topic Re: because of the in Community Chat

because of the

shortbreadlover — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:36:37 GMT

snarky remarks that some of the posters have made here, i won't be postingagain.

i know that post has imho, but of the posts are just down right mean and i do not need that or do i want to be a part of that

Re: because of the

traveler — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:39:08 GMT

No idea what happened but okay.

Re: because of the

MandyG06 — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:42:37 GMT

what post did you get 'snarky remarks' about?

Re: because of the

Susan-QVC — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:43:30 GMT

This post has been removed by QVC rude

Re: because of the

suzyQ3 — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:44:31 GMT

My guess is that the OP was very hurt by a thread about scissors, and child, and the library where she works. It definitely did not go as she undoubtedly had planned.

Welcome to message boards, @shortbreadlover . It does require a bit of toughness sometimes.

You seem like a very kind person, but no can make up your mind for you. I'd like to see you stay, but it's your choice.

Re: because of the

Bri369 — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:46:36 GMT

Everyone has a difference of opinion. What you see as mean, someone sees as the truth.

Your choice to stay or go...

Re: because of the

Anonymous — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:46:41 GMT

This post has been removed by QVC

Re: because of the

cherry — Tue, 14 May 2019 17:55:05 GMT

@shortbreadlover you don't seem to understand there are many parents and grandparents posting here

When you insult their children/grands even indirectly, you are bound to raise their ire

Re: because of the

LTT1 — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:00:10 GMT

@shortbreadlover

I’m sorry that you got your feelings hurt.💔

Re: because of the

dex — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:01:36 GMT

@shortbreadlover @I wouldn’t get too upset about a few differences of opinion.You were happy knowing that everyone loved you for helping the older couple so you are batting 50.Cant be the hero all of the time...I think you are a kind and caring person and I am certain that you try to be so that is why your feelings are hurt.I take the negatives that I receive here as a learning experience about myself.Sometimes there are things brought to my attention that I wasn’t aware of and I think I could work on that or I am going to accept that about myself....I don’t beat myself up over it though as I never expect to be perfect but just a decent human being.

Re: because of the

beckyb1012 — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:07:06 GMT

Do not let the Snarks win. I guarantee if you stop and think about it the Posters that are kind, courteous, and care are greater in number than the narrow minded rude folks. Stay and when things become difficult just click off for a while or go to another forum for a bit.

Re: because of the

Love to Run — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:10:35 GMT

It's best not to make broad generalizaitons about entire groups of people. That usually doesn't go over well.

Re: because of the

Susan-QVC — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:12:41 GMT

This post has been removed by QVC unkind

Re: because of the

Group 5 minus 1 — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:12:43 GMT

I think you gotta develop a tough skin.I know that is hard.

Re: because of the

kaydee50 — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:15:01 GMT

Don't know what post the OP is referring to but as someone mentioned do not criticize children/grandchildren even if you don't know them or make general statements.

And if you want to leave this forum, do so. No need to announce it.

Re: because of the

I am still oxox — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:16:11 GMT

Give me a break, I read the thread the OP is upset about, there were very few facts stated so of course people had questions

Re: because of the

kitcat51 — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:19:54 GMT

Take care, be well @shortbreadlover .

Re: because of the

Perkup — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:23:44 GMT

I am sorry that you feel as you do. You have to understand that if there are two people there will be two different opinions. Each of us bases our opinions on our personal experiences, so they are bound to be different. Maybe you can reconsider and choose to continue posting kind and thoughtful opinions. It might help someone else in the long run. Good luck.

Re: because of the

occasionalrain — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:31:46 GMT

@Anonymous032819 wrote:
For those who are wondering what the o/p is talking about, she recently posted about how a child came up to her at the library and asked her to cut something out for her, because it was too hard for her.

The o/p call the child, and as a result, all children lazy, because the child asked for help with the task of cutting something out.

This is the same poster who bent over backwards to help an older homeless couple, too.

The child never said it was hard. The child said it would take too long. Big Difference!

She just wanted the OP to do it for her because she didn't want to do it herself.

Re: because of the

NicksmomESQ — Tue, 14 May 2019 18:34:37 GMT

@shortbreadlover I know exactly how you feel. It’s happened to me too. The thing you must remember is once you post something it’s out there for people to interpret however they want.

We don’t know eachother personally,just through our communications.Therefore,sometimes people will misinterpret what we mean either unintentionally or on purpose.Or they may just disagree with our view. We have no control over others responses. But we do have control over how we handle them.I will never allow negative responses to ruin my day.

I often say that we are all friends on these boards.That being said some people just enjoy being negative.Don’t give them the power to get to you.Just move on.

I hope you reconsider & stay.There are many more good people than negative ones.