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Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

Annabellethecat66 — Sat, 08 Aug 2020 23:02:02 GMT

I've mentioned that I'm 'redoing' 4 of my bathrooms.

Here's the problem. This is the first time I've had to pick out 'stuff' without my late husband.

He designed the house and picked out everything. I was and am still not interested in anything even remotely called redecorating.

One thing I do know is I want to put a bidet into the master bathroom.

I have a very fancy Kohler toilet in the hall powder room. I like the look of it, no problem, I replaced a chocolate colored one when my husband was alive. Replace it with bisque color.

I tend to like the color bisque but white works too. So no big deal on the toilet.

It's the bidet that's making me nuts.

I have no experience with bidets. My son in law's brother lives in Silicon Valley in California. He has bidets (Toto) in all of the bathrooms. I'd ask him but I'm not about to pay $1,000 for a bidet toilet, so I doubt if he'd be helpful.

Does anyone here know about bidets?

This has been a real head trip because when he was alive I'd tell him what I wanted or liked and he bargained and paid for it.

I don't like expensive stuff. I think I just have normal (whatever that is) taste.

Any ideas from some of you who post amazing pictures of furniture and houses.

I know about wallpaper. I used to put it up in my house and for my friends....but bidet...absolutely zip.

Help! Please?!

Re: Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

Lakeview — Sat, 08 Aug 2020 23:21:32 GMT

I have had bidets for over 15 years. First you have to decide If you want hot or cold water, if you want hot need an electric outlet by your toilet or if your toilet is next to your vanity you can Hook the bidet to your hot water under the sink. I have had bio bidet and Coco which are expensive but they are all in one including the seat cover. I have also in the past purchased simple ones from Amazon. These are simply attached to the toilet and then you need to buy a toilet seat to put on top. The buttons to operate are off to the side. These can run from 50 some dollars and up. You can get cold water ones and hot water ones. If you happen to purchase one that has both hot and cold and don't have a way to hook up the hot You can just hook up the cold. Check out Amazon and as I said I have purchased less expensive ones in the past and they work fine. I would not not have bidets. I have three bathrooms and they all have bidets. One of my bathrooms has a biobidet, one a coca and the one in the basement one from Amazon (that one is cold water only). Love love them and I hope this helps. Also when you purchase one make sure to match your toilet as they come round or elongated.

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Judaline — Sat, 08 Aug 2020 23:21:41 GMT

Hi, yeah, so what do you want to know, @Annabellethecat66 . When we built this house 20 years ago I made sure that I could fit a bidet into one of our 2 bathrooms. I know there are two kinds (at least there were back then). You can sit-straddle- the seat and the flow will hit you from the front. OR, you can get the one which has the flow shooting up from the floor (for lack of a better word) of the bidet and hits you in the bottom. We chose this one and I'm not sorry. You adjust the flow with one handle and the temp just like you do your faucets. I chose Kohler for all of our sinks, and the bidet. All of the stoppers rusted out after about 12 years. The bidet could be used for a footbath, too, only the stopper broke off so that it can't be fixed without taking apart the whole bloody thing. We passed on that and just make do with what we've got. I really like it otherwise and sure comes in handy, especially for young girls-wish I'd had one at that time of month. Too late! Anyway, they say if you have a bidet you shouldn't need toilet paper. It's mostly true. So if you want to know if you should get one, yes, get one. I don't think those attachments to a present toilet would be nearly as nice as a bidet. BTW, mine's bisque!

Re: Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

Annabellethecat66 — Sat, 08 Aug 2020 23:43:56 GMT

@Judaline @Lakeview Thanks for your help. I've been reading up on them probably off and on for a year or so.

I initially wanted to put it in the hall powder room. My girls have said I shouldn't do that, so I'm putting it in the master bathroom.

I probably won't be using it much because ... well...it's in the master bathroom. No exactly close.

I have been getting an education briefly from the general contractor. The toilets in 3 of the bathrooms are the original ones from when we built the house in late 70's. I never thought about how short they were until someone mentioned.

The one in the hall powder room is a Kohler and much higher than the older ones. I almost feel like my knees are up to my boobs sitting on them. I never use them, just mostly the powder room one, I guess that's why I didn't realize.

I've learned about tile too. Never paid any attention until I had to pick out tile. Good grief!

I always try to think about what someone else would like if they bought it. Eventually, I will probably move.

My daughter who's been helping me with the house kept telling me I needed one of those chairs that go up the stairs.

No way am I ready for that thing. It's so slow, I'd end up never using it and it would get in the way. Besides, I can go up and down the stairs (split foyer).

Anyway, thanks for the info. I appreciate the way both of you took time to answer my questions.

It's not like it really matters anyway. It's just toilets and cabinets.

OMG! Wait til I have to replace the wall to wall carpeting. Good grief! I sure miss my husband. He was so good at this stuff.

