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Opinion - Revenge

CrazyDaisy — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:45:43 GMT

Necessary or Petty.

I usually just walk away, the universe has a way to even things out.

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CelticCrafter — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:40:34 GMT

Not worth it.

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shoptilyadropagain — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:41:27 GMT

Walk away

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Group 5 minus 1 — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:43:06 GMT

.......best served cold.

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sue311 — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:44:05 GMT

yeah I would walk away....but the natural side you know that side of the shoulder where the devil sits would love to be there when karma comes back to bite them.

Its like the person who gets upset with you cause you are driving the speed limit then races pass you and then down the road you realize they got pulled over by the police

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Melvin-QVC — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:46:55 GMT

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LindaSal — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 12:52:52 GMT

Yes, walk away. I am a true believer in karma.

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dex — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 13:12:07 GMT

I don’t bother with revenge...it takes too much underserved time and attention.I just move on and problem is gone.

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FrostyBabe1 — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 13:22:03 GMT

Mostly walk away. There've been a couple instances when the actions that the other party took were illegal and I didn't hesitate to contact law enforcement. Neither case led to prosecution (due to case loads,) but the other party certainly got the message that what they'd done was wrong.

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deepwaterdotter — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 13:53:41 GMT

Only if the Constitution provides a legal remedy.

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silkyk — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 13:59:12 GMT

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Melvin-QVC — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:02:55 GMT

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Peaches McPhee — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:04:29 GMT

Revenge seems like so much bother and trouble. Why give the offending party that much time and thought?

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Carmie — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:09:56 GMT

No one ever did anything to me that I have wanted to revenge. I never thought about revenging anyone.

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qualitygal — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:28:14 GMT

Old statement I read, "as long as you hold on to negative, unforgiving feelings, that situation or person, has a hold over you. Let it go and get on with living. Free yourself."

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deepwaterdotter — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:25:03 GMT

@qualitygal wrote:
Old statement I read, "as long as you hold on to negative, unforgiving feelings, that situation or person, has a hold over you. Let it go and get on with living. Free yourself.

Good advice.

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Anonymous032819 — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:37:46 GMT

I don't believe in karma.

I think it's something that we tell ourselves to make ourselves feel better.

"Karma will get 'em!"

Too many times the guilty party live better lives than the one that they wronged.

The innocent suffer, while the guilty goes scott-free.

I have seen that happen too many times to believe that "karma's gonna get'em".

But do I believe in revenge?

The only time that I get "revenge" is in my own head, as I fantasize about what I wish that I could do to them, or wish what would happen to them.

Other than that, nope, I don't get revenge.

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cherry — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:40:20 GMT

Revenge is like taking poison ,and waiting for the other person to die

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Lucky Charm — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:41:59 GMT

It depends!

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LilacTree — Wed, 02 Oct 2019 14:42:33 GMT

I’ve had two situations in my life where estrangement was involved, one over a serious situation and one over someone’s juvenile issue with me.

I tried with the first for over ten years to facilitate reconciliation and just recently realized It’s never going to happen. Her goal is to hurt me to the core. I am trying to cope with that at this time.

The other I extended an olive branch and if it is not accepted, I will walk away.

I am too old now to browbeat myself over things that are beyond my control.