometimes connections from part-time work leads to full-time jobs.

Working may also improve his mental attitude.

Good luck!

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jubilant — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:33:05 GMT

Prayers have been said. I pray something will come along soon and that, meanwhile, God, will supply all your needs.

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happycat — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:36:19 GMT

Prayers for you and your husband, @busymom22.

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Barbara-QVC — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:37:14 GMT

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godi — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:37:36 GMT

God bless you both in this tough and stressful time. You will definitely be in my prayers. 🙏

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spent2much — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 23:44:56 GMT

I have prayed and will continue to pray for you and your husband, and that something opens up very soon for him. I'm sorry you're in this situation and I can only imagine how difficult it must be. **HUGS**

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Reconnaissant — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 00:06:10 GMT

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NicksmomESQ — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 00:10:57 GMT

@busymom22 My most heartfelt prayers are with you. I've been in your position & understand your situation.Ten years ago my DH's company was bought out & all management people were laid off after being told that they wouldn't be.

For several months DH was a nervous wreck. Our son had just started college & tuition was due.DH spent all day everyday applying for jobs, networking etc. He feared that at 61 he would be forced to retire.
Then one day he got a phone call.He went for a job interview & was given the job on the spot.He beat out several much younger people.They even paid him more than he was making when he got laid off several months before.He got the job just as his severance pay was about to run out.He still works there & has survived several layoffs & has even gotten a couple of promotions.

Something better is about to come your husbands way.Hang on!! Help is coming!!

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LdyBugz — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 00:11:46 GMT

@busymom22 I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. I'm sure it is so stressful on your entire family. I will definitely say a prayer that your husband finds work quickly.

In the meantime, take advantage of all the local resources available to help with groceries. There is no shame in using those services and it can help ease some of the financial stress.

Wishing you all the best,

~LdyBugz

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Mellyg — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 00:25:44 GMT

I pray your husband not only finds a job, but one that brings him fulfillment. I know you prayed for a miracle, and remember that the Lord works in mysterious ways.

May you and your husband have a Christmas miracle!

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Lucky Charm — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 00:26:02 GMT

I'm sorry this happened to your husband, it's a terrible situation to be in.

The oil industry took a big hit with the pandemic and not sure where you are logistically, but the east coast is down to a couple of refineries.

Not sure what his position is, but there are jobs available, but you must be willing to travel/relocate. I'm sure you already know this.

Maybe another type of work is in the cards for him?

Here's hoping something comes along and soon. Prayers to all who are in this position.

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AuntG — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 00:26:10 GMT

I remember your post from July and have thought about you. Will pray too. When a person knows their spouse would make an excellent employee, it's hard to see them being overlooked.