Re: Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

SouthernBee — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 00:12:58 GMT

@Annabellethecat66 : Thank you for posting. I am doing the same research and getting more confused. Got my head spinning when asked if my toilet was round or what was the other word ( see desperately need help) and with my poor eyes my toilet didn't look like anything they said. All I know is that my toilet sits on top of a toilet riser that I purchased from Amazon, because my toilet was low like trying to sit on the kiddie toilet in the church nursery. I have hip and lower back issues and thought the bidet could help. Looking forward to all the information you receive. Southern Bee

Re: Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

Nuttmeg — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 00:22:19 GMT

I have Toto toliets and Washlets. Amazon sells them or you can buy from your favorite plumbing supply dealer.
These fixtures only need a GFI outlet. The units heat the seat and the water.

These go well with Grohe fixtures in your bathrooms and kitchen. They tend to be expensive, but they will give your areas a special touch.

Re: Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

fthunt — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 00:47:47 GMT

Why would anybody want a 'shot' of cold water........over warm?

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Lucky Dog — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 01:10:07 GMT

I know you said you were not going to use it so it wasn't going to be in your master bathroom. You said you were going to put it in the powder room for guests to use then?

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Lucky Dog — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 01:11:32 GMT

Oops. Seen that you do want to put it in the master bath.

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Georgiagrama — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 02:11:09 GMT

@Annabellethecat66 Can't help you with prices or brands, but I sure would love to have one. If I had the opportunity, I'd sure be getting one.

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Mindy D — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 06:13:56 GMT

I have a built in separate porcelain bidet. I never use it. The thought of having water shoot up on me from it grosses me out. I know there are bidet attachments people add to existing toilets. I'm not a fan of bidets.

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Mindy D — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 06:20:43 GMT

@Annabellethecat66 I believe Kohler still makes a bisque color bidet.

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Witchy Woman — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 10:09:57 GMT

@Annabellethecat66

@Nuttmeg

When we built, we considered a bidet, but ended up not doing so. However, like @Nuttmeg I have a Toto toilet seat that does the same thing.

I would not be without it.

DH installed in the master bath which is the one I most often use. He has his own bathroom in the garage as he is a builder and said he doesn't want to drag his dirt in the house. That's fine with me.

The main advantage is you don't have to have a second fixture in your bathroom. This attaches to the existing toilet and has all the same features...heated water, seat, pressure adjustment.

I highly recommend you check them out before installing a separate bidet. A skilled plumber will be able to install it. They are not cheap, but not as much as a bidet. And, they fit right on to your existing toilet.

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Susan-QVC — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 11:43:35 GMT

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Epicurean — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 18:24:36 GMT

Annabellethecat. I don't have a bidet,but if we redo our BFF I'm getting one! Check out the library magazines. The latest issue of consumer reports has a article/ratings of them

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Georgiagrama — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 18:34:18 GMT

@Annabellethecat66 One thing I meant to add was that if you are allergic to TP the bidet is a lifesaver, and if you have hemorrhoids I have heard it's a must have.

I would say to investigate and go for it!!

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pattypeep — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 18:54:39 GMT

@Annabellethecat66 OMG, I have always wanted a bidet. Sounds like you are having a grand time with the remodeling. I wish I lived near you, I would love to help you make decisions. I saw that you mentioned moving at some point and having to decide on carpet. May I suggest that you go with hardwood floors instead as they are much easier to maintain and a good selling point. There are so many choices like ceramic, etc. Good luck, Miss A.

Re: Help! Does Anyone Know About Bidets?

Annabellethecat66 — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 18:55:33 GMT

@Witchy Woman When I said bidet I wasn't talking about a separate fixture....I was talking about the same thing you have...

Toto is one of the best. There are a few rated higher but it fits on the toilet.

I didn't even think that anyone would think about a separate 'bidet'.

I'm getting major push-back from friends and family about putting it in the master bath versus the powder room upstairs.

I'd have to walk past the hall powder room, through my bedroom to the master bathroom, versus walking to the powder room like I usually do.

I get a headache thinking about this stuff. I have two things going on here..first I don't like making decisions and I find it boring (probably because I'm not good at decorating).

Wow! I've had an epiphany! Thanks for helping me decide.

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Annabellethecat66 — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 19:10:15 GMT

@pattypeep I'd love to have hardwood floors. The look so clean and nice and make a room look bigger.

However, hardwood floor are too hard on my fake knees. That's why I have to have wall to wall carpeting.

I know it's probably stupid but I'll get carpeting now and maybe before I move get the hardwood floors put in.

I just want to live here for 6 months to a year with it back as it was before my husband died.

Right now it's not bad and wasn't bad before but when he died everything worked and was still pretty new (redid house after fire in 2001 and he died 2004).

The walkway is the main thing I'm getting done and the porch in front. Also total redone in the master bath but nothing amazing. It's a typical 70-80's style small bathroom. Back then we did our business and left the room.

I'm going to see if my daughter could help me post pictures. She leaves to go back to Denver on Tuesday morning. Boo-hoo.